I am a person who can realate to a lot of things...you would be amazed by what kind of stuff I know!I am fun to be around and may be shy and quiet at first butu once you get to know me your askin "Why is her name Whisper?"! So I like to hang out with my friends and I love to talk! About anything and if i want to have an input in on something I will!! i have great friends, who without I would be well considered a little strange! So now ya know me...kinda!
Website: WhisperDawn
E-mail: cute_short1@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: Elko
Occupation: EVERYTHING!!
Age: 15
MSN: sssshhhh_69@hotmail.com
Member Since: January 26, 2006
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Last Update: February 21, 2006
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Okay.. so I'm not exactly sure where to start..So I'll just tell a little from the past and mostly from this year.. 7th grade I started to become moody, easily irritated, and less social. Mind you, I'm very shy, So I've never been too social my whole life. Maybe going a few places here and there, But I just didn't want to go anywhere anymore. I started cutting, I stopped eating because I became self-conscious over my weight, Then at the end of the year I started cutting even more, and I always thought about death. 8th grade I became even more less social, but I stopped cutting during the middle of the year. I lost my friends a few times because of rumors, & lies. So I became even more upset. Then I started not to care, and nothing really bothered me anymore. My grades did go up a bit, and I wasn't cutting, I had stopped taking so much pills, I even tried to become closer with my family. Now, I've become more upset than ever. I pretend I'm happy when I'm really not, and I can't even sleep anymore. I probably get about 3 hours of sleep a week. I'm still self-conscious about my weight so I haven't been eating, my hairs been falling out, and I don't even come out of my room anymore. I've tried asking my mom to take me to the doctor, or to a therapist, but she just won't do it. I sit in my room for hours at a time, Just sitting there staring at the wall and thinking about what it'd be like if I wasn't here. Because of a silly rumor, I'm farther away from the best friend I've had since 4th grade, So now I don't even talk. I constantly think somebody's mad at me even when I haven't even done anything. My dad is continuously downrating me, I've been exhausted, mentally and physically and my grades are dropping from a 3.0 to a .5. I don't know what to do, I've asked to get help but my mom just won't let me, and I have no other way of getting it. I'm suffering from withdrawal from the pills and it's driving me crazy. I'm tempted to go back to use them, and I've even considered overdosing on them. It just feels like nobody cares how I'm feeling. They always try and help everyone else but they just leave me hanging. I've always helped and been there for my friends. It just feels like I'm trapped in something that I'll never be able to get out of. I just don't know what to do.Everyday I get these panic attacks and I just break down crying and screaming, sometimes I even abuse myself. I want to stop but I can't, It just doesn't go away.
-Sorry for this being so long. (link)
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Ok so dont be sorry for writing and asking for advice cuz hun you really need some good advice and what i think you should do is go to you school counselor and get some professional help becuz if you dont something bad will happen and you have already said you want help so go tlak to your couselor! ~whisperdawn~
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i have an essay/ report to doo on dieting and im doing crash dieting in a few paragraphs.
what are some foos that people usually mostly focus on when crash dieting?
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Grapefruit and celery are known to burn calories. Grapefruit has a lot of citrus and helps burn calories and is also full of antioxidents and vitamins so these are usually favorites among 'crash dieters'. Hope this helps.
~whisperdawn~
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Ok, I was recently in a relationship, and I was dumped. So now i have my eye on this cute guy who i like and he likes me. But because im not dating someone i feel like im like gay, but i no im not cause i love this boy. and I DO NOT desire girls!!!eww. im just confused, and need good advice. Its kinda the past thats bugging me, and i know i cant change it. I kissed a girl, because she forced me, i never wanted to but i did:-(! and thats bugging me now, it was about 3 years ago! HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!1 (link)
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Ok just becuz you are not in a current relationship that doesnt make you gay! And if a girl FORCED(key word) you to kiss her then you really dont have anything to worry about especially if you didnt 'feel' anything. But you more than likly arent gay and being single doesnt make you gay! Hope i have been helpful! luvvies~whisperdawn~
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I think my mom is cheating on my dad and I dont no how to ask her bout it... i have this gut feeling and usaully wen i have these i am right so wat should i do?? And this guy is such an controling freak!! I know my mom isnt happy with my dad but i dont want her with this guy and we have been through this b for but idk it is so damn confusin with everything else i am going through... plzz help
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Ok so if you have the feeling that your mom is cheating on your dad then you should talk to her about it and tell her that you want her to be totally honest with you and happy but you know she isnt if she is being decitful to your dad aqnd trying to hide it from you but you should also tell her how bad this other guy is for her and that she doesnt need that and point out the small things about the "control freak" that you know would make her realize that this guy isnt the one for her. You being with your mom and all should know how she works and know what would make her see how things really are and if she loves you she will respect your wishes. Good luck! ~luvz~ whisperdawn
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ok well tonight 2/2/06 thier is a thing going on at the school i am going to next year and well my dad told me no matter what we will go and well he is at work and he works all the timew from the time i go to school till like i am a sleep so i never get to see him i only like get to talk to him on the phone and well i am getting really upset because i really wanted to go but i cant go with out my dad what should i do?
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Im sorry...but it sound like ur dad might be a workaholic which can be a problem you should write him a letter expressing how you feel since you never have time to talk to him and maybe that would help. hope i can help!~~whisperdawn!!
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Is it common for girls to not be attracted to guys (age 14)? They all seem too immature in school and I'm not like those other girls that think every dude is "hot". I'm not concerned about this, I don't care If I have a bf or not but I was just wondering if this is common (and I'm not gay, I know that). It's a bit hard to explain in detail but in short, guys aren't intresting... At least not yet. (link)
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its totally normal! guys dont mature as fast as girls so its absolutly normal and you could be more interested in many other thing right now and not be gay! well hope this helps! luvvies~~whisperdawn~~
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I think I am fat. I weigh about 116-120 pounds and am about 5"4. Is this overweight?
I don't have like ANY time at all to exercize, I do lose weight, but than I end up gaining it all back on. I can't wake up an hour earlier in the morning because I am already tired as is. I am busy like ALL the time. Does anyone have any way I could lose weight quickly, and wouln't take much time out of my schedual? (link)
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Ok you r NOT fat!! For your height thas a pretty good weight. But if you MUST loose the weight try watchin what you eat and add nutritious things to your diet. try going to a gym maybe once a week or so.do little things like take stairs insted of an elevator(if thats an issue) go the extra mile, walk to school if possible the little things could add up and as for keepin it off then just keep track of what you eat and just try to exercse when u can...hope this helps! heart~~whisperdawn~~
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Theres this guy; and I really like him. He seems to be interested in me but hasn't made a move. I was thinking about making the first move to speed things up but idk what to do. I don't wanna ask him to the movies cause I know my parents wouldn't approve. (link)
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Ok so guys are shy *gasp* yes i know, why ar they shy well just the same reasons we can be shy, rejection...ya know well i think making the first move is a really good idea and if hes into you then that takes the pressure off of him and you could do sumthin casual and hang out and get to know each other if your 'rents wont lat you go 2 the movies...then do sumthin fun like go for a walk and hang out at the park or sumthin its a first date it doesnt have to have some deep meaning so ask him and then go have fun!!luvvies~~whisperdawn~~
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