ok so i like this guy and for once a guy is taller than me hes 6 foot and im 5'8 so im thrilled anyways i have 2 classes with him and one of the classes i have lunch in and he eats with me and ill still his seat or he'll give me his cookies bc he knos i like them and he always gets to english before me on purpose bc he knows it bugs me only problem hes kinda shy and so am i thats why i think he might like me but i dunno i want him to ask me out does he like me as just a friend or is this flirting? should i give up or not? im not the kind of person to make a first move so i want him to someone please help! i just want to know what is going on if what im doing is right if i need to flirt more or whatever so yea help me somebody please! thanx bunches!
helpachick answered Wednesday October 26 2005, 9:39 pm: hey...well this is how it sounds to me. i think that this guy probably likes you as a friend...but wishes to be more. the problem is he IS shy, so it will take him a while to make much of a big move. keep flirting a lot and become really good friends, so he'll feel comfortable asking you and telling you things, and maybe give him the signs through flirting that you like him too. this way he'll know that he can talk to you about *you and him* when he's ready...which will hopefully be soon! xoxohelpachick [ helpachick's advice column | Ask helpachick A Question ]
sp4rklingr4in answered Wednesday October 26 2005, 2:05 am: Patience, my friend. If he really likes you, he'll make the first move. If you desperately want something to happen, try telling his friends that you like him and maybe they'll help speed things up. [ sp4rklingr4in's advice column | Ask sp4rklingr4in A Question ]
sizzlinmandolin answered Wednesday October 26 2005, 12:37 am: It's hard to tell if he really likes you or not. He definitely cares about you and likes you as a friend. It looks to me like you two would make a really cute couple. Both of you being shy is not a bad thing. It's something else that you have in common. The only way to find out if he likes you as more than a friend is to either ask him or tell him that you like him. Being shy about this kind of stuff myself, I know how hard this can be. The easiest way to do it is to do it when you're not face to face with him. Either write him a letter, talk to him online, or talk to him on the phone. After he knows that you like him then he will make the "first move". He's probably as unsure about you as you are about him. With your reassurance that you like him and maybe a little extra flirting he will ask you out if he's into you, and it really seems like he is! Just be strong and everything will work out for you. Good luck! [ sizzlinmandolin's advice column | Ask sizzlinmandolin A Question ]
Jarhead11789 answered Wednesday October 26 2005, 12:33 am: I would say that yes, he likes you. He's flirting a lot, toying with you, he obviously enjoys being around you. If you really want him to make the first move, all you can really do is just flirt more. Eventually he should come around and ask you out. [ Jarhead11789's advice column | Ask Jarhead11789 A Question ]
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