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Is She Still Cheating?
Hi, Me and my girlfriend where together for 2 and a half years we broke up and couple days later she went out with a guy she works with. She said they only went out 2 times. Well we got back together things seemed cool. Then i got a funny feeling like something was wrong. She was "talking" and only "kissed" the guy but things were still going on she admitted it and said it was over with them. Well she has been deleting her cell phone history daily. She admitted to me today that they talk on the cell phone but she claims nothing is going on! Do you think she is still cheating? Also do you think it's right for her to go and talk to the guy after all that has happened! She tells me there is nothing between them now and they only talk on the phone! She tells me what's wrong with them being friends.
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Well with the information it sounds like it yes, but dont jump to conculshions. Tell her if she wont be honest then its over and most likly she will say everything.. If you want to dump her but if you want to let it go thats fine too.
<3 Tiffany
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Obviously what shes doing is wrong. She knows whats wrong with them talking on the phone, and is waiting for you to find out. Until then shes acting guilty. If she said she talked on the phone and then erases her history, then it must mean a call was private. Who else was the call to? I think she is cheating on you.
♥ Melissa
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What shes doing is wrong, just to let you know first off. She knows exactly whats wrong with the two of them talking is, shes just waiting for you to step up and tell her whats wrong, until then, shes trying to guilt trip you. This makes her have an excuse to talk to him, because you can't come up with a good reason. The wrong in the matter of them talking is the fact that they dated and in order for you two to continue your relationship is to have the trust. Now, what person would accept their partner to communicate with someone whom they just had a thing with? Nobody, no human on earth. But, the point is, that if shes removing the call history, thats the big sign that tells you something is going on. You need to say to her, "Maybe you don't see the wrong in it, but how would you feel if this had been going on the other way around?" And if she tells you she'd be ok, shes lying, and thats when you just need to end it with her. If shes not willing to just tell you the truth and to hurt you when she knows she is, then why reason with her? I remind you also, that shes going to have contact with this guy no matter what if they are working together. When shes asking you the question whats wrong, tell her that you are hurting him and hurting the relationship, because that is whats wrong, and her erasing the call history is whats wrong with it. If she doesn't care for those reasons, shes out.
-TheTeenGirl
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Obviously shes confused. She still wants to be with him, and wants to be with you. Break it off with her. You can find so much better. I can tell you really like/love her, but she obviously doesnt care about your feelings. I was with my boyfriend for 3 years and the whole time I was being played, he did the same thingg, and I ended up with nothingg but a broken heart at the end. Just tell her that your not going to be with someone you cant trust, or who doesnt wanna be with you. trust me, you dont need anyone whos going to play games with your heart. hhope i helped...
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Tell her obviously her being friends with her ex led into deeper things and you dont want it to interfere with your relationship. If you had problems with it twice before then most likely she is still cheating. Ask her to be honest with you and if she would rather be with him.
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