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This is so first grade
My best friend and i got into a fight. a really bad fight. one when we don't talk to each other for a month. my mom knos about the problem. now my x best calls and apologizes. we have gotten into so many fights i can't even count. so i told her we would talk a bout it in the morning. i don't want my mom to think we are friends because she don't like her. i don't like her. but i don't want to be mean or be enemies wat should i do?????????
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Just tell her the truth, tell her that your not trying to be mean but youd rather not be friends with her anymore, all use do is fight, and youd rather not talk anymore it would make everyones life much easier.
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you should tell her that even though you were always friends or however long you were that you fight to much with her and you dont think that your friendship is gonna work out. or just tell her the truth that you and your mom dont like her and that you dont want to be friends anymore. the truth may hurt but its better then you not liking her and her calling you all the time
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i wud say : hey im rlly sorry , but i dont see in that we are friends no longer,lets also be no enemies ok?srr for that my mom was right (walk away)
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ok i think you two should sit down and talk about this...believe me i go through this all the time with my bestfriend to...but if you dont like her then you should be as close friends with her and you was...i think if you dont want to be that close of friends anymore or whatever just talk occasionally like sometimes on the phone or maybe when you see eachother at school or out somewhere but dont become enemies with her...tell her if she ever needs somebody to talk to or whatever that you're there for her!! Hope this helps
your friend,
Jessica
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You don't have to LIKE someone to be nice to them. Believe me, I know and it's hard. You should be nice to anyone though. As hard as it is. I know you've probably heard "you have to give respect to gain it". I don't know if you respect her, but just show it. You don't have to like her, like you don't have to like your teachers at school, but just be nice. (And of course, avoid fights if you can cause that'd be good) Good luck and I hope I helped!
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Dont even TRY to make things better if you hate her !!! My friend had problmes with a girl like that im middle school. She would get mad at my friend for things like playing with a friend of hers just because shes her "best friend". Well if you do decide to make it better than you're making a big mistake. You'll miss out on fun times. Instead, you'll be worrying about getting in other silly fights. I suggest you tell her "sorry you're great and all but i think its better when we are not friends because we wont get into dumb fights."
M a k e T h e R i g h t C h o i c e !
♥
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This happened to me to. i know this is mean but i wrote her a note that said "im sorry but i dont think we should stay best friends because of all our fights but maybe we can still talk and hang out sometimes." and we never became friends again but we still talked every once and a while..
i hope i helped
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