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Location: Oklahoma
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Age: 16
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how common is it for guys to shave "down there" ? (link)
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it is very common for guys to shave ALL of "down there". my boyfriend does. some guys just like to keep it short and just trim. i honestly hate the bushy look. its really up to you and your preferance.
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18/f...i am kind of interested in this guy who is 25 and is also interested in me. he is my uncle's fiance's brother...so he's not blood related, but would it be weird for me to date him? (link)
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dont listen to anyone that tells you that age matters cuz it doesnt! im 18 and i had a fling with a guy that was 27. the age different isnt wierd or unusual. now, if your uncle found out he might be a little uncomfortable with it. but i say, your a grown woman, you can date who you wanna date. just make sure that if it doesnt work, you guys break up on good terms. you'd hate that really awkward feeling if you had to be in the same room with him again. lol
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i'm 15 f
i've been struggling with my sexuality for a few months now, almost half a year. first, my best friend who moved to texas said she had a crush on me over AIM and i grew to like her back. since she hasnt been able to visit us, i think her interest faded. she considers herself bicurious but i really dont think she likes me. it took me a while to finally not like her so much, but she's gotten with a group of friends who really dont label her and they all act sexual anyway. i really wish i could be with that group of friends because my friends would label me in an instant. i dont want to be labeled bi because i really don't know what i am. i'm kinda attracted to girls but i'm also attracted to guys, i know im not straight but i dont want to be bi. i've only dated 1 guy in the past and that didnt work out very well. i havent dated any girls, and i havent opened up except to that friend, and one other friend that i just talked to tonight. how do i get comfortable with myself enough to open up to more people? and where do i begin? all i want them to know is that i'm probably bicurious. at first i thought i was going through a phase, but im not sure what phases last for half a year. =\
help me pleassssssee (link)
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it could still be a phase. im straight, i do have bi curious tendencies but im engaged, i like the penis but yet girls are still attractive to me. honestly, lesbians turn me on. that sounds wierd since i claim to be straight and all but its not a big deal. i've done stuff with girls and my fiance knows that. its something you gotta figure out yourself, something you have to try. just dont be ashamed of what you are. to keep your friends off your back date guys, but have fun with girls on the side. get new friends. if your "friends" are gonna stop liking you cuz of who you might think you are, then they arent real friends.
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I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years...since I was fifteen. I am ashamed to say that during those three years I cheated on him twice, but I immediately regretted it and I was unhappy at the time because he wasn't treating me right. That was about a year ago and currently we are on a break and have been for a few weeks. During these few weeks I have had sex with two other guys, not thinking that we were going to be getting back together. Now that we are talking about getting back together, he feels like I am hiding something and wants me to come clean. Should I tell him everything or just part of the truth? Last time I told him I kissed someone else when we were on a break he freaked out. (link)
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I've been dating my bf(now fiance) for 3 years, since i was 15 :). when we first started going out i cheated on him 4 times, but nothing more then just a kiss. i felt bad but i did it thinking we werent gonna last, besides i did only start dating him cuz i thought he was sexi. lol. he knows it too. he's cheated on me once, just to get back at me. now me and him have been on breaks before(some worse then others). on the few breaks we have been on, i've had sex with 2 guys and screwed around with another, and he has dated another girl and had sex with 2 girls. we both realize that we werent together and it was our own fault we werent together. it wasnt cheating. although we did get hurt by those acts you gotta learn to look past them. its really hard to do at first, but if you REALLY want something to come outta that relationship you will. you need to tell him that. now whether you tell him is your decision. a relationship is based on communication. i do have a couple things im hiding from him and i have made up a couple things to make it seem like they werent my fault.(such as, i was drunk, i was taken advantage of, i was on pills, ect.)
the one thing you really gotta be careful with is if you dont wanna tell him, you gotta act as normal as possible. when your trying to hide something from someone, you tend to get snappy and angry over alot of little things and get irritated and even blame him for cheating even tho it was you that did it.
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I just got the blackberry pearl and i like it a lot. But it is very difficult to manage and figure out. I just have a few questions! Please answer..
1. How do you make the picture your background as the whole screen and with out the icons in the way? I have tried this and it only does the half screen with icons on top of it.
2. What do you do to make the trackball turn different colors when someone calls?
3. How do you download your own ringtones on the phone? I want to get my ringtones from a website called myxertones.com and zedge.com. I just can't figure it out.
thanks! (link)
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i have a blackberry pearl and LOVE it. it was hard to get used to but once you figure it out it was a breeze. so here we go....
1. the icons are always gonna be on the screen(you can change the location of them by changing the theme in settings) but to make a picture take up the whole screen you gotta go to your pictures and click on the picture you want as your background. then click that button with all the little dots next to the talk button. select zoom, and zoom in til the picture covers the whole screen. then click the button with all the dots again and select "set as home screen image"
2. i have never even heard of the track ball lighting different colors, but if you find out how to make it do that let me know! lol. that sounds cool.
3. i honestly have never tried putting ringtones on my phone. sorry i couldnt help you there either.
good luck! and enjoy the phone!
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can you give a blow job with braces? i have two small hooks on the inner side of my teeth and my boyfriend wants a blow job but i don't want to hurt him. do you think i can still give him one? (link)
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to be absolutely blunt about it. . . keep your teeth of his dick and you wont have a problem. although you could catch your own cheek on the hook, that would hurt. but if your really worried and not comfortable with it then dont! its better safe then sorry. and in this case, i doubt you wanna see him cry!
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all right,
i have a stomache buldge,
and really thats the only major thing i hate about my body.
i'm in a fitness p.e class,
i lift weights, i run,
i've in a dancing class thign with my school,
where we dance downtown and stuff.
I do sit ups,
I do push ups,
I try to eat healthy,
I need help?
I dont know what to do to get a flat tummy,
honestly what really works.
I want to atleast be thinner by next year.
I want motivation,
not people saying its not possible.
Please give me advice on what to do,
because I really feel like I've been tryig but nothign is helping me lose the buldge. (link)
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if your talking about a kangaroo pouch i might have a solution for you. see when you do your crunches and/or sit ups if your doing them right (cuz alot op people dont) it only works the upper belly. do side ways sit ups, not crunches, sit ups! start to go up like you would start a normal sit up but in the middle of it turn your body. that might help you.
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I cannot afford prada or abercrombie what do i do seriously? (link)
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Its not that big of a deal that you can afford expensive stuff! I mean i just got 2 coach purses and a coach wallet. that shits is beyond expensive but i got it on sale! i would have spent WAY over a grand but i only spend a lil less then $200. look for sales. i hate sales but they arent bad. i dont exactly have lots of nice designer clothes but i do have hollister and stuff like that that i got over time. you dont need a whole new wardrobe in one day. get a lil at a time. it will add up! but seriously, dont set your mind to think that you HAVE to have what every rick brat in america has. its not true! be your own person, rep your own brands. knock offs at target can be just as cute! you wouldn't believe how many shirts i have from there. Target is AMAZING!!! (lol)
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hey. i have this red 3/4 sleeve henley from american
eagle, & it's so cute. the only thing is... whenever i wear
it, it starts to stretch out... big time. i would have to
wash & dry it after every wear... & i was just wondering
if there is anything else i can do to prevent it from
stretching out? thanks in advv. :] (link)
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Get a bigger shirt. thats all i can tell you. it doesnt matter what your wearing its gonna stretch. think about it. . . . you take it out of the dryer and its smaller, you put it on and it stretches to fit your body, then as the day goes by it starts to get looser b.cuz its been stretched out so long. but all you gotta do is throw it in the dryer and its back to that tight fit. its the same way for pants.
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Okay this is complicated. I'm 14. My first boyfriend and I broke up Feb 27th. We were together 8 months. It was his decision...although we both knew things weren't the same and hadn't been in a long time. He basically just said it first cause we both have been thinking it for a long time. I miss him a lot and I would love to have back what we had before. He moved on evidently. I don't see him or talk to him, but I want to. One night a couple of weeks ago I was on messenger and this guy friend starts talking to me and asking me if I still go out with ******. When I said no he just kept talking at night the next few days. He asked me out to the movies but I told him it was too soon. A week later he asked if he could come home with us after school and just hang out. We had a good time, just watching a movie and talking. The next night he asked me if I would go out with him and I said yes, but now I wonder if I have done the right thing. Is it wrong to go out with this guy? How do I know if I am using him to get over this other guy? I try to stay in the moment and not remember back, but it is hard. This guy is sweet, super nice and not the type of guy I would usually fall for. He is very athletic, smart, and treats me like a queen. He calls when he says he will, etc... I guess the other guy used me and I just hung on for a long time because he was my first kiss, my first love. How can I move on? Or, should I just tell this guy that I'm not ready to date him? Please help. I don't feel like I am being fair to this new guy if I can't go a minute without thinking of the other one. (link)
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first you gotta realize that its going to be hard but if your new guy knows your not over your old guy and still wants to stay with you. . . hes a keeper. i know i sound like a broken record but life goes on, you will have your heartbroken many times in your lifetime. it never gets easier but you need to learn how to handle it. i was with my ex for 9 months during the 8th month he was sent to juvi and i stayed there right by his side and when he got out he dumped me. Now that me and him talk (like a year later) he says he regrets treating me so bad and that he misses me. trust me if things went bad, its not worth holding onto. do yourself a favor and no matter how much you dont want to, let go. it'll be the hardest thing you will ever have to do, but in the end you will feel so much better. realize that you deserve more then your old guy, and you have everything good with your new one. dont give up on your new guy just yet, give it time. and if it makes you feel better sit down with your new guy and tell him that you like him but if hes going to stay with you its going to be hard at first, let him know that you still have feelings for your old guy but also let him know that you really are trying to move on and make it VERY clear that you are NOT using him as a rebound! ok!?!? hope i helped.
P.S. i know how you feel girl, and its hard but worth it. just remember anyone who willingly breaks your heart, doesnt deserve you!
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Ok,well i think im generally a skinny person,it runs in the family. But I've been getting this fat UNDER my belly. i really hate it,what are some things to get rid of this? what is this area called,and maybe do you think it would just be bloating? i didnt get my period yet,though. anyways, what are some fitness for indoors i could use to get rid of it with in 10 days? i started doing crunches but im not sure if that helps. anything i should do diet wise? i've never had this problem befor. ANYTHING will help!!! thankyou in advance. (link)
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sit ups and crunches dont work on your lower belly or anything bellow yours belly button, they are for your upper belly. your lower belly is the hardest part to lose fat on. im not sure how to get rid of it but doing crunches wont help. im not exactly sure what you mean by under your belly, but you could go to a physical therapist and ask them about how you could lose it, or just talk to your doctor. start goin to the gym and work out all together. but dieting would help. but not in the 10 days.
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My bf and I (15 f) are thinking about having sex. He's fingered me and stuff like that, but it's the farthest we've ever gone. I'm really nervous. I'm ready, I know I am. I'm a little self consious, I guess, but I know I'm not fat or anything. I'm 5'7'' and 122 lbs. I'm just nervous about him seeing my "parts." Whenever he's fingered me, he just sort of went down my pants, they never came off.
Is there anything I can do to calm my nerves? Has anyone ever had this problem? What worked for you?
Thanks in advance (link)
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they are right.... if your worried about what hes gonna think about your parts then your probably not ready. but honestly im gonna tell you this.... in my opinion a vagina is not pretty. but if he knos what hes doing and knos what it looks like then he shouldnt think anything of it. but heres some friendly advice... if you two are ready to go further, then go to oral and get used to each others bodies. you dont have to skip right to sex. besides during sex its not like hes staring at it the whole time. I'll tell you right now im far from a virgin and i worry about that everytime but its not that big of deal, its really nothin to worry about.
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my friend told me that whem she lost her virginity she cried it hurt her so bad. and some people say the bigger/fatter the girl is the less it hurts. so im 14 years old and i have a 16 year old boyfriend and we might do it new years eve. but i wanna know how badly it hurts. he has fingered me before and it felt like he was pushing up aginst something. can u tell whet that thing is? it didn't hurt when he fingered me but will it hurt when he goes in? he is pretty big and im pretty small. i have felt him before and he's a lil too big for me i think. can anybody answer me? (link)
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it hurts like a bitch! and it wont feel good til the 4 or 5th time you do it. im a tough girl, its hard as fuck to hurt me and i almost cried! he said it looked like i was dying! but dont worry it will get better. just take it slow and make sure you a lubricated condom(it helps ALOT). good luck! ;)
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Okk,well i didnt really know how too work this.And i didnt know were too putt it...But
ok,so my brother finger me ...I'm not sure if he touched his penis..were he could have touch cum//I have missed my period i'm 2 weeks late.Is it just me stressing..Or my period has skipped this month///Or am i pregnet.. i do have a the flue..Does this have anything to do with it..I keep stresing to make sure my tummy isent growing please helpp..Please...I jsut don't know what tood doo...
Thanks xxx
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ur brother? um....... if you aint pregnant hunny you need some help there. your not pregnant! your period prolly isnt regular yet. mine isnt and i've had mine for over 5 years.ur tummy isnt gonna grow if u r! just calm down and quit stressin.
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do you think im a nerd b/c im on the middle school orchestra? be honest...i wont get mad if you say yes...im just curious (link)
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no not really! i mean i used to b in band but i dropped out! and not because i thought it was nerdy i mean i did play for 3 years, its because it just wasnt fun anymore! but your not a nerd just because your in orchetra! that just means your smarter then everyone else lol!
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I was searching through some xangas and I came across this girl that I'm not too fond of. I stopped to look at all the pictures she had thinking it might be pretty funny. I found multiple pictures of this girl, with my boyfriend on his bed. Nothing sexual, I think, but the fact I'M not even allowed in his room let alone his BED kinda ticked me off. Am I wrong to be upset that he had a girl that EVERYONE knows is basically a slut on his bed with him?
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hell no! you have every right to be mad! but do NOT blow it out of proportion! it wasnt sexual. and do NOT i repeat do NOT bitch at him more then once, dont keep nagging, trust me, You will scare him away! talk to him about and tell him it made a lil mad and that u really didnt appreciate it! dont get too mad! and dont let yourself get stressed out too much!
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My dog is a mixed breed. He's rather tiny.. I'm just wondering how long do those kind of dogs last? He's healthy but I'm kind of worried that I'll lose him. He's 7 years old and apparently is having some hearing problems? (link)
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the smaller the dog usually the longer they last. if u know the breeds in it then look up those specific breeds for their life span and health problems. then pretty much expect anything you read. your not sure which genes he took up but they are in him somewhere. like my dog is lab/husky. rather big dog! Lab's can live up to 10-12 years and huskies can live up to 12-14 years. so i can suspect her to live anywhere between 10-14 years. trust me little dogs last forever! but you gotta realize that eventually his time will be up! give him a good life and dont think about it!
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My boyfriend just called me after he got back from hunting (we also talked at 5 AM this morning) and something was wrong so I asked him what it was and he said he had just had to shoot his dog. Because his dad ran over him with the truck (accidentally) and he had a broken back. You can tell my boyfriend is really upset, and I wanna say something to make him feel better if he's still appears upset about it later. He told me about it when he called then said he was going to go to bed (tired from hunting all morning.)
Any advice? I WILL RATE! (link)
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support him and be there for him! He saved him dog alot of pain. tell him he did the right thing, no matter how hard it was for him. and after he is mostly over it, like still kinda sad but has the ability to smile and laugh at simple things...... take him puppy shopping! tell him you will go anywhere, that u dont care if it takes all day, that you are gonna find him another puppy! tell him it's his choice, that he doesnt have to go if he doesnt want to. but just top let u know it helps alot when an old pet dies to get a new one of his/her own choice! it helps them not forget but keep them occupied and gives them something to care for and love! well good luck and i hope i helped!
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I'm getting a 6week old basset hound on thrusday and I'm not sure what i want to name it. I was thinking of Mya. any one got any unique names for it. Its a girl (link)
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pick something with a shorter nickname in it! oh and give them a middle name! but only use their full first name and middle name when they are in trouble! when ever i use my dogs middle name she knows she did something wrong!
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Yesterday i killed the person i loved. And i dont know what to do... SHould i go to the police, should i run, should i kill myself? SOMEONE PLEASE HELP ME (link)
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wow! well i think you shod do the right thing and turn yourself in! i mean they are right, if you turn yourself in then you will get out of some of the trouble! but..... if you live in texas! i would say change your name, get a passport, and RUN, go ANYWHERE! go to china, australia, someplace far away! i mean if you live in Texas u might as well kill yourself if your not gonna run, cuz if you dont..... they will! you no how they are with execution! they arent afraid to do it and we all no how much they love to see someone bad die! (not saying your a bad person) but im sure they will think you are!
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