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Mixed up with guys...
Sorry this is so long! Okay, I'm 13 and i'm a female. So I've had this boyfriend for about 3 and a half months now and I really like him. We're both in the school play & at first I was so happy that I would get to see him so often. But, after a while, it seems like he is always hanging on me. Like, the first 10 times it was cute, but now it's just kinda like, "i need my space." My friend told him and he said he was gonna back off a little, but I'm still not sure, and when I am with him, just me & him it seems like all he wants to do is makeout. Also, there's this other really sweet kid in the pla who I flirt with all the time and he definitely flirts back. Like, he's my "best friend" and all.. but I'm not sure what to do! Help?
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it sounds like you like this other guy..
go with what your heart is telling you
if your not happy with your boyfriend..
break up with him..in the NICEST possible way
<3 Lauren
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LiStEn To YoUr HeArT! if you feel that it isnt right between you and your boyfriend then i suggest to just leave him. go with some other guy that you feel more comfrontable with. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*
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First id like to say thats it's bad that you flirt with another guy while you have a bf, i did to my girlfriend(completely by accident) and she got really and at me, so just a piece of adice about that, but as far as your current bf goes, my advice is to break up with him, if he's always around and you dont appriciate that, and all he wants to do is make out, thats not very romantic at all. so the sweet guy you metioned is smelling like a basket of roses compared to the guy your dating now. Thats my advice. hope i helped.
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talk to your boyfriend about it and let him know how you feel. if he continues to bother you break up with him.
and if you`re starting to like your "best friend" then maybe your boyfriend isn`t the right guy for you and you should end it because you have feelings for another guy. you never know, once your best friend sees that you`re available maybe you and him will get together instead.
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If the hanging is bothering you then tell him about it. Don't rely on a friend to do it because he needs to hear it from you. Just politely tell him you would like him to settle down a bit.
If he is the same age as you...well, 13 year old boys with raging hormones do seem to be quite the horn dogs. Its normal. Just tell him to settle down on that too.
He is probably pretty new to having a girlfriend and just isn't quite sure what to do. You have to tell him so he learns.
As for the other guy, if you like him better then break up with your current guy and pursue him. Be aware though that a lot of people flirt without meaning anything by it.
Good luck with whatever guy you choose! :)
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