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Hey Guys! I'm isn'tlifegreat?! I'm here to make life great for you. I'm only 13 but that doesn't mean I can't give some pretty kick-ass advice. Just remember, you can tell me anything/everything. I don't know your true identity. I know I'm not perfect but I really try hard to give good advice. Feel free to e-mail me at any time. My e-mail is bumbleb529@aim.com. So start asking questions and voila life is great! -isn'tlifegreat
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Age: 13
Member Since: September 23, 2005
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Last Update: November 13, 2005
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My friend broke up with his gf a week ago well actually she broke up with him and she is also my friend, he is like my best friend and i can tell him anything even tho we dont hang out, and same with her im really close with her too, i like really wnat to tell him that im starting to like him again but i dont know if i should cause i know he DOESNT like me and he liked my friend like crazy and she broke up with him so he might still like her or one of the 100 girls who like him, so many girls are always flirtting with him that i just feel like im not good enough for him,i dunno i get a tingly feeling just thinking about him... but yea do u think i should tell him I serioulsy need to know whether or not to, i want to be like your one my best friends right? and I can tell you anything? and then be like I think im starting to like you again... but then im thinking its probably way to soon and i should just wait or get over him completeing because hes not good with any of his ex's... but yea any advice? (link)
first of all, no guy is ever "too good for you". some things may not work out between you and a guy but that doesn't mean ur not good enough for him. okay, now that that's behind us, i think that u should tell him indirectly not just like "I like you". flirt with him and when you think that the moment is propitious then go for it and ask him. that's my advice. hope i helped!


Hey,
I'm 16 and I want to try contact lenses. My optician says it's all OK. I was just wondering if anyone had any really good/bad experiences with contact lenses they could tell me about, or if there are tips any of you might have? Are they really weird to get used to? I have a real thing about touching my eyes, I don't like it at all. Will I find this really difficult? What happens if you can't get it out? (link)
My brilliant advice:

I've never had contact lenses because my mom says that she's had really bad experiences with them as a teeenager. She said that:
1. It's a lot of work to clean them all the time.
2. They ruined her eyes.
3. Glasses are pretty darn hot these days.(lol)

So if you think that you're ready for the responsibility and the risk then go for it. But i'd suggest thinking a little bit about the consequences first, good and bad. Hope I Helped!


okay so i want a ae all access pass and i was wondering if i would register online on ae.com and have them mail it to me.. has anyone done this and does this work.. do you think i should sign up on the site? (link)
Okay, so go to www.aeallaccesspass.com and click on join. I think it's free so no worries!


what is a good age to babysit and like how much should i charge per hour cause i am babysitting with a friend and we are going to split the money. about how long to the parents stay out for. thanks i rate high (link)
Usually a good age to babysit for money is atleast 13. Depending on your age, experience, and the amount of kids your babysitting you should charge a different amount of money /hour. If you're 12 or younger, don't charge any money because it's pretty much just good practaice. If you have minimum experience charge under $5/hour. After you get a babysitting liscence by the red cross you can get up to $15/hour depending on your age and the number of children your babysitting.

Hope I Helped!


im a boy in 8th grade and i am getting f's in l.a. lit and math and report cards are coming out tommarow friday and i wanted to know if any one could give me advice on how to show my parents my report card with them tearing my head off

thanks
mike (link)
1. start by giving them really bad news like that you're thinking of dropping out of school and moving to Canada. and then the report card wont seem as bad.

2. Cry a lot. They'll feel sorry for you and be all like, "Poor child I think hes learned his lesson."

3. Promise them you'll do better next quarter over and over again. After about a million times they might beleive you. and then you better really do better next quarter!


Hope I Helped!


what are some really good stores to find name brand things that arent to expensive?? (link)
Some of my favorites are:

Marshalls- They have a lot of sportyish brands like adias, nike, sketchers, etc. but they also have some pretty good clothes by like american eagle, and rave.

TJ Max- They have some pretty good clothes from like Abercriombie and Fitch, and stores like that for super cheap. I got some Abercrombie pants from there for like $12.

Hope I Helped! If I think of any other stores i'll be sure to tell u!


Okay Does anyone know what I can use to wash my face in that will not make my face dry and will make it soft. I use Irish Spring soap it it like makes my face peel and makes it really dry it seems like it tightens my skin up or something. So does anyone know of anything like soap or face wash that want dry my skin out and make it feel soft?
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totally- i have the same problem. or atleast i used to. here are some tips:

1. Use a cream cleanser. It hydrates your skin better.

2. Use Mousterizer to protect your skin and hydrate it.

3. Use a mousturizer with soothing ingredients in it like oats.

Here are some good poroducts:

1. Olay Moisture Rich Cream Cleanser

2. Dove Essential Nutients Day Lotion SPF 15

3. Grassroots While You Were Sleeping Cream

Hope I Helped!


i know i am depressed,between family problems,friend problems,and being home sick from my old town.im not the same happy person i was..i just want to become something..should i ask my mom if i could get singing lessons or acting classes? i want to be one of that and im looking forward to going to a collage for singing and acting..and how can i do this how can i become a happy person again? any tips?please help..no one can tell im sad,i hide it..my friends arent good enough to tell that stuff.. (link)
I think that it's a great idea to join some extracurricular activities. busyness gets your mind off all the sad things. and also try not to think about all the things that are making you sad and try to make things better. talk to your family about problems youre having with them. as much as they don't show it they love you and they want to help you as much as they can. and dont be bummed about your friends. i know that once you have a few really good friends, no one else is good enough. but atleast they're friends and they're there for you. and it always takes a while to adjust to a new place, but after a while it'll be home to you and youre old house will be "Where you used to live". Hope I Helped!


hey, i'm a sophomore in high school and i attend an all girls school. I've been at this school since freshman year and it's a really great school. It's great academically and the activities are great, but their's one problem.. and that's the social aspect. I've been thinking about transferring because I really don't fit in at school at all. I am in honors classes and i take an AP class and i've been in class with basically the same girls and i don't fit in with them at all. They are so different from me and i've given them a chance and it doesn't work. I've talked to a lot of people that aren't in my classes that i'm in theatre with, but it isn't working for me. THeirs another school in my area thats a boy/girl school that i coudl transfer to. i don't know if maybe that would be a better option, i could start over and make new freinds .. i just don't know if its worth risking my good academic standings at my current school and the awesome extracurriculars. does anybody have any advice?? i seriously dont know what to do anymore i've been crying all week. it really sucks and it just wears on me not having any friends at school. please please please help... and let me know what you would do in my situations. thanks. any advice is appreciated-- all advice will be rated a 5. (link)
wow. this one is hard. you really have to think,:
which is more important to you? friends or academic success? heres a list of pros and cons:

Stay at your current school:
Pros- you'll get into a great college, you'll learn to be more independent, you'll be distracted with awesome extracurriculars,
Cons- you'll be depressed and friendless, when you go to college it wont seem right

Transfer:
Pros-you'll have awesome friends who will always be there for you, you'll get into a decent college (if you're doing so well at you're current school i bet you you could do just as well at the other one), you'll have decent extracurriculars which will seem awesome cuz you have your friends.
Cons-You won't do as well academically or extracurricularly.

If it were up to me I would transfer but it's your choice so...

If you stay at your current school....try to do more things outside of school where you can make friends who you can relate to better like a community theatre, or a soccer league outside of school, or volunteer for a good cause. You'll be helping out and it's a good social event.

If you transfer...remember that friends are important but don't get too distracted. Try to stay on top of your school work. Hope I helped!


Okay so Halloween is only a month away and I've kind of been putting it off. Last year without thinking I promised my friend Kim (Names have been changed.) that she would come over to my house for halloween and we would be the pink ladies. I really don't want to be a pink lady and I don't know how to tell her. The worst part is I have no idea what I want to be for HAlloween. I want to be something totally original but pretty. I want to have a costume that nobody else has like last year I had an awesome costume and I loved all the attention I got for it. -Isn'tlifegreat?
age 13

P.S. I also have to tell Ashley she can't come over for Halloween because I really wan't to go to my friends Haloween Party. Gosh, I'm a mess. (link)
Thanx Guys! Everything worked out great! I was an academy award. (lol) and I ended up not going to the party but having tons of fun with my friend trick-or-treating! Once again, THANX!


Hey okay heres the deal , i want to make my hair like scrunched/wavy but i dont want to use roller things cause they break my hair to much. What should i use to scrunch it ?? By the wayy my hair is super straight naturally. (link)
After you take a shower put your hair in two braids. French braids usually make all of your hair wavy but that can sometimes be too much. Regular braids give the bottom of your hair beautiful waves that sometimes even look totally natural. Be sure to wear the braids over night or it won't last long at all. Hope I helped. -isn'tlifegreat?


Is there any way to make your hair grow really really fast? i want my hair to grow longer really fast. thanks

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Well there's no way that hair can grow at light speed but although it may not seem like it hair grows about a half-inch a month. For hair to grow even faster get a lot of sunight, but not too much because as much as it helps hair grow, it can totally damage your hair. Also, get your hair trimmed often. Every time hair is removed it grows back twice as fast. Hope I helped! -isn'tlifegreat?


I know you all hate these questions!

What is this song. its so old!

Its slow and romantic, I think by an african american singer. and Its not really like rap.

Its like 1- im in love with you 2-i just wanna be with you 3- its plain to see that youre the only one for me, and 4 repeat steps 1-3

does anyone remember that?

5's and feedback!

Thanks!
-Kelsey-
:) (link)
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