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help plz! i dont know wut to do
what do you do wen your goin out wif a guy.. and your best guy friend who you really like and have always wanted to go out with him asks you out... i mean i rilly like the guy im going out with and i really like my best friend?? me and my b/f lets call him jon have been goin out for a couple weeks now and my best frind lets call him bob juz asked me out today?! i have always wanted to go out with bob but he never asked and now that im going out with jon , bob decides to ask me out! i dont want answers tht say well its up to you..i need advice..thnx!! i rate high!!!!!
<333 rachel
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it depends on what would really happen in the long run... think about it. who wouold you rather be with? who do you think would treat you better or be a better boyfriend? well... i hope i helped.
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well i think if you are sure that the stuff with you guy friend will work out and you have deep feelings for him you need to talk with your bf and tell him that you have feelings for another guy- you should do this even if you arnt going to go out wit "bob"..its only fair that he knows..
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Follow your heart. Who can you see yourself lasting with? Who can you see yourself being more comfortable around? Who have you known longer and who wont judge you? Who makes you feel special just by talking to you and listening to you...
things like that.
I hope I helped, I tried as much as I can since I dont know any of you.
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I apologize if you think I'm being harsh:
Allright. Let's see here. Sounds like Bob's jealous, and why? Not because he likes you, but because you like someone else. And are with them. You could say he realized his feelings. You could say he was scared to ask you out before. But the truth is, he doesn't like you liking someone else. How do I know? Let's just say I've been there.
And once you go out with him, he'll get bored, and dump you. Sorry, but that's the way life works. He wants attention, and now you're giving it to someone else (or so it seems to him).
As for Jon, if you feel that you and Jon shouldn't be together dump him. If you think that you should, keep dating him. DON'T keep dating him because you think you'll regret it if you break up with him. That's not what a relationship's supposed to be about.
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if your relationship with the jon is going well then dont go out with bob because bob might brake your heart, when you could have had jon and be happy. but if it isnt going well for with jon then go for bob
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This might sound mean, but if you've really liked this one guy for a long time, and the b/f you have happened to come along then I would break up wit the b/f you have. Three reasons for this...
1: The guy you really liked must like you if he asked you out.
2: The feelings for your b/f won't be as strong, and you won't have 100% toward him.
3: You can't try to make everyone else happy. You need to take your feelings and go wit them...and it sounds like this "Bob" guy is the one you been waitin for.
Hope I helped
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i think you should stick with you bf now cuz if this guy really likes you he will like you when you are single too dont fall into traps like that bcuz sometimes guys just ask you out when you have a bf because they are jokin and they kno you will break up with your bf....im not sayin that is what this guy is doing but you never kno and you dont want to ruin the friend ship you have with your guy friend (if to say you went out and then broke up) hope this helps &hearts bye
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ok think about this: if you go out with your current bf's best friend...all kinds of "drama" will start. your happy with your current bf so i would stick with him..it sux how this other guy made such bad timing, but your with someone else now and your happy. could something happen between you two in the future?sure. but right now.stick with your current bf
thats what i would do
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Which do you like more?Jon or Bob?If you like bob more..then tell jon that you can't go out with him anymore..But, after i read this sentence (i have always wanted to go out with bob)I think you better go out with bob..Hope I helped!
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â?¥AWW UMMMM TELL BOB SORRY BUT H SHOULD OF ASKED YOU EARLiER!!!!! ASK iF YALL CAN STiLL BE FRiENDS!!!! GOOD LUCK!
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well i think if bob waited to ask you out until you and jon were going out. something doesn't seem right there. he might just be jealous because you were always hanging around with him. and now that you got a bf he feels left out or something. i think you should stick with the bf you have now. and when that is over bob wants to still go out with you. then i say go for it. thats my opinion.not saying its the right one though. hope i helped!
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