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does it hurt
my friend told me that whem she lost her virginity she cried it hurt her so bad. and some people say the bigger/fatter the girl is the less it hurts. so im 14 years old and i have a 16 year old boyfriend and we might do it new years eve. but i wanna know how badly it hurts. he has fingered me before and it felt like he was pushing up aginst something. can u tell whet that thing is? it didn't hurt when he fingered me but will it hurt when he goes in? he is pretty big and im pretty small. i have felt him before and he's a lil too big for me i think. can anybody answer me?
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no matter the size of the person, sex is going to hurt your first time.
i'm going to be honest, it's the worst pain you'll ever, ever experience.
there isn't really a way to reduce the pain either, but after about the 3rd or 4th time having sex, it doesn't really hurt 'as' bad.
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The level of pain varies from girl to girl. I'm a fairly petite girl and my first time wasn't painful. It just depends on how gentle and careful the guy is with you. The more patient and gentle he is, the better it is on you. So don't rush it. Before you have sex, just make sure y'all have foreplay. Lubricated condoms and/or KY jelly would be also be good to help out some.
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I recomend lubed condom and take it reall slow.It will hurt you like a bitch.When me and this girl had sex for the first time i thought she was about to die ,she said it felt like she was spliting in 2,after about the 3 or 4th time it wont hurt anymore and will start feeling good and most likely the thing your feeling is your hymen.
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it hurts like a bitch! and it wont feel good til the 4 or 5th time you do it. im a tough girl, its hard as fuck to hurt me and i almost cried! he said it looked like i was dying! but dont worry it will get better. just take it slow and make sure you a lubricated condom(it helps ALOT). good luck! ;)
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the thing your boyfriend is pushing up against is more than likely your hymen. wikipedia has a much better description of the hymen than i want to go into. As far as pain is concerned it varies the first time with different women, some have more pain some have none or very little. how fat/thin the girl is makes little difference.
The size of the man (unless abnormally large) also makes little difference since the muscles and tissues on the woman stretch pretty easily. More important in cotroling pain is good lubrication either with a lubricated condom or a lubricant such as ky jelly/lotion.
More important yet is that you are comfortable and ready for sex and not being pressured by your bf or wanting to do because your friend did. my personal thought is that if you here asking questions it means you still have doubts and it might be better if you waited. there are plenty of non intercourse ways to make your bf happy.
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