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ok help i need
a bit long i say ok well im 14/m and i have asked this question what do girls look for in guys well i looked at the answers and i was most of them but im not the brightest star in the sky so i have a two part question 1 why are girls so materalistic about guys appearance and 2 do most girls want all of the other things for the being cute part? well i need help so read it please i beg of you!
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dude..... who knows? (not me... sorry.) But if they do look for everything in a guy, they're dreaming and possibly a little shallow.
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im a guy but just go up to them and grab there boobs some times u get slaped and other times they think you are brave to do that to a girl you dont know
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One, I am NOT materalistic. I am a fourteen year old female, and I do not care if the guy that I'm going out is Mr. Hottie or not. I would rather him not be Mr. Hollywood and have a sincere heart and genuinely like me for who I am than for him to be good looking and shallow.
Yes, it is okay if the guy is cute, but it also can be bad - if he's really cute, other girls are going to like him too. :(
I would rather a guy really honestly like me for who I am, not what I look like. I've been called hot (Gag me!) and pretty, but also ugly. However, I would rather someone really look on the inside and see who I am, not just want to go out with me because I have a pretty face (which isn't true anyway).
I want a guy to be :
- Honest
- Fun
- Sweet
- Sense of humor
- Gentlemanly
- Caring
- Helpful
- Loving
- Gentle
- Smart
- Playful
- A Christian
- Protective
Honest is important because, duh - why would you want to go out with someone who isn't truly devoted to you and would cheat on you?
Fun is important because you need to be able to laugh with the person you're dating. You've gotta be able to have a good time with them, otherwise, what's the point?
I like guys that are less "macho" and more sweet and sensitive. The whole macho thing turns me off. Although it's kinda funny to watch two guys bicker like three year olds, it does not make me want to go out with them.
A sense of humor is vital because I'm extremely sarcastic at times. The guy has to know when to laugh, and to know that I will make jokes about them (and myself), but none of it is done in a mean spirited way.
I want a guy who is gentlemanly. I want him to offer to open doors and carry my book. He should offer to let me go first, or if I prefer, lead the way.
I need a guy who cares for me and loves me. If he's not worried about me when I've got the flu, then he probably isn't going to work out for me. I want him to love me, and me to love him. I don't mean love like "I love Vanilla Pepsi.." or "I love chocolate ice cream..." -- I mean "I love you so much that I would die for you."
Helpful guys are always appreciated. I just really like it when a guy offers to help me out.
Gentle. Back to the whole macho thing. I love animals - and if the guy I'm dating is too rough around animals, or rough around me, I don't want to date him. Gentleness is key.
I don't want my boyfriend to be a genius - he doesn't have to be the world's biggest math fan, or the first 15-year-old Ph.D - I just want him to have enough smarts to not fail school and have common sense.
I want my guy to be playful. Not in a weird or perverted sense, but the kind of guy that I can play on a swingset with and he doesn't think I'm terribly geeky; or I can play CandyLand with him and he doesn't think I'm babyish. Yeah.
I will only date Christian guys because the Bible says not to be unequally yoked with unbelievers. Some girls do not have this priority, but I do.
Protective is important to me. Why would I want to go out with a guy who would let someone beat me up? I need someone who will protect me with all of his ability.
As you can see, appearance was not on my list. Sure it's okay to be cute, but what matters more is how attractive you are on the inside - not the outside.
-FunnyCide
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Not all girls are materialistic about a guy's appearance. A lot of it depends on the age group. In the teens, a lot of people are infatuated with having a good-looking girlfriend or boyfriend. As you get older with a little more experience, you'll realize that looks aren't everything. If it comes down to it, I'd rather be with a nice, funny guy than a shallow cute guy.
What always caught my attention was a guy that could make me laugh. Other good qualities are someone who knows how to listen, who is friendly, and who really cares about others.
Don't worry so much about looks. They tend to fade with age anyway. A caring, romantic, funny guy is hard to find.
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I never saw this question the first time but ill answer it now
not all girls are like that im not. i go out wiht guys that can make me laugh and have a good time when im around them. the girls that want the guy to be the one and only are missing out on the other things..Just be nice and funny and try not to act like an idiot. looks dont matter well they do but if the girl likes you for who you are they wont.
i hope this helped i dont no if it did but i tryed
<3 kayla
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OK. I missed you the first time around so lets see what I can come up with.
Now, from the prospective of an "older" woman I can tell you that at 14 most girls are indeed infatuated with looks. You may find a few who aren't but most will be. And guys are too. They want a pretty girl. All that changes with maturity.
Things change as you get older. Most don't want to hear it but MOST of the time, the relationships you have as young teens are merely stepping stones to something a lot better.
All that being said, A persons personality is want makes them attractive.
Take a plain looking guy. Give him a sense of humor. Make him polite and friendly and he will outshine the gorgeous guy who has no sense of humor is rude and thinks he is Gods gift to women.
Personality affects the way a person looks. So, regardless of what you look like. Just be a nice guy. One that a girl will feel comfortable talking to and being around. Be friendly. The girls will love you.
So don't concern yourself so much with looks. Yours or theirs. I mean look your best but don't think for a minute it is actually what makes a guy attractive. :)
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