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What do you say when a guy asks you out?

Question Posted Sunday October 30 2005, 10:16 am

What do you say when a guy asks you out. I'm only thirteen, so things don't come naturally. Do you just say "yes"? But that sounds like when someone asks you to marry them!! I think too much about simple things. CAn someone help mee?!?! Don't call me dumb please because you're just stating the obvious!

I'll rate honestly.

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KathyUnicorn answered Wednesday February 27 2013, 9:20 pm:
Here,say someone ask you out and you really like that guy. Dont just say yes, smile look into his eyes pull him into hug and then say yes. this might be to much for you,so heres a simple way, smile then say yes. I hope this helped im 15 and ive been through this alot.

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Glorianna36 answered Friday March 16 2012, 4:53 am:
I'm only 12and I've been through this. Anyway it delends one who asks you out. If you like him then totally go for him. But If he's not your type fInd a nice way to say no. Just that simple.

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candygirl101 answered Tuesday November 15 2011, 4:11 pm:
just be, just smile and say yeah, sure
dont say yes. you'll sound desperate and you dont want him to think you are.
And dont say ill get back to you with the answer because he will think your not that into him and probably will just go running off to your friends for some advice. not the best thing to do.
and when you do answer him, dont say your answer in a form of a question either. like when he askes you, dont say um.. suree? yes..?
just stick with sure, yeah or okay

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jayray567 answered Sunday May 1 2011, 9:10 am:
what i usually say is...
-yea :) (if its over text but normally its in person so ill say....)
-yea and then give them a hug

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Peeps answered Saturday May 22 2010, 7:50 pm:
There are actually quite a few ways you can let this play out, especially if you want to play hard to get. A simple, "YES!" might be wise but make sure you leave the guy your phone number so he can call you. Here are some more tips on dating and accepting (or decling) an invitation to go on a date:

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Make sure you read the answers for saying, "No!" too since you probably will run into that issue at some point. Being prepared is always wise.

Personally? I would go with the clear answer of, "Yes," and then ask the guy what he had in mind for a date and go from there. If he asks you out then he has probably already had date ideas in mind so see what he has to offer.

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DiversityDoll answered Monday February 22 2010, 4:32 pm:
i thhink that fist you should tell him that u need 1 day to think about it. you go home think it through thoroughly and then if u want to go out with himm then go out with him but if not then break himm off with out beinq to harshh..

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MishoNina answered Sunday March 22 2009, 3:21 am:
Welll... All I did was grab my boyfriend's crotch and he liked it. So yeah. He's my boyfriend ever since!

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myusername1 answered Friday November 4 2005, 6:48 pm:
Yes, you say yes LOL. It may sound kind of funny, but if you really like this person say YES or ya or ok

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mooch789 answered Wednesday November 2 2005, 12:06 am:
Well first consider the guy you're going out with. Is he considerate, respectfull and caring or does he want a girlfriend just because all his friends have one. You also don't want a boyfriend who has a reputation for being a 'player,' or someone who has more than 1 girlfriend at a time. Next, really think about what you're doing and if you say you love him, mean it. I know it doesn't seem like it but guys have hearts too and they hate it when they get cheated on. Don't do anything you're not ready to do.

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confusedbabii answered Monday October 31 2005, 10:01 pm:
when a guy asks you out, you just say yes. there's nothing else to it. when the time comes, you will naturally know. something along the lines of sure, yes, or yeah will come out, and it won't sound dumb. hope i helped!

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AGEHA answered Monday October 31 2005, 9:15 pm:
"I agree to partake in such a commitment"

To be honest, I think it's a bad idea to be TOLD what to say in this situation. It will cause you and your words to become hollow and unoriginal. It would be the same as if you printed out your favorite response and read it off the piece of paper when you talked to him again. You have a brain, so think of what to say on your own. Just taking what someone here says and repeating it as if you DIDN'T read it here only makes the act simply that: an act.

Long story short: nobody cares what you say, and as long as you say ANYTHING positive, I'm sure he'll be more than happy with it.

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oneandonly345 answered Monday October 31 2005, 5:32 pm:
you can say .
i'd love to
.. anything really =]
you'll get better as the years move on.

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PinkPrincess20 answered Monday October 31 2005, 1:01 pm:
Hey well im 13 to and my first boyfriend was this year and when he asked mei felt they way you did so i siad let me think about it and ill tell you tomarrow. so iwent home and thought is he nice? do i like himn? dose he really like me?
*HoPeD i HeLpEd*

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GlamAdvice21 answered Sunday October 30 2005, 8:53 pm:
Well when a guy ask me out I say yes. But my friends all have a different way of accepting. One of them always nods her head and says "I'd love to" Thats sweet and common. Some shy girls bite their lip and nod to make it look cute. I hate it wen a guy sends a friend to get your number or to ask you out. Its immature and I always say no. But if I like them I tell his friend for him to ask em out. One other friend of mine can always tell when a guy is going to ask her out (I have no idea how-lol) She reply's with a kiss. Make your own signature yes and make sure its not to corny or not to romantic!


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crazycheerleader answered Sunday October 30 2005, 8:39 pm:
how about just hang out and get to know him and if you end up liking him then ask him back out. hope we help!
Chelsea & Sheri

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gabx17 answered Sunday October 30 2005, 6:53 pm:
lol just say "yes" or "of course" ..whatever you do, dont say "sure". lol i said that when my boyfriend asked me out (of course it was 3 in the morning and we were both dead tired) and to this day he still cracks on me for saying "sure". however, we are still together and have been together for 16 months in 10 days. (= (okay so maybe "sure" isnt too bad lol) but good luck!

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bballsista2 answered Sunday October 30 2005, 5:42 pm:
What do you feel like saying?

Just be calm about it, and say ''yes'' or ''i'd like that''. If you really don't know what to say then just be like ''ok, that sounds like fun.''

Just don't freak out about the little things!

It will just get in the way later on in life.

Good luck!~bballsista2~

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partychick101 answered Sunday October 30 2005, 5:12 pm:
If your talking to them in person you can just be like *smile* yea.

Or online just answer.

In a note..just write back.

Simple things work. Don't over do it.


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BeautifulMadness answered Sunday October 30 2005, 2:58 pm:
Just nod and smile if you are uncomfortable actually thinking of something to say or you're scared you'll say the wrong thing :)
On the other hand, you could say something like, yes that sounds like fun, or I'd love to, or sure.

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advicegodesses2 answered Sunday October 30 2005, 2:18 pm:
Just say "sure I would love to go out with you".

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caden answered Sunday October 30 2005, 2:15 pm:
say " Sure, when will you be picking me up." or "yeah, I dont realy have any plans for {the time he says he wants to plan it}."
Hope I helped♥

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blue_eyed_beuty answered Sunday October 30 2005, 2:14 pm:
NO!!!!!!!! just kidding

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cjAdvice answered Sunday October 30 2005, 1:51 pm:
Well awncer yes... cause in a twisted kinda way it is like a marrage question..... but only as b/f and g/f if you get what i mean... lol

hope this help's you! Good luck!

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Advicelady6798 answered Sunday October 30 2005, 1:33 pm:
If you like the guy you say yes and if you dont you say no and say no in a nice way by saying i like us being friends. Its definitely not like being asked to marry them. When you are going out there is no guartee you will stay together so dont worry about it.

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Jessica13 answered Sunday October 30 2005, 12:37 pm:
ok just do what your heart tells you if you like the guy then take a chance say yes and see where that takes you.

I hope I helped

form Jessica

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ThugGirl041790 answered Sunday October 30 2005, 12:15 pm:
Well tell him that you`d like to get to know him better befor actually being called a couple.. i think that would be easier and better especially for your age.. No you not suppose to or have to say yes any guy who asks you out.. just go with who you like and are interested in and if your not ready for a relationship just try maybe going out with guys as friends befor makin it sound so serious.. ♥ Dez

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AskmeNess7 answered Sunday October 30 2005, 11:37 am:
Your deff not dumb, everyone goes through it at some part of time. If you like the person, then say yes, yes doesnt mean your going to get married it means you feel the same as the person, and you want to start a real reltionship. Yes does sound kind of funny now that I think of it, but it shows the person that you dont play games. I hope I helped...

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mystical_breeze answered Sunday October 30 2005, 11:33 am:
I would just say, "Sure, I'd love to," and leave it like that. It's not like you have to say a big speech or anything, or just the word "yes" either. Just say what comes to mind, and even if you DO say something dumb, he'll think it's cute that you're embaressed lol. Just make sure you're comfortable with the guy, and don't be wicked nervous about embaressment.
♥ Alexa

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Sherry answered Sunday October 30 2005, 11:24 am:
Haha your not dumb. I think saying just "Yes" would kinda be weird can tell him why you like him and say "So yeah I'll go out with you" Like "Well, your cute..and funny...soo sure I'll go out with you". =)

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orphans answered Sunday October 30 2005, 11:24 am:
just saying yes doesn't sould like when someone asks you to marry them.

if you don't want to say yes, then just say sure or something, but trust me, saying yes is normal, and does NOT sould like you're about to marry them.

but if you dont like ther person that's asking you out, then say no. it might be hard, but it's better than saying yes and being stuck with them, and then it'll be even harder to brake up with them later.

just say "i really like you a lot, but only as a friend. i'm sorry" or something like that.

but if you DO like the person and you can picture going out with him, then just say yes. but make sure that you feel really comfortable around them, and that you're not shy around them.

hope i helped!!

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lulabelle answered Sunday October 30 2005, 11:24 am:
You’re not dumb. You are just feeling uncomfortable with a new experience. If someone you like asks you out say yes. Believe me he's not ready for that walk down the isle either. If someone you don't like asks you out say no. Under most circumstances you will have a miserable time with him. Every once in a while someone will turn out to be different than you thought they'd be and you'll have a great time. That is rare. If someone likes you that you aren't sure of, get to know them first.

Good Luck!


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kaylasays answered Sunday October 30 2005, 11:15 am: pretty much just say yes..theres not alot too it.

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Californias_Hottest_xO answered Sunday October 30 2005, 11:03 am:
It simple. Just say sure. Unless you dont like the guy. If you're JUST looking for a boyfriend, and not because you like him, then dont say yes.

♥ Melissa ♥

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MissJessicaPaige answered Sunday October 30 2005, 11:00 am:
Well, if you like him or want to go out with him you say yes. but if you just want a boyfriend then dont say yes. only say yes to someone you really honestly want to go out with!

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