Question Posted Sunday September 25 2005, 10:30 pm
Girls can answer, but this is a question I want guys to answer even more (since you know, its about how a guy would react). If you know any guys on this site, could you refer them to this question.
Okay then, last year I noticed this really really hot guy in my school, and told my friends about him and such, and I decided he was the hottest guy in the school and it became this sort of joke but not really a joke between us, just a thing to talk about. Well, one of my friends talks to him a bit now, and the other day (oh yeah, I never had talked to him, he doesnt even know I exist, hes a senior I'm a sophmore but my older sister DID tell him I thought he was the hottest guy in school) my friend was standing with him and said "TIA! This is Josh" ANd I flipped bc she wasnt introducing but making obvious something was up. So I didnt know what to do and so I just walked over and told him he was the hottest guy in the whole school. Do you think I might have freaked him out or flattered him or anything? Because I definatly didnt want to do that it was just a more spur-of-the-moment thing and I cant believe I said it.
Of course, if he wasnt freaked out (aka if it would freak you guys out) then would you think now that I know him it would be okay to sort of try to become friends with him. I dont want a relationship or anything, just friendship. Or would that be ... awkward?
THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THE HELP. Really, I mean...this means so much. Usually I'm so shy and this was actually a huge milestone for me. Even if he would be freaked out, I still have a gained alot out of it and would never, ever take it away. Oh yeah, in case you were also wondering, we got a picture together to, like I said "Can I get a picture together" he said "yeah" and when I told him that he said "I do now!" (I had said "did you know you're the hottest guy in the school) Well, thats about it. Thanks guys!
karenR answered Sunday September 25 2005, 10:51 pm: LOL, I'm sorry, I would have ran the other way!
You were very brave!
I am not a guy but if he didn't run the other way then I think he would probably talk to you if you wanted to approach him again. I think he was probably very flattered. :) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
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