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Problems With My Dad
Here is my problem my dad and I are kind of a like but that isn't always a good thing. We are always arguing about some thing or another. We try to be nice to each other but that doesn't last long. Does anyone else have this kind of problem with your parents? If so what is your advice.
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i've always had problems. when me and my dad used to argue a lot, i'd finally get to the point to where i wouldn't argue back. he seemed to like it better that way. if you just stand there and agree or if you must disagree do it very politley in a very calm voice he will begin to understand that your tired of it. arguing that is. well, thats what worked with me and my dad. i hope i was of some help and that everything works out for the best!! 8)
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Hmm... sounds like were in the same position cause we share the same dad. Hi!
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OMG yes me and my dad fight all the time.. my moms always like I feel like your siblings.. but I just kinda back off for a little bit, all he wants is to be the Boss hes the dad and I tend to forget that and so does everyother teen out there.. just dont get an attitude unless he really makes you mad
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Yes,I have the same problem with my mom most of the time.I just try not to talk to my mom at times when I`m mad because I think I`ll say something and we will start arguing.If I were you after you guys get in an argument I would appoligize to them.Most teenages don`t get along with there parents becuase we think differently.Well,I hope I helped and good luck.♥
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YES. every teenager has that problem, it's normal for teens and parents to not get along, we think soooo much differently,just try after getting in fights, apologize and tell them it's hard to get along with them because ya'll are different ages.. good lucckkk
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I have that same problem with my dad my advice is...
Talk to your mom (trust me) Try to compramise with your dad or get out of the house more so you don't have time to argue or make nutural ground or cirten times that your not alowed to argue or sometin
yeah hope i helped
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Sometimes I suppose. I just say to myself that it is my life and I don't want them to run it. Everyone is entitled to be an individual who can look after themseleves. Just think in the end, they have to accept you as who you are sooner or later! Chin up, the arguments won't last forever!!
x Steph x
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I have the same problem with my mom, stepdad, and father. The problem is stubborness in mine, I dont know about yours. but what I do is go to my room to calm down and if that doesnt work for you I would talk to your family tell them you love them, but that the arguing at home is not good for you and you want to move in with another relative to smooth things out for you and them.
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Hiya,
You are not on your own! Everyone has trouble getting on with their parents when they are teenagers (unless they are emotionless robots!!!)
I had the same problem as you, I am very similar personality-wise to my Mother so our personalities clashed ALL the time!!
The best thing to do if you feel an argument coming on and you are rubbing each other up the wrong way is to leave the house/room/area. Take 5 minutes (Or longer depending on how wound up you are!) listening to your favourite track, reading a bit of a book you like or checking your e-mails etc etc and then go back to them and say you are sorry for leaving the room "BUT" and then calmly tell him why you had to leave.
Take care
Mel xx
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well just so you know, EVERYONE has problems with their parents even if they say they dont. the thing you have to realize, is that at the end of the day, your parents have the control to either make you happy or miserable. if you dont argue with them, they wont ground you or doing soemthing retarted like that. the problem that i have with my parents is that they have absolutly no trust in me becuase of what i have done and do. you have to learn to play the game. ive learned that i either have to learn to lie better or dont get caught. you need to just suck it up and go with the flow and things will be a whole lot better. fake a smile and then when he leaves the room call him every name you would love to say to his face.
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