i have an unusually large penis, 10 inches, and my girlfriend is afraid to have sex with me because of it. She has no issues with any other kind of sexual activities, but she does NOT want that thing in her. what do i do?
Elcee answered Monday June 5 2006, 8:49 am: Take things slowly and gently to start with. The vagina can expand quite a bit so the size of the penis shouldn't be too much of a problem. Your girlfriend is probably scared that it will hurt her and that is quite natural. Make sure that she is completely lubricated to ease the way and very turned on. Listen to what she is saying and if she says stop then do so. You can then try again later. Trial and effort is really all I can suggest so good luck. (PS lucky lady). [ Elcee's advice column | Ask Elcee A Question ]
mayonnaise answered Sunday June 4 2006, 1:47 pm: My boyfriend, same problem. ITS HUGE. So, I can pretty much tell you from her perspective what its like, but I'm not, cause...I'm not.
Anyways, just take it slow, only put a little in at a time until she is comfortable with it, then go all the way, then you can get into all the hardcore shit we all love. So, just take it slow. [ mayonnaise's advice column | Ask mayonnaise A Question ]
orphans answered Sunday June 4 2006, 10:08 am: most women like big dicks, so i dnot know why your gf doesnt.maybe you should ask her to like stretch it out. normally big penises make better sex [ orphans's advice column | Ask orphans A Question ]
Chicken_flavored_eggs answered Sunday June 4 2006, 12:59 am: Ease her into it. If she is really that frightened, then go slowly with her.
Most women respond very well to some kind of romantic kissing and touching and such. If you are very gentle and slow, you may be able to ease her into it if she is comfortable that you will be gentle and easy during sex. Once she is used to your size, then you can bang the shit out of her.
She probably just has to trust that you will be gentle and not hurt her during sex. So, do so.
barbieblissx answered Sunday June 4 2006, 12:24 am: seduce her... get her drunk?
idk lol.
lmbo well i dont blame her.. humm well just go nice and slow.. wait until she is comfortable. dont get her drunk or seduce her. i mean she will def still feel it.. lmbo i guess sometimes bigger isnt always better
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