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I really wanna be their friends?


Question Posted Thursday November 10 2005, 11:50 pm

There are these girls on my soccer team and their really popular and i'm a lot like them but I only started on this soccer team this year but it seems like they just wanna keep the clique their in and dont wanna let anyone else in although if they got to know me I think we could be really good friends what can I do to make them see that?

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happy-helper answered Friday November 11 2005, 2:17 pm:
Compliment them discretely such as "I like the way you did your hair today" or after the soccer match/practice, say "You played really well, congrats". Start conversation with them, find out their interests and I'm sure if they see that you're interested in similar things, they should be more comfortable to letting you hang out with them!
G'luck and be confident!
x Steph x

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babyB answered Friday November 11 2005, 10:16 am:
Girl, it sounds like their preps, plastics, snobs, maybe their not, strike up a conversation one day or compliment them on a game well played if they dont warm up to you, you dont want to be like them because if they're so unwelcoming to not try you as a friend they're not worth your time.

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Maranda answered Friday November 11 2005, 2:46 am:
start a conversation with one of them ask them if they wanna go do something go to the mall go see a movie or have just a girls night out...once one of then notices how well u two get along...you'll be in the group!!!!!!

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Teza answered Friday November 11 2005, 12:20 am:
I'm just like that. I have a hard time letting people into my group of friends. The best thing to do is try to talk to them. When you guys are playing just ask them stuff. Talk to them about things that both of you are interested in. The more you guys see each other and talk, the more comftrable you will be around each other. Give it some time, and I'm sure you guys will become friends.

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ThugGirl041790 answered Friday November 11 2005, 12:13 am:
I`d just talk to em.. like just maybe start a conversation you know they`d relate too.. ♥ Dez

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