I am 4teen years old, and I attend Voorhees High School, which makes me a freshman. I do not drink or smoke. I do it by choice; unlike most of you who do it because you think it makes you look hxc. I am a cheerleader. Go ahead laugh. You have no idea what we do, or how much effort we put into what we do until you try and fail. So don't talk shit about something you have never even attempted. I have a pretty decent life. I have two best friends. Caroline Korba and Casey Scarlets. I could sit here and blab on about how much my friends are my [everything] unfortunently I'm not one of those people who opens up to the world and makes close friends at first glance. These people who claim that they would die without their friend sicken me. Are you that dependent on the feelings of others? I have my close friends, and I'll always be here for them. But I'll also give them a cold shoulder when I know they need to take the situation in their own hands. Its not mean its facing reality. We all need to learn to find our own self reliance.
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Okay I am a large person yet personally I think I am starting to look a bit better like I might actually have lost a few pounds. However my scale is saying the opposite, that I have gained a LOT of weight. What is going on? (link)
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The fat is turning into muscle, muscle weighs more
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I have a boyfriend and he is really nice. He is always very sweet and considerate of me. He has made it clear that he really likes me alot and I like him too.
He sounds really outgoing on the phone, but then at school he is so nervous, he can barely talk to me. My friends and I get the feeling that he thinks I'm really popular and experienced which actually, I'm not. So on instant messenger he kept saying, "Were going to make on on Monday and school" and he always calls me "babe" on the phone or computer. But then at school, he is so nervous around me.
So, is he a jerk, or just one really nervous insecure kid? (link)
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He is not a jerk, he is just shy. Give him time and just talk to him a lot. Make him feel comfortable in school. :]
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what do you wear to go ice skating at like a ice rink? (link)
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Cute jeans, and a cute shirt, you get warm cause you are moving non-stop but bring a jacket because you'll be cold when you first get there :]
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I am quite small and don't have much fat on my body. I weigh 90 pounds and i'm about 4' 10.5'' I have very muscualar legs, arms, and shoulders. My problem area: my lower stomache. I have a minor pot belly. YUCKKK!
I'm in 7th grade and have a really busy schedule. The only time i could fit in some excercise would be when i get home from school, but im usually famished and need some rest. I'm not fat and i will never think that EVER no matter what. I accept who I am completely, but I do think staying healthy is important. I need help motivating myself to leg lifts and that crap. i don't like it! It hurts! What can i do to motviate myself and fit in an excersise schedule? (link)
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Do it before you go to bed, even if its for like 10 minutes. At least you attempted? And you will make your esteem higher for just putting the effort in
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i know that you can take a test to see weather or not you've done drugs but if you did drug when you were 14 and then took a drug test when you 18 would it show up....don't worry i'm not a freaking idiot who would f*** up their life just to get a high and seem cool for a minutes so don't worry i was just wondering (link)
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No, the drug disappears in like thirthy days or something.
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well my hairs naturally wavy/curly so after I shower (at night) I usually scrunch it with some gel. But when I wake up, my hair flattens out and I lose my curls. I cant stand curling my hair and I was wondering if theres anything I can do to not make it flatten out or what to do in the mourning to fix it? thanks (link)
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Take a shower in the morning? Or put curling roll things in your hair. or put it in a messy bun.
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Okay, so I'm currently dating this guy for about 2 months now. He has a problem with drugs and I realize he's trying to stop. He also has a girl who lives in CT (we live in DE) and he had dated him over the internet for awhile. She stopped talking to him for months and now all the sudden she's trying to get back with him. He recently broke up with me because "he had to get his life straight" (which I know was true because i can tell when he's lying) but he gives into easily and the day after he broke up with me this girl called him back and they ended up going back out. Four day's later this guy asks me back out saying he knows he's made a mistake and that I'm the only girl who has cared about him like I do and I'm the one he wants to be with and I know most of it is true because he was crying when he told me this and he NEVER cries. I don't know if I can trust him...I love him but after that I don't know...I know he cares because he told me after he had done it and realized he made a mistake and the whole time he was going out with her he told me he loved me and never once told her he loved her (which IS true bcuz I talked to her) I just need help with this trust issue. Does anyone have a way I can learn to trust him more and if not do you think I should just break up with him and find someone who wont do this to me? I know this girl is just using him because she's lonly because her b/f just broke up with her and she'll be gone as soon as she finds another but I just don't know...I just need some advice. Help me out...I'll rate you high. (link)
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I don't know, it seems like you know what you were doing. I would stay with him, because he seems like a really sweet messed up guy. Besides, its over the internet... what can he do? e-kiss her? I mean thats the suppidest thing in the world.
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i'm a sophmore in high school and have been going out with my gf since september. we go to different schools but they are pretty close only like 20 minutes awayy. she said shae doesnt want me to talk to her friends from skool which is weird, cuz i actually introduced her to friends from my skool. her friends are never around or with us when we hang out but i've met them a few times. is it wrong for her to do that, tellm e i cant talk to her friends? (link)
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thats really wrong. shes either ashamed of you. or is playing you. talk to her about it. tell her you dont think its right. be straight.
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Ok, I'm about to have sex for the first time. I've been waiting for ages and I am prepared now. My boyfriend has had sex before a few times so I need a little help on stuff:
a. Is there going to be a lot of blood?
b. Is it going to hurt? (My friend told me it hurt like a mother- through the whole thing on her first time)
c. Is there anything I should know? I know I'm not going to be that great but I don't want to look stupid.
d. What should I do once it's over? (link)
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a. no dime sized amount
b. yes
c. just be careful
d. talk to him? make out? uh. lame question
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I think I have a yeast infection. Its itchy down there a lot. My discharge is a normal color though. Do I need to get this checked out by a doctor? And how do I tell my mom? I'm 13. Do I just buy something like Monistat? And what if I use medication and I don't have a yeast infection?
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go to the doctor, sometimes they prescribe something and its not always over the counter. trust me you'll be relieved.
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This is not the kinda question i should be asking, but im curious. (dont get grossed out)
Im a guy who is very sexually active with one partner, my question is the following..my girlfriend hardly ever gives me head not because she doesnt want to, but because for the last 8 months or so, ive had this very bad odour comming from my penis. The thing is im the cleanest person ever, i shower everyday and pay extra attention to washing my penis properly, however 10 or 15 minutes later, the smell is back. Ive gotten checked for all stds many of times, and i know for a fact that im my girlfriends first and only lover. Any body have any ideas as to why this odour keeps on destroying my feallatio fantasies? (link)
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well. have you gone to a doctor since you started to notice the smell? if not, go. otherwise, search the internet. who knows, it may be normal.
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I have yellowish Asian skin, long, almond-shaped brown eyes and coarse black hair. Can anyone give me makeup tips? Pleeease don't suggest brown eyeliner. It just doesn't look good. (link)
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Use colors like eye pencil colors, they look really cuteee.
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hey my sister has recently cut my hair and i really dont like it i think its too short, i was wondering if anyone has tried any hair products or has any tips on fast hair growth. thank you. (link)
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i heard if you rub your head, like the blood rushes to your hair so it grows faster.
honestly.
i think it works
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hey is there any way I can put on eyeliner so that it wont come off after a few minutes? I think I may have watery eyes or something but it all runs to the outer corners a few minutes after I put it on and i use a top quality one too (Rimmel London)
is there anything to help?
thankx luv
rach xxx (link)
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Put it by your eye lashes, not like the inner part that most people put it on, or wear a lot of mascara on the bottom :]
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Hi. im in love with this guy. but he has a girflriend. and he always fools around with me. but first of all im scared she'll find out. and second of all. shes my sister. lol. what should i do? (link)
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Don't get involved, because she is your sister, and you don't want to ruin that, there are more fish in the sea.
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So, a bit of a random question here, but why do guys have nipples? :) lol, just something I've always wondered. Thanks! (link)
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Uhm?
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Do u think im too young for sex? I WANT TO SOOOOOO BADDDDDDDD! uhhhh..hes 17, but he promises me i wouldnt get pregnant if we used a condom in he took it out before he cummed in me..is that true? (link)
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Yeah just go for it, just be careful.
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How do I tell my mom I don't want her in the Gyno exam with me? Actually, I want her there, but I don't want her to know I have had sex. So I can't have her there. So how do I tell her I don't want her there without sounding suspicious or mean? (link)
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Just tell her you dont want her there, or tell the Gyno to just ask her to leave.
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i'm a girl, and i'm 16 and i never used to masturbate but i recently discovered it.
however i feel that i'm the only girl that does it and i am embarassed by this fact. do a lot of girls do it? i know no-one will talk about it, and its probably not as common as with guys, but i'd like to think i'm not alone out there. :(
also -- i think i get close to orgasm, but i always stop myself because i'm afraid of making too much noise (i live with my parents) i start to shake and feel a bit "dizzy" does this mean i'm close? should i just go with the flow when this happens?
sorry for all the questions. thanks for all your help. (link)
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Yes a lot of girls do. Yeah.
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I know this is going to sound like a very strange question, but I need to know if this is normal and if there is anything I can do. I have trouble reaching orgasm; I always seem to have to "stop" before, as if my body can't handle it. It's the same if I'm alone or with my boyfriend. I know I CAN, it just takes a really long time. Is this typical, and what can I do? Thanks in advance.
20/f (link)
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Hold your breathe, a lot of people say it makes it feel better.
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