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Fighting over the boyfriend.
Okay, so I'm currently dating this guy for about 2 months now. He has a problem with drugs and I realize he's trying to stop. He also has a girl who lives in CT (we live in DE) and he had dated him over the internet for awhile. She stopped talking to him for months and now all the sudden she's trying to get back with him. He recently broke up with me because "he had to get his life straight" (which I know was true because i can tell when he's lying) but he gives into easily and the day after he broke up with me this girl called him back and they ended up going back out. Four day's later this guy asks me back out saying he knows he's made a mistake and that I'm the only girl who has cared about him like I do and I'm the one he wants to be with and I know most of it is true because he was crying when he told me this and he NEVER cries. I don't know if I can trust him...I love him but after that I don't know...I know he cares because he told me after he had done it and realized he made a mistake and the whole time he was going out with her he told me he loved me and never once told her he loved her (which IS true bcuz I talked to her) I just need help with this trust issue. Does anyone have a way I can learn to trust him more and if not do you think I should just break up with him and find someone who wont do this to me? I know this girl is just using him because she's lonly because her b/f just broke up with her and she'll be gone as soon as she finds another but I just don't know...I just need some advice. Help me out...I'll rate you high.
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okay well when you are in love you do silly things like breaking up with the one that you really love and when you love someone it just wont go away whenever you want it to be gone...you will ALWAYS love someone and when you arent with them you know that there is something wrong. But with your situation your b/f is pry having some difficulties sorting out this whole drug thing. Since you know more about what this girl is doing then you should let him know about what t his girl is really doing so that he knows who really does care more about him so he wont make that mistke again. To trust him again you need to let him know that you are trying to regain that trust and that he better try and get your trust back. You probably shouldnt break up with him because if you both say you love each other as you say you do then maybe it could go farther than just b/f and g/f but you should also try to have him not fal into that trap of fallin over that girl again.
Good Luck - Hope i have helped
kate♥
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I don't know, it seems like you know what you were doing. I would stay with him, because he seems like a really sweet messed up guy. Besides, its over the internet... what can he do? e-kiss her? I mean thats the suppidest thing in the world.
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