i know i am depressed,between family problems,friend problems,and being home sick from my old town.im not the same happy person i was..i just want to become something..should i ask my mom if i could get singing lessons or acting classes? i want to be one of that and im looking forward to going to a collage for singing and acting..and how can i do this how can i become a happy person again? any tips?please help..no one can tell im sad,i hide it..my friends arent good enough to tell that stuff..
x0xbeachbabex0x answered Saturday November 5 2005, 7:26 pm: okay i bassicly went through the same thing....i made some really good friends and whenever im upset i just pour out to them about stuff...if you dont want to talk to your new friends about it the how about your old friends where you used live?? when i had really hard family problems and i couldnt tell my friends i would get a journel or diary or something and just write what im feeling...it really helps to just let things out. also find something you like ask your mom if you want to do singing or acting or some other sports...it might help get your minds off things
Dr_Chad answered Saturday November 5 2005, 3:13 pm: Every one gets depressed once in a while. Life can be very disappointing and frustrating, and can get the best of us down.
I find it curious that you don't trust your friends with your feelings, but that's your business.
I applaud you for having concrete ideas on how you can bring about the change you are seeking in your life. I definitely encourage you to pursue singing or acting classes. Follow your passions and dreams and you will lift yourself out of this sadness.
isntlifegreat answered Friday November 4 2005, 9:17 pm: I think that it's a great idea to join some extracurricular activities. busyness gets your mind off all the sad things. and also try not to think about all the things that are making you sad and try to make things better. talk to your family about problems youre having with them. as much as they don't show it they love you and they want to help you as much as they can. and dont be bummed about your friends. i know that once you have a few really good friends, no one else is good enough. but atleast they're friends and they're there for you. and it always takes a while to adjust to a new place, but after a while it'll be home to you and youre old house will be "Where you used to live". Hope I Helped! [ isntlifegreat's advice column | Ask isntlifegreat A Question ]
brokenagain answered Thursday November 3 2005, 9:19 pm: Hunny missing something is the worst pain you can have--no matter what it is your missing. You have to be strong enough for yourself to day I am going to miss them things but am going to find new things to cherish. While your spending your time missing them things the things you want to do are being put on hold;which is "torturing" your feelings. You will find that once you step forward you will be happy and the things you miss you will still miss but it wont be taking over your life--hope i could help [ brokenagain's advice column | Ask brokenagain A Question ]
trlblzr4u answered Thursday November 3 2005, 9:09 pm: First good thing is that you realize that you are, now in order to fix it in a way you have to force yourself to do thing that you find enjoyable. I say force because being depressed will help you find any reason not to do something, so instead of just going with that make yourself get to doing something and it'll take your mind off your current state. Also if you do it enough, you'll find yourself not having to force it and just letting it happen. [ trlblzr4u's advice column | Ask trlblzr4u A Question ]
MissJessicaPaige answered Thursday November 3 2005, 8:55 pm: oh course you can be happy again. you have to put alot of effort into it though. if singing and acting makes you happy, GO ALL FOR IT! you shouldnt let people you down,...theres more to life than that! you should write your feelings down if you cant tell anyone....it should make you feel better!
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