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I recently ran into a guy who I have known since we were little kids.It's been a long time since we've seen each other,and I always had a crush on him when we were young,and I didn't wanna let myself feel it again but when we ran into each other it brought back all those feelings.Anyway,my BFF,tho I love her,she...well,sleeps around a lot,and she right away started saying how hot this guy is and how much she wanted to *get* with him.I asked her to please not do anything with him because I do still like him,and it would hurt my feelings a lot.She said she can't guarantee that she couldn't do it,and that she's "taking a chance" with him.Basically,she's gonna go 4 it anyway.She says he told her he couldn't date me because it's me(meaning we go back so far as friends and our families were real tight).And she tells me he asked if it was ok if he called HER sometime.But when we were all hangin together he was acting interested in me and seemed...less than amused or interested by her.It's breaking my heart that she's gonna do this.The thought of them together makes me sick to my stomach.I've had nightmares,been unable to sit still,felt sick to my stomach,all because I'm so upset over this.But she says she basically doesn't care,and that she's not gonna fight and I can "take it how I want".What should I do? Even the mere idea that he would be into her is mind boggling to me,and especially cuz he really wasn't all actin like that,he kept huggin me and talkin about old times,and he even talked to my mom on the phone for God's sake!And the idea that he would ever be into her makes me feel sick.I cried all night last night and all morning this morning. HELP!!Thanks,I'll rate ya!

Well your friend is obviously putting one over on you if he is acting interested yet she's telling you something else. The fact is she's interested and wants to make you feel like he's not interested in you so it's easier for her to have a go at him. That's wrong and you should not let her do that. You should maybe call him up and just hang out with him just the two of you, before she has a chance to screw your chances up.

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hi i just typed a 72 worded thing out explainign most of my problems but i accidently deleted it all. o well it would not work too long anyways

okay do here are some of my problems
im a freshmen in a catholic high school and im failing almost all my classes and im a loser who gets made fun of, im in between living with my mom at my grandpas and my mom and dad at my dads house; they both suck because my parents are opposites, my dad even tried killing my mom before after throwing a freaking tv at me, im losing weight profusely and im already VERY very very very anorxishly skinny, and every time i eat i get sick and i dont even hardly eat, and im going to the hospital in a couple days to get a brain scan because every time i try to go to slep i go into this episode where i can move, feel, hear, touch, see..well the only thing i can do is breath about 30 seconds about 10 times every night and im really scared becausei think they have to stick me inside a black tunnel thing for 2 hours or something, and that is impossible i get deathly scared, i just feel so abnormal, along with my family. they sleep 20 hours a day in our small dark (grandpa's) house. its like a vampires house. well anywyas someone please give me advice on what i should do, ANYTHING will help. thanks.

Stay strong sweetheart. You can only do what's best for you and going to the hospital to get treatment and help is the first step. They can hopefully help you can get you back to a normal weight and in better health. I hope things between your parents and you get better and everything starts to look up. Just keep strong and try not to let things get ya down. =)

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i am being forced to move from my home in texas, to the cold and mean streets of chicago. my mother got a new job, and she is carting me up there in february. however, my father lives here in tecas. i have the oppurtunity to live with him, but i never have, and we arent very compatible. should i go with my mom, or stay with my dad?

This may be a great opportunity for you to build a relationship with your dad. I say if you really don't want to leave texas maybe you should live with your dad for a year or so and then maybe with your mom. I just think this would be an excellent time to get to know your dad and spend time with him. I cherish all the time I have with my dad and I wouldn't reade it for anything. And even though you say you aren't compatible, you never know you could end up forming an awesome relationship. But you'll never know until you give it a try =)

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