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friendship can be retarded.
okay so im going to start out with the fact that my friend ashley is so awesome. but there ARE some bad points of knoeing her. she tells me everything and then when people ask if i know something that they dont they get real mad because the answer is so totally yes. shes my best friend. and some of this information is dangerous. im scared ill tell secrets that are supposed to stay unknown.
HELP
my best friend tells me too much,
victoria♥
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plz don't tell anyone! if your best friend trusts you with her deep dark secrets,then she trusts y ou not to tell. tell people who ask you to tell them "yes, but i swore the person who told me that i wouldn't tell." and change the subject. that way, you will be kept from letting a secret slip. think beforey ou speak other times, to make sure you are giving anything away.
if some of her secrets are dangerous to her health, tell a trusted adult and get her help. she should thank you later!
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then tell her to shut up! duh!
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I was kind of in the same situation you're in. I think you should just tell her things you're comfortable with telling her. Also, if she tells you EVERYTHING, it doesn't mean it's a bad thing. It means she trusts you. And as long as you guys trust each other (which means you would never tell anyone anything about what she tells you), your friendship should go well.
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Your best friends tells you this information because she trusts that you won't tell anyone. If you really are trust worthy, you will not tell any secrets of her and they won't just slip out of your mouth. It isn't your duty to let people know things that they don't. She's your best friend and of course she's going to tell [ you ] things that she won't tell anyone and it should stay that way. I don't really know what your question is,.. but I don't think that you'll tell her secrets. You're smart enough to keep them to yourself.
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It's not a bad thing though if she tells you a lot of things, she really trusts you. Just tell the people it's none of their business & if they want to know something about her than they should ask her, they shouldn't get mad at you. Don't tell them something she doesn't want them to know about her because if she finds out, it could ruin your friendship & who would you rather have.. those people that get mad at you for no reason or your best friend?
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