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ex boyfrined


Question Posted Saturday July 30 2005, 9:46 pm

16-female-cali

so i was going out with this kid named chris last summer he was a grade older then me and we went out for a few months and then he cheated on me so i broke up with him but we still hung out like once or twice after we broke up and he really wanted to go back out but i didnt want to.. even tho i still really liked him alot and and a few months later he told me he liked me agin but i told him i didnt wanna go out even tho.. again i still really liked him i just couldent go out with a guy who cheated on me cause i thgouht he would do it again so now its a year later and we both have new people that we are dating but i still think about him all the time and sometimes we still talk... so my question is ..is it bad that i still think about him all the time even tho i have a boyfrined and yeah ..and any other comments please tell me ..i will rate


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AbsoluteCuti170 answered Monday August 1 2005, 12:38 pm:
Well it seems like you really really like this guy and im not sure what to tell you but i will try my best..Well if he cheated on you to tell you the truth i dont think you should consider getting back with him. I mean there are plenty of other guys out there that will treat you like you deserve and like something special not just a girl that they go out with. .. But if you feel like you could really really trust your ex.. consider your options but then again think of your current boyfriends feelings. His heart isnt a thing to play around with either. A guy like him might not come around again..My advice and what i think is that you shouldnt get back with your ex.. he doesnt deserve you..
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advicegiver789 answered Monday August 1 2005, 3:10 am:
if he cheated on you then you should know that theres someone out there who thinks about you and only you if a guy cant just be with you than thers someone better so yea that is a bad thing because the longer you think about him the less you think about our boyfriend and then that can cause alot of problems and it will just become a huge mess

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advicegiver789 answered Monday August 1 2005, 3:10 am:
if he cheated on you then you should know that theres someone out there who thinks about you and only you if a guy cant just be with you than thers someone better so yea that is a bad thing because the longer you think about him the less you think about our boyfriend and then that can cause alot of problems and it will just become a huge mess

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caligirl07 answered Sunday July 31 2005, 12:44 am:
yes, i dont think it is a very good thing that you still think about your ex all the time now when you are dating another guy just for the fact that its not fair to the guy your dating now. i think you should definatly talk to the guy your seeing now and tell him that you still have feelings for your ex and be totally honest with him and break it off until your over you ex and can start a new relationship where you can be totally into the current guy your with.

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karenR answered Saturday July 30 2005, 10:19 pm:
You may still have some unresolved feelings somewhere...or just plain old curiosity. I don't think its "bad", but you should probably be concentrating on your boyfriend more right now.
If it continues and you both become available again it might not hurt to give it another shot. He may have actually learned something from his previous mistake and time does have a way of maturing a guy. :)

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