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Leading him on?


Question Posted Sunday October 2 2005, 2:11 pm

I met a guy over the summer and he's really nice. Unfortunatly i never met him face to face until school started and i began to see him around the school. I was so shocked when i saw him but i found out that he was suicidal and gets depressed really easily so i was nice to him. Apparently hes getting the wrong idea about me and he likes me! I try to be nice but when he says stuff like 'i love u' i get scared and say 'i love u 2!' back.

He thinks i like him but i dont! He's soo not my type and wears girls pants!

HELP!

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TRAGiCxWH0REx3 answered Wednesday October 5 2005, 11:45 am:
I'm guessing this kid is emo. If he is suicidal then you most definitely should NOT be mean to him. If you REALLY don't like him, explain that you want to get to know him better, but for now you want to remain friends. Good luck!!

P.S. Girl's pants on guys, are totally HOTT right now!!

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chicky_please answered Monday October 3 2005, 5:52 pm:
ok.....saying i love you 2 is just wrong....cuz he's gonna be sader when you tell him you dont actually love him.......just explain to him that although he loves you......you love him as a friend and you wouldnt wat to ruin that friendship with a relahionship


hope i helped

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mediasucks answered Sunday October 2 2005, 11:14 pm:
guys like this dude are not even suicidal.they tell you that shit for attention.the fact that he wears girl pants lets you know.no matter how depressed you actually are,you dont wear girl pants.this guy is just into the emo trend because it gets people to talk to him.so dont associate with him too much because hes making a fool out of you.

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brunettsrbetter answered Sunday October 2 2005, 4:47 pm:
You need help when you and him are alone or go sit by him in th caf and tell him "You know we are just friends Is that ok " im sure he will take it well

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GlamxODrPhil answered Sunday October 2 2005, 4:24 pm:
My friend had the same problem. Sit him down face to face one day. Tell him your really glad you friends, and that your here for him if he ever has a problem. Let him know how much your care about him. Tell him you want to just be friends because you don't want want a relationship to end up badly. Just keep reminding him how much you care.

hope it all works out
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SoInToYoUx0x answered Sunday October 2 2005, 3:24 pm:
you need to talk to him and explain to him how you feel. tell him striaght up that you dont ahve the same feelings for him as he does for you. if you keep going on with this (since he is suicidal) he might do something stupid and kill himself if you dont tell him fast enough. but if you liekd the guy be4 you say him face to face maybe you should think about why you dont like him. is because of what eh looks? you know looks arent everything. well hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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TexasChick1104 answered Sunday October 2 2005, 3:10 pm:
First you need to figure out why you don't like him, is it because he where's girls pants (his look) or how he is (personality) If he just isn't right for you at all then you need to sit him down alone and tell him that you don't feel the same way for him that he does for you. Since you say he is sucicidal, if he threatens to kill himself then you need to talk to a counselor about it alone and they will have a conversation with him.

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