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looks
hey im 13 and a female. i was wondering are looks an important part in a relationship? all my friends say it is but i think its a lil shallow.
**sleepiesheep**
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Well some people think they are...but then other's dont.. to me looks sort of matter but not really...cause i go for like being nice and stuff...their will alwyas be someone out there that will think your the most beaitfuest thing in the world...then others that wont and make fun of you...but to me looks dont matter sorry if i didnt help xoxox Jenny xoxo
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I really agree with you. If he really loves you then he wont care what you look like! A lot of guys are shallow though...looks don't really matter but they might atract the guys... Hope I Helped!
- Samantha Lynn
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To most, definitely. Personally, I don't care in the slightest bit. I don't know what is wrong with people today. I, too, fail to understand how a good percentage of our human population can be so judgemental and cruel. It's both frightening and digusting. If you agree with me (and it seems you do), then be proud of that; as, you an I are part of a rare breed. ;]
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welll in a realationship the boy usualyl does care abut looks and I agree this si very shallow but if he really does care he won't stop loving you for who you are nomatter what but looks are always a big plus for meeting people because of the bitches boys are today but beingshallow doesnt mean there dumb all boys are just add some make up wear your hair down and glam it up he'll love you no matter what...hope I helped
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To me, good looks are just the icing on the cake. Unimportant. Nice, but unimportant.
Really, if you love someone, you'll see how beautiful their insides are and it won't matter what the outside looks like.
-FunnyCide
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looks are ok but your bf should love for who u are not what u look like
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it depends on who you are... if your shallow than yeah looks will play an important part in there relationship... but if you really don't care.. then it won't be important so i guess it depends on who you are and your own mind set
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Its shallow. But its pretty true, on avarge.
Most girls want a guy with hott looks.
Most gyts want a girl with sexy looks.
But you dont have to be like them.
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ok you dont want to date a guy who is a total jerk that would be horrible you would end with a broken hert wich sucks but looks do count something you dont want to liek being makeing out with a guy that would be realy hard to do looks are not as important as the mind you dont want to date a guy who is totaly diffrent from you and u dont get alone but i am telling you looks do count for something hope i helped
-lindsey-
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In my opinon looks don't matter. However, most people think the oppisite and put a lot of emphisses (sp?) on looks. You are at a shallow age when boys and girls are embarrassed to date someone who isn't that hot. But it's good tht you don't think so.
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Well i do think it is a big part because you need to be attracted to eachother when you first lay eyes on eachother because if you like what you see you will go tlak to talk person ... i mean yes this is VERY shallow but its the truth... i personally dont belive in this but it does happen.. over half of the time... But SOME people who are headstrong will not really worry about looks but on personality... BUt its always that first imperssion when you first see that peron that attracts a person to another person
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Askme247
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While it does help to be attracted to another person, you don't need to be drop dead gorgeous/handsome to be in a relationship. It shouldn't be the basis, but I think if your attracted to someone, it makes the relationship all the more better. It shouldn't be what triggers the whole thing though. I just think no matter what a person looks like their personality can physically attract you & them. :)
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In a real relationship, two people have to sexually attracted to eachother. Even though some people wouldn't like to admit it, looks really do matter in a relationship; unless of course, neither of them are sexually attracted to others according to appearance.
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no theyre not important.
but everyone knows (even if they dont wanna admit it) looks matter.
alota people would argue with that but i garontee you that deep down everyone knows looks matter!
but no looks arnt important! like a boy doesnt have to be gorgeous for you to go out with him. he can be ok looking but have the best personallity. but if he was missing teeth smelled bad and was greasy but had the best personality you probibly wouldnt go out with him rite? so yea. they dont matter but in other ways they do. :] hope that wasnt too confusing..
michelle<3
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i think looks are not the entire relationship by any means. but trust me, im 13 also, and guys our age are totally immature and all most of them see is looks. its totally stupid because they cant see into a person. in my opinion i dont think looks are important in a relationship thats truely a good relationship. im not saying cute guys arent nice because they can be. a lot of them are. but just because someones not brad pitt doesnt mean they never will be. boys go through things that change they way the look like we do. basiclly go for what you like. some girls only go for cute guys because thats what they like. but other girls go for personality, intelligence, and things like that. it depends on YOU. dont let others tell you what right for YOU.
hope i helped at least a little.
<3333. beautifulcatastrophe.
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you just asked that Question. and looks only matter to those who think it does
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at your age even though its kinda wrong it is.. as you get older looks will become less important to the other person but really im middle school thats all immature guys are concerned about
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I agree with you.
People who go out with others JUST because of their looks are so shallow.
I don't think looks are everything in a relationship; it is something to consider but personality is way more important.
I mean you wouldn't want to date the hottest guy in the school who treats you like dirt would you?
Some girls would only because to some girls looks are EVERYTHING.
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In a REAL relationship? No, looks shouldnt be important. Most boys your age though right now, are looking mainly at looks, because they are immature. It's more important to find someone who loves you for who you are rather than what you look like.
Hope I answered your question.
Jacki
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Some people go out with other people for personality but others for looks.But if you have a boyfriend,he loves you hw won't really care about how you look if you know what I mean like if he see's someone who is better he will still be with you,won't pay attention to that girl,and that's when you know for sure that you don't have to worry about him cheating on you.But you should look nice anyways for your guy and especially for yuorself.
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It is part but no personality is the most important thing in a relationship .
<3 Sarah
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If you like the person it doesnt matter, caring about looks is shallow. Don't go by everything your friends tell you its just their point of view and what they believe.
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youre right... looks are definatly not everything and if someone is that picky and say they are--SHALLOW!!!
XO KALIE
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People have different views on it. Like with me I wouldnt date a guy that is like butt ugly but Im not looking for a Brad Pitt either. Like as long as a guy is kinda cute, has a great personality and can make me laugh Im fine with them. So some people think looks are a big thing while others could care less. Hope I helped
XoXoLexiXoXo
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definately not. for some people it's a big part, but that isn't right. the most important thing is personality & how you feel around that person.
-hope that helped!♥
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