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Guys..?
Is it common for girls to not be attracted to guys (age 14)? They all seem too immature in school and I'm not like those other girls that think every dude is "hot". I'm not concerned about this, I don't care If I have a bf or not but I was just wondering if this is common (and I'm not gay, I know that). It's a bit hard to explain in detail but in short, guys aren't intresting... At least not yet.
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ok for starts we never grow up ... sad to say but its true...and i also know that we can be the biggest suckups on earth...and we're not gunna walk down the hall and stop you and say "my o my you look marvelous today, o by the way is that a new haircut?" we just dont do that. i mean be serious how many guys ARE like that, that are older.
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perfectly normal. you just havent met any guys that really stand out to you or seem like your type. maybe go out more places to meet guys other then school so you can meet guys that are more your type.
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It's normal. :) I don't understand girls who think that 99% of guys are "hot." I am not attracted to guys my age, in fact, my boyfriend is two years older than me. I've never been one to gawk over guys or marvel at them. Just not my style. But I know girls who do... it's a little annoying, almost.
Guys your age aren't going to be as mature, usually, as you are. Especially at fourteen. You shouldn't feel pressured to have a boyfriend or like guys or ooh and ahh over them.
-FunnyCide
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i wa sexactly like you give yourself 2 more years youll be all overthem nad well i never date guys my age because yes they are very immature and im 16 you seem like a girl who should date someone like 2 years older but not yet wait untill highschool
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Yeah that's normal. I'm fourteen and I've had boyfriends and been attracted to guys but I know people who haven't. You're young, I envy you for not caring about guys yet. Seriously, once you start liking someone then you'll wish you never had in the first place. Don't worry about it, a guy will come along who interests you eventually.
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It's normal. The guys around you just aren't what attract you. Everybody finds different things attractive, you just need to wait a few years or a change of scenery. I'm not attracted to any of the guys I know, and I know a lot.
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You`re perfectly normal. Not every guy you will meet will be immature. So just wait till you find a "hot" guy to fit your perfect guy.
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=) Your fine the way you are. Actually you are more than just fine, you are great. Why? Because you think! Good for you. I guess it might be difficult to tell if it is common or not common, because just as girls may say they are not interested, might be; some might say they are and actually not be. Get what I mean? But anyways, at your age, and even in 8th grade I remember, I thought to myself: girls are weird; what do they talk about; why do they have to do the things they do; etc etc etc...the list goes on. So in short, nothing is wrong with you...and don't let society tell you otherwise. To me, I see it as a 50/50, not common but not uncommon - split right down the middle. For the most part you might even notice that yourself...ever see someone go for a guy or say things a bit after 'her best friend did too?' Before anything you'll see some guys as friends, and then you just build on from there, so you'll be fine. Hope that helped.
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Sounds to me like you're wise beyond your years lol. It's kinda like me...everyone says being a student is the BEST - going out and getting drunk and partying all the time. But you know what? I am B-O-R-E-D of it! I did it for two years and now I finally graduate in 6 months to actually do something worthwhile with my life. And it's like that - we're both too grown up for all this rubbish. Seems odd doesn't it? But be glad you're not one of the many who finds every guy "hot" and winds up a teenage mum. You're doing good kid, and one day you will find someone that is worthy of your time.
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its totally normal! guys dont mature as fast as girls so its absolutly normal and you could be more interested in many other thing right now and not be gay! well hope this helps! luvvies~~whisperdawn~~
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i think its pretty common. i mean, i find no interest in boys at the moment either and i also know im not gay. i think that at our age, guys seem pretty immature to us. i really don't get why but i don't think its anything that we should worry about.
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If you're feeling it, it's normal.
I didn't get my first crush until I was 15. After my first girlfriend when I was 16 and consequently a rush of emotions and my first kiss, I had a string of shallow crushes afterwards.
Enjoy your innocence, it's all downhill from there. ; )
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Of course its normal. I feel the same way you do. Yes, at age 14 its hard to find a nice non immature guy to like, because 14 is usually an immature age for guys. Your most likely not gay, its just that special guy hasnt caught your eye yet. Girls who think every guy is hot, is just immature. Hotness isnt something girls that are 14 should be looking for in a guy. In a year you'll probably start realizing what guys are interesting ;) lol. Good Luck hun, hope i helped.
-Brina
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