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me and my best friend
my friend lets call her "S"
well she gets mad at me for likeing guys that she dosnt approve of and my last boyfriend dumped me because of what "S" said to him i felt like i was falling in loved with him but "s" messed up every thing
should i still be her friend even though she messed up whati had with him
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if she is making a big deal because u like him dont worry about her shes not a true friend. if she was she'd help you figure that out. if u really like him and he really likes you try it out.
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So, I had a friend like that. And I'm not going to say "Don't let guys get in the way of friendship." Because from my experience, she's probably not looking out for you. She may just be controlling or jealous or likes the guy you like and is trying to get you to back off of him.
The next time she gets mad at you, point out that its you're life, it's your decisions, and she has no right to get mad at you if you do something in YOUR life that SHE doesn't like.
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She just might be trying to be a good friend & look out for you or she might be jealous. Than again, that was totally unfair about what she did to you & your ex boyfriend. Just tell her nicely that you need to talk to her & tell her something like "i know you want to be helpful but I can make my own decesions & I don't need your help when it comes to guys." If she doesn't stop, I'd stop being friends with her.
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it could be that shes a bit jealous of you, or worried about you. but what she did was completely out of bounds. she should not have went and messed things up between you and your boyfriend.
I dont think its worth it to lose a friend over that, it seems like your still young, so there will be many other guys. but you should definitely sit down with her and have a long talk. explain to her exactly how you're feeling, and maybe try to find out WHY she did what she did.
Im sure you guys can work things out. :)
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i understand her looking out for you, but she shouldn't have your boyfriend break up with you. i think she just might be jealous of you and him or she might just want you to herself. just tell her to back out of your love life. and ask her about it before you decide whether or not to be her friend anymore. <3
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From what I can tell she seems a bit clingy and afraid to lose you because girls seem to become attached to their boyfriends and want to spend every waking minute. I suggest telling her to stay out of your live life and it isnt her concern and if she doesnt like it, tough. Hope I helped =]
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