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15/f
Ok, so I like this guy. But, the thing is, I dont see the point of liking anyone is, if they dont like you back, or they do and you totally think they dont. I've liked guys, but, I dont see what the point of liking them is, if they dont end up liking you back! It doesnt make sense, because I just get hurt, from liking them so much and them not liking me back. I know, your probably going to say, i have a while until I get a boyfriend etc. but, I just hate having to like guys...it just...brings me down. I told myself to stop liking someone that I liked for 4 a long ass time, and I mean a long time, I started crushing on him when I was like 12. But, I've been telling myself to just stop liking him, so i dont talk about him with friends or anything. Now, theres a new guy, he goes to a different school, I met him somewheres, and i got his email. But, im scared to talk to email him and stuff because I know he probably doesnt like me....ugh....any feedback on this?
thanks.
-Confused
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What are you just gonna give up on your feelings just cuz youve had some bad history? ill tell you this when trying is all you can do, then thats all you should do, dont give up. lets youll give up on this guy before you even get to know him, wont it haunt your thoughts just wondering, "what if tried?" just dont give up, and maybe youll find the right guy. in fact im sure you will.
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Right now, I am having this same issue, so i know what you are going through.
Really, there are ust two things you can do. The first thing is the easy way, with the hardest consequences.
*You can do nothing... not tell him you have a thing for him, and always say well, i know he doesn't like me...but you will always be wondering What if?
Let me tell you, you can never KNOW for certain what someone else feels.
The second thing you can do is
*Tell him. Either by writing, talking, emailing, a friend... this way might be hard to do, but then at least you know. then you can move on, or let things develop. But at least you won't always be wondering.
I hope it works out.
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You need to get some self confidence going girl!
Liking people may not make much sense but you won't get anywhere if you don't try.
Email him! Whats he going to do? Not answer? Big deal. If he doesn't you move on to the next guy. No more time wasted on him.
If he answers then that's great! You keep writing, maybe go out. Alls right with the world!
Go on give it a try. Does he know you have his email address by the way? If he does then he must have liked you enough to give it to you.
Hope to hear that he emailed you back! :)
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