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My friend's jealous the he is talking to me now
One of my friends lets call her Sara knows this kid lets call him Ray. Well Sara doesnt actually know Ray, but she met him on myspace, because on of Sara's friends actually knows Ray because he is friends with her boyfriend. Well Ray just came to our school this year. When I asked my friend Sara who Ray was she told me and said that she doesnt like him, hes not very good looking and she's just talking to him. So one day I sent Ray a friend request and he immediatley started talking to me, and now we talk ALOT. My friend Sara has not talked to him (on myspace) in a couple months and when me and him started talking she started talking to him. She brought it up to me like "why are you taling to MY boy" when she doesnt and has not ever gone out with him. I dont get why she is getting so jealous when from the beginning she said she didnt not like him. What can I do? and how can I get to know Ray better? He goes to my school, but ive never seen him one because my school is HUGE (3,000 plus kids) i want to ask him to hangout and stuff, but i dont want to come off too strong or act like im trying to rush what could be a good friendship or more. please help!
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Well, since you talk in MySpace and are good Internet buddies, tell him casually, "I've never seen you in school before." And the conversation should lead to you two hanging out after school somewhere. Or just, "Want to hang out after school?" would do. It won't seem in any way freak-ish.
As for your friend, well she's just being self-centered. Next time she complains, tell her, "Uhh... YOUR boy? What are you talking about? You guys aren't even going out. And he's not some property. He's more 'mine' than 'yours' because we're closer. What's your problem? You said before you didn't even like him and thought he was ugly. What's up with you now? All of a sudden, you're all over him? Look, I'm not trying to be a bitch but you sure seem like it. You can't chose who I talk to and who he talks to. I'm tired of you whining about the two of us all the time."
Take it and make it nastier (not too nasty or you'll be asking fopr a slap) or make it sweeter (not too sweet or she won't get it) but my point is to get it across her head that you want to be friends with this guy and, while you still want her as your friend, she can't stop you.
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-Jenny C ♥
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