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Confused


Question Posted Tuesday February 21 2006, 8:33 am

Ok, I was recently in a relationship, and I was dumped. So now i have my eye on this cute guy who i like and he likes me. But because im not dating someone i feel like im like gay, but i no im not cause i love this boy. and I DO NOT desire girls!!!eww. im just confused, and need good advice. Its kinda the past thats bugging me, and i know i cant change it. I kissed a girl, because she forced me, i never wanted to but i did:-(! and thats bugging me now, it was about 3 years ago! HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

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GirlOfEmotions answered Thursday February 23 2006, 4:48 pm:
if you still think about the incident that happened 3 years ago and enjoyed it, then you might be 'gay' and you can't help your feelings. try spending more time with the new guy you have your eye on. if there's no spark between you guys, then spend your time being single for a while. during your vacation from relationship, observe what you find yourself staring at.. girls? guys? both? you'll find a solution. (;

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ThugGirl041790 answered Tuesday February 21 2006, 2:54 pm:
Well first of all because your not in a relationship doesn`t mean your GAY!! [That just doesn`t make sense]

And because you kissed a girl doesn`t mena your GAY! [also doesn`t make sense]

Alot of girls kiss girls just playin around or just curious but that doesn`t make them GAY!!

I think if you want to go with this guy then go for it and stop thinkin your gay.. ♥Dez

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whisperdawn answered Tuesday February 21 2006, 1:54 pm:
Ok just becuz you are not in a current relationship that doesnt make you gay! And if a girl FORCED(key word) you to kiss her then you really dont have anything to worry about especially if you didnt 'feel' anything. But you more than likly arent gay and being single doesnt make you gay! Hope i have been helpful! luvvies~whisperdawn~

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BRUNETTE__BABiE__CAKESZ answered Tuesday February 21 2006, 1:28 pm:
hey like you said you cant erase the past. so dont try. you know your nto a lesbian. she forced you adn you didnt want to. also because your single doesnt make you a lesbian. alot of girls that are teens are single. cait ♥

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Tan answered Tuesday February 21 2006, 12:51 pm:
You didnt even want to kiss her! your not a lesbian. Its natural to experiment anyways. Go for it with this guy. Everyone doubts themselves. You will be fine, i promise. You're straight - embrace it. Best of luck xxxx

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ScratchesOnTheWall answered Tuesday February 21 2006, 12:34 pm:
OK chick you need to Chill.Out. lol. If you don't think you're gay you're probably not. If you don't desire girls at all you are definately not. Just coz you're single does not make you a lesbian, just coz you kissed a girl does not mean you are a lesbian.

If you were a lesbian it would not matter anyway but since you have no feelings for the same sex I really don't know where you got the idea from.

Go for it with this boy if you want or just enjoy being single. And hell if you find yourself liking a girl go with it with her too.

Nowt to worry about here.

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