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First time Screw up.
Ok so i am in a huge band and i am one of the dancers. When i came to the band everyone warned me about this certain guy and i dunno how it happend but he pulled me in. I totally feel for him, i dotn even know how, i knew that is i did he would want sex, and the day it happend i knew it was going to happen. But i dont understand how i let it happen. Since when i went over to his house i knew what was going to happen i lied to him and told him i was on drugs. Cause he is a huge drug addict, which is bad since i have got into drugs laitly and i am trying to quit.
anyways to the point he kept asking me and asking me finally i got mad anough and i just said ok, we used a condom and everything then we had sex. it hurt so much and i cnat believe i did it. After that i went on the pill just to be safe. But he didn't talk to me for 2 months after
it broke my heart.
now we han gout again and stuff and we talk and everyting what is srsly wrong wiht me|?
why would i even speak to him after all that.?
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Well you may have made a mistake but when the erge comes it comes and you cant help it. But also you can still be friends with him and just not get to close and dont get drawn in again and as far as the whole drug thing that is somthing to get out of and fast before it becomes an addiction! I hope I helped. Good Luck in the future!
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well it isnt all his fault. why wont you speak to him. i mean okay maybe he feels the same way. maybe he feels some what of a regret towards it. You cant really blame him for that. there is nothin wrong with you you just leanred from a mistake. and you got to deal with it
-Adrianna
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Because in your heart you wanted to give him another chance. It's normal! I did it with the guys i liked, but i try not too though. He just wanted to use you at that time probably or you may have been on drugs and he didn't know what he had did until he was sober. He knew he did wrong once he thought about it maybe and departed himself from you for a while. Or he plainly just used you. If he said sorry about it than you can choose to give him one more chance, but if he just came out of nowhere and you guys started hangin out again i would talk to him and have him apologize. If he doesn't apologize don't waste your time with him. If he doesn't care about you why should you care about him? I want to know what did you mean by how you two had sex and it hurt you soo much??? hope i helped and w/b plz.
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Maybe because you still have feelings for him? I mean did he force you to having sex?
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