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how should a normal healthy teen relationship be? how much should you see eachother? what kinda things should u do, where should u go? what are some bad things to do w/ your boyfriend? is fooling around a bad idea? ive been w/ my bf for 11 months.... but i feel too tied down, like im married....
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ok go tto movies dinner but dont go to far like 2 base ok hope i helped
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you shouldnt have to feel like that, try mixing it up abit and going places youve nvr gone before
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I guess there's really no normal, because every person is different. When you think about how unique everyone is, it's easy to understand why one relationship might be totally different from another.
The best way to judge these things is to think about what you would like YOUR normal to look like. What would your ideal relationship be like? How much time would you spend together? Apart? How free would you like to feel? How committed?
It's up to you to define what you would like for yourself, and then to work with whoever you are dating. They will also have a picture in their mind of what they'd like out of a relationship. While these might not perfectly match up, sometimes talking can help create a compromise that both people are happy with.
Best of luck.
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I think you should always do just what feels right. Try going to places like the movies, place to eat ice cream, eating dinner at fun places like tgif..olive garden..red lobster..try going ice skating...its real fun
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ok a healthy teeen relationship should consist of the following (in my opinion)
1. trust in your partner that he/she is not cheating:
i have seen too many teen relationships consist of this "dont hang around her, your going to end up cheating on me.." or "i bet you cheated on me with him.." there is no trust there and that isnt healthy
2. a balance between friends and your bf/gf:
for example: hanging out with your bf all the time and totally not hanging out with your friends is really not healthy. i have seen friendships get ruined over people who are with their bfs and gfs soo much that they neglect their friends
3. a healthy relationship is not an obsessive one:
o man, obsessive relationships are no good! i have had friends who have been in these obsessive relationships where the girlfriend is always calling and being a pain!
OK i would say during the summer time seeing each other 2 times a week is a good number..but when it gets to be 6 or 7 times a weeek thats a bit much because time should be spent with friends also. but for one on one time ..2-3 times a week on average (sometimes less sometimes more) is good
things you shoould do:
i think it should be a balance between having fun sexually and non sexually. a relationship with just making out and doing stuff isnt so healthy
doing things like
-going to the park..or amusement park
-going to the movies
-hanging out just having fun (without sexualness)
some intamacy should be included (the level of intamacy is between you and your bf) but there should be some handholding, kissing, and afterr that its your choice
fooling around and being intimate is a good idea not a bad one! being close and intimate is healthy. how intimate you get is between you and your bf
feeling tied down like your married isnt good..how do you feel tied down? if you feel things are getting too serious, try getting less intimate and focus on having more fun doing more activities and maybe only kissing or something..if you want to talk about how your being tied down..inbox me if you want
i hope all this helped!
-melissa-
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you should do whatever you feel is ok it shouldnt matter what other people say is right or wrong if you think that it's ok, then it's ok
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Well when you have a bf it kinda is like you are married. the responsiblities, and shit are an overload you know? well to answer your questions:
1. you should see eachother at least 2 times a week if not more, but not everydayy
2. you should go to a movie and dinner or lunch.. breakfast is just wierd lol
3. fooling around is a bad idea if you have only gone out for 2 months i think 11 months is a good period of time of getting to know eachother, you know? So i think you guys are ready to "fool around"
♥ Michelle
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