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who am i....


Question Posted Thursday February 16 2006, 6:51 pm

i really dont know who i am...

sometimes i feel happy and i want to wear designers and bright colors.

sometimes i feel stupid and i feel like wearing baggy pants and black.

sometimes i feel like a laid back skater punk and i want to wear DC and converse....

tough one, right. can i keep switching like this??? WHAT DO I DO!


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purpledragonfly answered Thursday February 16 2006, 11:38 pm:
you are fine do what you want to do whatever makes you comfortable. sometimes i wake up and think boy i'd really like to wear bright colors today and the next morning i'm back in baggy black clothes with my hair in a pony tail.

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eternitysofbliss answered Thursday February 16 2006, 10:38 pm:
yes, its better that way

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Erinn_the_bamf answered Thursday February 16 2006, 8:39 pm:
Keep switching. It's who you are. You don't need to choose just one, most people don't.

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FunnyCide answered Thursday February 16 2006, 8:30 pm:
Keep right on switching. I'm serious. Be who YOU are. Don't follow any one else's standards or labels. You don't have to do that. I don't.

I switch too.

Seriously.

I like plaid. :) I have plaid pants. One day I'll wear my plaid pants and a red shirt.. and the next I'll wear baggy black pants and a tight-ish purple/black shirt with mesh sleeves and seven necklaces... just whatever fits my taste at the moment. Some days I'll wear a skirt, other days I'll wear pants. It just depends on how I feel that day (and if I've shaved recently.... haha).

You might feel pressure to fit into the cliques or labels... but you don't have to.

You should wear what you want.

My moods change, and my clothes change with my mood. The way I dress is just an outward expression of what I'm feeling inside. Sortof like art... though less dignified, perhaps.

Be yourself. You are a beautiful person, who has beautiful emotions. Your beautiful emotions change. Be artistic and show that in how you dress. :)
-FunnyCide

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ThugGirl041790 answered Thursday February 16 2006, 8:24 pm:
You can wear what you want.. Nothing is worng with how you switch your styles i think its better then wearin the same style all the time.. Buy the clothes you like and wear what your mood is.. [Don`t care what people think or say sweetie..]

Are you serious a 1 for callin you sweetie..?
Well i really don`t care about ratings but i thought people on here were pretty much serious.. But since you think i deserve a one i can respect that but if its just for calling you sweetie then you weren`t serious about your queestion.. ♥Dez

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xOx_BRUN3TT3_xOx answered Thursday February 16 2006, 7:54 pm:
There is nothing wrong with that. You can wear what ever you want it's your decision. I dress the way I feel that day it pretty much represents my personality. So go on and represnt your self in any way you want !




♥

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christina answered Thursday February 16 2006, 7:52 pm:
My advice: Wear whatever the hell you want. If people call you a poser, so be it. You're just trying to find yourself, and besides, it's your body. You decide what gets put on it. If one day you're happy & wanna wear happy colors, go ahead, and if you wanna wear black, go ahead. Fuck what people think. I wear what I want & if people don't like it...too damn bad.

&TiNA;

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STACEESxADVICE answered Thursday February 16 2006, 7:52 pm:
No way. You're mixinn it up, no big! Don't worry about it. So your mood changes your style, a lot of people are like that. Sometimes it's also more fun to have a variety of clothes in your wardrobe.

--Good luck!!

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ellamouse9 answered Thursday February 16 2006, 7:51 pm:
That's just you being yourself honey! Believe me I'm the same - life would be boring without a bit of variety, right? Be happy dressing how you want to - there's nothing wrong with liking all different kinds of clothes. Sometimes I wear baggy jeans, baby tees and studded belts punk-style and other times I'll wear knee-high boots with a smart pencil skirt and sweater, and I don't see anyone complaining! Enjoy your versitility.

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greeneyedgirl9o answered Thursday February 16 2006, 7:44 pm:
It sounds to me that you are just creating your own look. I know how you feel i do the same thing i never feel like i quite fit into a certain type of clothes because i like so many different styles for all my different moods, its no that you dont know yourself, if anything this shows your more in-tuned with yourself becuase you do what you feel and thats being you. Just be yourself, and you already seem to have that down, try to mix and match your clothes this will make your styles intertwine (showing the styles all are semi-flowing together). good luck and just be honest to yourself and you cant go wrong!

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jeanine278972 answered Thursday February 16 2006, 7:44 pm:
(most likely) Your like the rest of us teens. Your confused and trying to figure out what personality fits you best. It doesn't matter that you keep switching up what you wear, your versatile. And if your called a poser for it.. oh well. a lot of people go through it, and you'll figure it out on your own some day. Just give it time and keep being yourself. Thats all you can do, because if you be who people want you to be or say you should be, your going to be unhappy. Do whatever feels right to you.

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vermillion26 answered Thursday February 16 2006, 7:44 pm:
Listen to me, wear whatever the hell you want to. If you feel like dressing up and wearing vibrant colours one day and baggy clothes and all black the other, then do it. Its your body and you get to choose what to put on it. You don't have to dress or act one way. People have different sides to themselves and you should be able to express every part of you how and when you like. Don't worry about it. if its really an identity crisis that you're going through then think about this: you're young (I'm assuming) and part of being young is finding out who you and experimenting with that. You will understand yourself better and better as you get older and establish who you are, what you are good at and everything. Don't worry about this. Expressing how you feel one day through, fashion, etc. is your right and completely normal. I hope you feel better

~Rainbow

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sammysamtoohott answered Thursday February 16 2006, 7:43 pm:
i dont think u should worry about it

its cool to have a versatile style and its stupid for people to lable what you wear. actually im sure that if you wore the same style of clothes like every day it would be more likely for people to lable you and im sure you dont want to be labeled

i think its good that you're expressing how you feel using your clothing. it shows the real you and that you arent just some lable.

hope i could help

Samantha<3

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t0xicParadiSe answered Thursday February 16 2006, 7:35 pm:
One thing that really pisses me off are Lables.
If you want to be preppy one day, punk the next, there is nothing wrong with that at all.
Wear what ever you feel comfortable in.
It's more fun to switch around the type of clothes you wear.

&hearts;

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karenR answered Thursday February 16 2006, 7:22 pm:
You sound pretty normal to me.

It would be a very boring life if we were happy ALL the time or any other mood all the time.

If you weren't sad once in awhile how would you even KNOW what happy felt like?

So, yes you can keep switching like that.
No real need to change your clothes with every mood change though. :)

Just wear what you like, when you want to.

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