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=[ am i really bi?
i'm 15 f
i've been struggling with my sexuality for a few months now, almost half a year. first, my best friend who moved to texas said she had a crush on me over AIM and i grew to like her back. since she hasnt been able to visit us, i think her interest faded. she considers herself bicurious but i really dont think she likes me. it took me a while to finally not like her so much, but she's gotten with a group of friends who really dont label her and they all act sexual anyway. i really wish i could be with that group of friends because my friends would label me in an instant. i dont want to be labeled bi because i really don't know what i am. i'm kinda attracted to girls but i'm also attracted to guys, i know im not straight but i dont want to be bi. i've only dated 1 guy in the past and that didnt work out very well. i havent dated any girls, and i havent opened up except to that friend, and one other friend that i just talked to tonight. how do i get comfortable with myself enough to open up to more people? and where do i begin? all i want them to know is that i'm probably bicurious. at first i thought i was going through a phase, but im not sure what phases last for half a year. =\
help me pleassssssee
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What kind of friends are these that would label you
or be uncomfortable around??? Jeez. Well as they say
the first step is admitting it. If you are Bi, tell
your self that's ok. As soon as your comfortable with that you'll feel much better. I am bi. I know
it's a little weird to begin with, but you'll get
over that.
Did you ever see that movie
"But, I'm a cheerleader" ??
Whatever anybody says about the matter... Fuck Them!
They just want something to say, or do to someone
to make that person feel bad and themselves better.
People are assholes. Forget them.
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I've been their before, but bisexuality is frowned apon by many people, if your friends don't exccept you or feel awkward around you. Tell them you're still you, and that's only a small part of who you are. I'm straight,so I claim to be...>.>; But I am a bit bi, you're probably like 'Wtf? You just said you're straight!' Yeah I know see, I like guys and am far more attracted to them then I am to girls. But I do get the occasional crush on other girls. I've noticed I don't like so much girls for their body, because they don't have a penis...T-T; But I like them more for their warm thoughtful kind gentle ways. We're very affectionate and are way cuter in the way we act too, as I see it I fall for the mind of a women and her personality more then her figure... .__. I have boobs she has boobs, I have a V she has a V. Nothing new and exciting, but men have penises!:D We don't atleast most don't...e-o; But yeah, you say she told you she had a crush on you and you 'Grew' to like her back. Figure out what made you like her in the first place? But uh yeah this is like uber-long now so I'll wrap things up. As for coming out, I haven't quite come out to my parents but I plan to, but not untill I have a steady girl girl relationship. When I do I plan to introduce her to my 'rents as I come out. Not the best idea for most people I guess, but that's my plan,yep! For your friends I'd say make some new one's that are bi or les even, hell gay guys are great friends to have and talk about this sort of thing. Tell some of your current friends if you want but say it normaly and nonchalantly. You know the type of people your friends are, atleast you should...Think first before telling whoever it is you plan to tell, about what their reaction might be and if that person is more likely to push you away then stand at your side. Trust me I told one of my friends that I was fairly close to and she completely shund, doesn't even acknowledge my existence.
Well hope I helped~
17 female :3
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Most every girl going through puberty is going through what your are going through. But, for the same reasons you are thinking, they don't talk about it with other people. I went through it in high school. I had boyfriends, but when I was out with the girls, we have a few "experiences" too. It is all the learning process in figuring out who you are. There is nothing wrong with kissing and touching another girl. I'm 27, in a long term relationship with 3 kids, and I still get turned on by beautiful women and lesbians. Women are beautiful, sexy, seductive... what's not to like? If you are with another girl you know well and something happens, and believe me it will happen, just go with it. You will know if it feels right for you.
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it could still be a phase. im straight, i do have bi curious tendencies but im engaged, i like the penis but yet girls are still attractive to me. honestly, lesbians turn me on. that sounds wierd since i claim to be straight and all but its not a big deal. i've done stuff with girls and my fiance knows that. its something you gotta figure out yourself, something you have to try. just dont be ashamed of what you are. to keep your friends off your back date guys, but have fun with girls on the side. get new friends. if your "friends" are gonna stop liking you cuz of who you might think you are, then they arent real friends.
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