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Want to lose my Virginity to my husband!!!
Hello..
My husband and I have been married for 6 months. We both are vigins and we are in our early 20's.
We have tried to have sex but everytime we try I experience severe pain and we stop. We tried lubricant but that didn't help either.
Please help! Is there any methods?
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Well it may just hurt cuz it hurts everybody but if it hurts extreamly bad then i would say you need to go to the doctor and get checked out! I hope I helped.
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hum everyone pretty much experience severe pains. maybe you cant take pain as much as others. Lubricant is the right method really or you just make sure you get in the righttttt high climax mood so you wont think about it as much. thats cute thou
-Adrianna
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hum everyone pretty much experience severe pains. maybe you cant take pain as much as others. Lubricant is the right method really or you just make sure you get in the righttttt high climax mood so you wont think about it as much. thats cute thou
-Adrianna
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Isis gave very good advice. I agree with all of it I would recomend stress that you should go to your gyn as as soon as is convienent for you. Any time you have an issue as accute as this sounds, physical issues should be addressed before any other types of solutions are explored.
Good luck
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It sounds as though you may have something called dyspareunia. It can be caused by tension and emotional stress amongst other things such as a yeast infection. The sheer pressure of your situation could have been enough to trigger it. If it is this, the longer it goes on the more difficult it is to deal with.
I would suggest you seek help from your doctor or gynecologist to rule out any medical reasons. After that you could try sex therapy or working out the problem yourselves.
You could try agreeing to not even try to have sex for a month, just cuddle and stroke each other. Eventually, you may find yourself getting to the point where you are happy to take it further, but it has to be your decision, as you are the one suffering the pain. If you both are making a conscious decision to avoid penetration, you could find that is the trigger that makes you relax enough to go for it. Don't wait any longer, get it sorted out as soon as you can.
Best of luck.
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You're probably just really tight. Maybe he could try using his finger first, so that you can get used to the feeling. If it's really too much, you should probably see a doctor. It could be a bigger problem than you think.
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