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i just found out that my boyfriend cheated on me
iam 18 years old and my boyfriend is 16 years old and i just found out over the weekend that he kissed some whore named kelly and i've been cryubg over him for 2 days and i don't think that i can take it anymore what should i do?
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aw im so sorry
well first does he know thaty u kno he cheated? if he doesnt confront him sit him down tell him how hurt u are out himn on the spotlight se ehwo he reacts if hes a total ass and oesnt even show any inetrst to fix it DUMP him.
my boyfriend cheated on me and i had to dumo him and im sitll in love iwth him but it was the righ tthing to do
i kno this is a hard time in you love life righ tnow but just talk to him about thats all ic an say
depend ure desicion on how the talk goes
if you need anymore help dont hesitate to email me
goodluk sweety
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You know the expression, "boys will be boys"? Well, I say that cheaters will be cheaters. As much as all of this is hurting you (and I completely understand where you're coming from), there's no guarentee that he'll change his ways. What he did is unexcusable. If he really cared about you, he wouldn't have gone for someone else. It doesn't matter how far things went with that other girl, or what he thinks of her. The fact is that he compromised your trust, and thus your relationship. It's his fault. I know it hurts, and it may take a while to get over, but trust me, the best thing to do is break things off before they get worse. How you do that is up to you, but tell him in person, be strong and firm, and DO NOT give in. He may try to apologize and win you back, but you have to be the strong one and put him in his place.
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Forget him! Easier said than done, I know, but he's obviously a jerk if he's out macking on other chicks .. & it seems like you really cared about the guy. It'll take time, but you need to try to move on. Spend time with friends, focus on school for awhile, go out & have fun!
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I always hate to here about cheaters and the pain they inflict on the ones they claim to care about. If it was me personally I'd kick him to the curb without another thought, but I've seen it enough to know it's not that simple. so here are some tips, if you decide to forgive him, remember it was only a kiss it could have been worse, and if he really is remorseful, I think you'll be able to sense it. start keepin an eye on him alot until he regains your trust. If you cant forgive him, and don't think he can regain your trust you really should save yourself the trouble and break it off. otherwise your in for a long rocky relationship filled with doubt and mistrust. not worth the constant mental pain trust me. If you are able to break it off get in touch with your gal pals, nothin like man bashin with your girls to make you forget a jerk.
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Dump him. Obviously he is not loyal and honest, and you can find a better man! It is better just to say "see-ya!" now, than get hurt later.
good luck
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