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stupid fingers.
okay, well my friend got fingered for the first time the other day and now she's been worrying about it. she think's that she is pregnant but i'm telling her that she can't be because it's totally impossible because she didn't have sex or anything. and she hasn't gotten her period and she's 2weeks late. i told her that i think it's because she doesn't have a regular period, because she hasn't had it for over 2years and normally that's when it starts getting regular. her boyfriend only fingered her, she didn't do anything to him so i'm really not sure what to tell her except that she isn't pregnant. what do you guys think?
PS. when she got fingered after she bled alittle, and i told her that maybe he scratched her or something because you never know.
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well if her boyfriend had sperm on his fingers and then fingered her, then she may be pregnant but i have this friend that got fingered and it was her first time and she missed her period that whole month and she wasnt pregnant
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ok its true that you cant get pregnant from being fingred .. however, if there was sperm on her boyfriend's hands this may cause a problem and there may be a SLIGHT chance she is pregnant.
take her to planned parenthood to get a test if she doesnt want her parents to know .
another possible reason is she could have an std this is very possbile so she may want to check with a doctor
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Ok first of all Unless he masturbated before he fingered her theres pretty much no possible way she could be pregnant, because, obviously that would mean she didn't come in contact with sperm. You are right about the whole late period situation, your period does not become regular within until you've had it for about two years, so being a couple weeks late shouldn't be anything to worry about.
And second of all, it is totally normal that she bled a little. This most likely means that he "popped her cherry". Im not going to go into detail about that right now though.
If she's still worried about being pregnant you can give her my screen name && i could definitly reasure her that she has nothing to worry about. (its xokaylao2)
Hopefully i helped,
<33 Kayla (:
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There is no way a girl can get pregnant from getting fingered, unless he had his cum on his finger, which I am guessing wasnt the case. And she is a teenager, and periods are at an awkward stage so sometimes they dont exactly follow schedlue. And the bleeding is normal, so she shouldn't worry about it.
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Although all the advice given so far is very fair, I'd just like to add here that your friend clearly knows nothing about sex. This certainly isn't meant in a nasty way - it's just that she should not be fooling around with her boyfriend if she doesn't know what the risks involved are. I took the liberty of researching a couple of websites where she can find out more about sex and contraception.
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If she's not clued up then at some point she DOES run the risk of getting pregnant, and I think she's lucky to have a concerned, wiser friend like you!
Hope I helped!
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The most likely conclusion is that no, she isn't pregnant. The only way you can conceive through fingering is if there is sperm on the guy's fingers at the time. As she had not done anything to him, the chances of this are slim to be non (also for your friend's benefit - a guy CAN get you pregnant without climaxing. Putting it delicately, when they're excited they leak.)
As for her period being late, it's always a good idea to see your GP when this sort of thing happens. Many things can affect your period. Stress, diet, antibiotics, you name it so if she's concerned, get her to see her doctor. And tell her not to worry, she'll be fine.
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The only way this could've happened is if his hands were covered in sperm and some got inside of her while he fingered her. And even then, the chances are remote.
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well i read in a magazine and it sed you can get pregnate from getting fingured but he wood have to have sprem on his hands so idk if he had any..i wansnt thereeeeeeeee.
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Yeah, there is NO possible way to get pregnant by him fingering her. If she bled a little its probably because he might have broke the hymen. Just because she hasnt gotten her period in 2 weeks doesnt mean anything. I didnt get my period for 7 monthes, and I wasnt pregnant, haha. So just reassure her that she is not pregnant, and that there is no possible way and that she is completely normal. In the teenage years its so completely normal to skip for monthes at a time, because our periods are starting to form a regular flow. Have her even look stuff up online if she doesnt believe you or me, haha.
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I think your friend is an idiot for thinking that fingers make you pregnant. OMGURSOFUNNYLOL!!!
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I THINK you can get pregenant from getting fingered but im not sure
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tell her that she is deff not pregnant because it takes sperm to make a baby ..... and maybe she needs to get that checked out if she isnt getting her period and getting it sometimes.... the bleeding thing is perfectly normal all you need to tell her is to make him cut his finger nails or you will regret it later haha and if his finger nails are cut than to start using lub because she could be bleeding from his fingers rubbing her raw. really all you have to let her know is that it takes sperm to make a baby thats why you always need to use protection!!!!!!!!!! hehe i hope i helped
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it is normal to bleed alittle(i was once told it was called breaking your cherry) I guess theres something inside a woman that usually only once this happens and it breaks and bleeds alittle. But also, there is no possible way she could be pregnant unless he went inside her with his dick..no wayyy..she must be young enough that the periods arent regular and dont worry..if shes sure theres no way she had sex than dont worry..fingering is just fine..tell her not to worry and her periods will be more regular eventually and if not a birth control pill would help it to be(also would help acne and cramps that you get with periods and eventually when shes sexual would prevent pregnancy too-i started 3 yrs before i had sex on the pill for acne and was glad..then i didnt have to tell my mom about it, just stayed on it :-) just some advice. Hope it helps.
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You're correct; there's no way she can be pregnant, especially since there was no sperm involved. You have to actually have sex and have sperm enter your vagina to become pregnant. So, you're right with telling her she's not pregnant, because there's no way she is.
Her period could be irregular and just because it hasn't been irregular before, doesn't mean it can't start. Everyone's period is different and hers could just be going through some changes right now.
As for her bleeding, it could have been her cherry, or he could have scratched her, either or really, but nothing to worry about.
Tell her to calm down a bit, it seems like she's stressing over this a lot. Because she's stressing, it could be holding her period back. Tell her to calm down, she has NOTHING to worry about. ♥
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okie i think you are right i dont think she has a regular period at all..but since she started bleeding a little i think that would mean her cherry popped and when your cherry pops or u have sex or someone fingers you then you start bleeding a little but tell her to go see like a docter about hre period of she hasnt got her period for 2 years coz i heard it can be a real serioud problem
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Everyone knows that you can totally get pregnant from boy fingers. She's prego. Tell her to get over it.
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She is not pregnant, she is probably just unsettled because it was the first time her boyfriend did that. The blood was probably her hymen, I doubt if he scratched her.
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ok, shes DEFF not pregnant. yeah um, sperm doesnt come out of your finger :)
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She's not pregnant.
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You should tell your friend not to be doing anything sexually if she can't be smart enough about it to know that you CANNOT get pregnant through simple fingering.
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Hey. As long as there was no sexula intercorse then she is NOT pregnant. Thw bleeding was probably caused by her hymen breaking. About her period... maybe she is very self conscious about the fingering thing and has gotten very worried. This can make her suggest to herself subconsciously certain things (like that she might get oregnant) and that is why her period is late. Just the simple fact that she is stressing about it can make her period late. But nobody has ever gotten pregnant by getting fingered (...unless the finger has sperm... which even then it would not be common) If she is telling you this you guys are obviously close friends so as long as you don't seem judgemental or make fun of her or do anything that might make her stress out even more it'll help. Also, tell her that it's okay to be nervous and worried about your first times and stuff but she's definitely not pregnant.
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She`s definately not pregnant. It`s totally normal to be late even if she has had her period for over 2 years. She might have been bleeding a little because her hymen was broken. Just be a good friend to her and tell her to relax. ♥ Allie.
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Stress can make you miss your period. If she's worried about it, that can cause it not to come! Tell her not to worry. Unless the guy was touching himself and then her with the same hand, she can't be pregnant.
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You're definatly right. she cannot be pregnant. <3
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youre right. shes not pregnant. except if there was a sperm released out of his finger or something but i highly doubt that. and if shes late then its okay, even after 2 years it still isnt always normal. for the past year i have been 2 weeks late and ive had mine for over 3 years. so just keep saying what you are. <333 kalie
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she's only pregnant if sperm was involved, but obviously it wasn't so she's not pregnant.
-hope that helped!♥
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