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Question Posted Tuesday November 30 2004, 8:41 pm

hi i just typed a 72 worded thing out explainign most of my problems but i accidently deleted it all. o well it would not work too long anyways

okay do here are some of my problems
im a freshmen in a catholic high school and im failing almost all my classes and im a loser who gets made fun of, im in between living with my mom at my grandpas and my mom and dad at my dads house; they both suck because my parents are opposites, my dad even tried killing my mom before after throwing a freaking tv at me, im losing weight profusely and im already VERY very very very anorxishly skinny, and every time i eat i get sick and i dont even hardly eat, and im going to the hospital in a couple days to get a brain scan because every time i try to go to slep i go into this episode where i can move, feel, hear, touch, see..well the only thing i can do is breath about 30 seconds about 10 times every night and im really scared becausei think they have to stick me inside a black tunnel thing for 2 hours or something, and that is impossible i get deathly scared, i just feel so abnormal, along with my family. they sleep 20 hours a day in our small dark (grandpa's) house. its like a vampires house. well anywyas someone please give me advice on what i should do, ANYTHING will help. thanks.


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Vanilla13ean420 answered Wednesday December 1 2004, 3:27 pm:
aww hunni,this is hard first off, you are defintly not a loser. dont let anyone ever bring you down, you are so much better than that trust me. Highschool is horrible and the kids are horrible. But every highschool is like that and it sucks. You just need to keep your head held up high and not let anyone bother you. People are really mean but dont let that get you down, just stay smiling and all will be good, everything always turns out alright in the end! Seems like you've been through alot, and going through alot and sticking it out means your only going to be a stronger person in the end. So dont worry! And as for your family, everyone in the world is somewhat wierd. But just be glad you have a family ya know, and as for the brain scan, dont stress about it, it should be alright! if you want to talk you can IM me on Vanilla13ean420 or just write back to me and tell me how the brain scan went! hope i helped!
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love unity
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dinoold answered Wednesday December 1 2004, 1:32 pm:
WOAH..you have a lot of issue going on right now...

first of all you are not a loser..sounds like YOUR paresnt are...so this is NOT your fault!!

Sounds to me like your family needs hlep really bad...no one should sleep that much..they must be severely depressed.

Why are they livving in your grandpa's house??do they not work??

They will stick you in that tunnel..but it will be brief..ok..you have to find out if their is anything abnormal on your brain. this isvery important.

Being a freshman in a HS super sucks too..i mean you are at the bottom of the food chain. Is this a private school..maybe it would help if you went to a public school


i hope they do some blood work on you too as to why you are lsoing weight...though lots of people your age are skinny..lsoing weight fast is a bad sign.

So hold on until the docto sees you and tell your family they NEED some serious help if they are sleeping so much..hello PROZAC anyone...

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xoheather answered Tuesday November 30 2004, 11:49 pm:
Stay strong sweetheart. You can only do what's best for you and going to the hospital to get treatment and help is the first step. They can hopefully help you can get you back to a normal weight and in better health. I hope things between your parents and you get better and everything starts to look up. Just keep strong and try not to let things get ya down. =) <33.

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icey0990 answered Tuesday November 30 2004, 10:34 pm:
Aw, sweety. Stay strong! It must be hard right now..but vow to yourself that your gonna make your life a better one. Hang in there..get your education and make your life the best it can be so your children will never go through what you are. Talk to a guidance counselor..they're there to help you! Maybe you can even get a therapist through the school. Go to the sessions...your gona do fine

stay strong!!

-melissa

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