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Not able to?
I know this is going to sound like a very strange question, but I need to know if this is normal and if there is anything I can do. I have trouble reaching orgasm; I always seem to have to "stop" before, as if my body can't handle it. It's the same if I'm alone or with my boyfriend. I know I CAN, it just takes a really long time. Is this typical, and what can I do? Thanks in advance.
20/f
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Hold your breathe, a lot of people say it makes it feel better.
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Try not to stop yourself and see what happens and tell your boyfriend to be patient with you getting your orgasm out. With yourself try very hard to get an orgasm and don't stop yourself because getting an orgasm feels great an i know you ned to feel that. Hope i helped!!!!
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Completely normal. Not so much fun, but normal.
Lots of woman have trouble reaching an orgasm so don't hold it against yourself for taking a little while.
Just keep at it, especially alone, since you are the most responsive to your own needs. When your boyfriend is with you be very exact in your instructions. Don't be bashful about asking for what you want and don't be worried about telling him what do to and correcting him when he doesn't quite get it. If you are comfortable enough to talk with girlfriends about this definitely do, you'll realize you aren't alone at all, and certainly talk to to your gynecologist, they might be able to help too.
My personal suggestion though: If it's just a time thing that bothers you, play around with the pace and learn to recognize when your body is ready for more. Think of it as changing gears, if you don't shift at the right time your body is working harder then it needs to and not getting there as fast as it could.
But in the end, this could just be the way your body is, so don't make this stressful for yourself. Enjoy the experimentation, have fun, take each experience in stride, and don't let the word 'failure' or anything like it slip into your mind. Don't get discouraged and don't be disappointed. There is nothing wrong with doing things the way that works for you, even if it takes a long time. You aren't the only one.
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I don't believe that it's typical, although everyone is different. Some medications and medical conditions can affect the ability to orgasm, so you should look over the side effects of anything you might be taking.
It might just be that you need more time. But since it's bothering you, you should talk to your OB/GYN or doctor. They may be able to help.
Good luck!
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Will i cant say i've had that problem beacause im 13, and have no problem at all...
But, I think it could be typical..
some times that happends to me, and then i like re try for an other orgasm and i reach it.
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