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heart broken
Okay me and my boyfriend were together for about three years, he is 20 and im 18. We were friends for two years before we dated anyways. we broke up because we had respect issues and didnt agree on certain things in the future. he tried getting me back many times...but about three weeks ago he finally gave up. a week ago i saw he had made a myspace...and is now talking to so many girls and gettin their numbers and meeting them up. its really heartbreaking for me because we've only been broken up for about three months max and hes already moved on and talking to all these girls...and im constantly sad now.
how can i move on...not miss him...not be hurt? and i cant stop myself from not going on his myspace cause i get curious of who hes talkin to...help me! i wanna get over him! and plz dont suggest..sleeping with someone else for now cause im not like that.
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Maybe you should meet new guys by doing the same thing. Or you could find something you are really good that occupies your time so you wont think about him. It is hard to get over someone especially if you care about them. Its one of those things that takes one day at a time. It wont go away over night and i understand what you are going through. If you show that you have a positive attitude then it will get better.
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well first you will have to look father down in your heart and see if he's the right one for you and if he is then god will put him back in your life........My advice to you is he is no good because i believe that he most likely he was dating some of those ladies when yall was together andyou don't want to be a side girl
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Answer: I understand your heart is aching. You two were together for a long time. You still care about him and possibly even still love him. However, think about the reasons you broke up and ask yourself if it was for the best. You can still love someone without being "in love" or want to continue a relationship with that person. It sounds like you were the one to initiate the break-up considering he was the one that tried getting you back many times.
It's only natural he would give up after awhile. Maybe this is just another way to try to win you back, but I don't think so. I think he realizes you do not reciprocate his feelings, and he does not want to be rejected anymore. So now he is concentrating on moving on. You should be to. You don't necessarily need to jump into another relationship or start dating again right away to get over someone.
Take a break from guys for awhile. Concentrate on doing things you love, your friends, your family, your pets, etc. Whatever you do, do not speak or see your ex-boyfriend, at least for awhile. Do not let yourself check his myspace. Sure, you probably want to remain friends with him, but first you need to find yourself and let your heart heal. If you do not want to stop speaking to him with no explanation, tell him you want to remain friends but you need some time right now to yourself. It sounds like he'd agree it is for the best as well.
I just went through a break up so I know what I'm talking about. :) In time, you will get better and when the right guy comes along, you will realize you made the right decision.
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I know what you're going through cause I'm going through the same thing. What I do is hangout with my friends. Except for me, I feel my best when I'm hanging out with my guy friends. Cause when Im with them, I feel safe, like nothing can hurt me. My email is skippy_pebbles@yahoo.com if you wanna talk.
**hope I helped**
~~skippy_pebbles~~
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It's difficult letting go of a relationship, especially if you've been together for a while. Take some time for yourself to let your heart heal. Whenever you're tempted to check his myspace, remind yourself of the reasons you split. Do things to remind yourself of why being single is fun. Hang out with your friends. Take up a new hobby. Do all the things that you couldn't do while you were with him. There's no cure for getting over someone other than time. I wish I could offer you more.
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ok well. hearts are evil, im telling you they are. they break and then hurt, but have you tried ice cream? just jokin' umm try making a few guy friends, dont show them off to him and dont try to find a bf just yet, just wait till this heartache heals so you know that your not just getting with the guy to get over this one. life sucks get a helmet and hit someone with it. just kiddin' but yah.... go with the flow and do what has to be done
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