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I'm so confused!! =\


Question Posted Friday September 24 2004, 6:38 pm

Well, my boyfriend and me have been going out for 3 weeks. And all the sudden today he breaks up with me!

Well, it was his friend since he was too chicken to do it on his own. I didn't believe his friend, so I called his house, and he said he was "God D*mn serious" but my boyfriend was laughing in the background and they were all laughing. And he just said the other day how much he liked me.

I cried for about an hour after that. If he's joking, though, I'm going to kill him. It scared me so bad. And I'm so confused. They won't tell me why, either. They just keep confusing me more everytime I talk to his friend.

They won't let me talk to my boyfriend either. They just keep saying "SHUT UP! GOD! HE HATES YOU AND HE BROKE UP WITH YOU. GET OVER IT!" but they keep laughing!

Do you think they're just joking or he really is breaking up with me they just think it's funny? Help!

Sorry this was so long. I rate!!


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amizzle answered Sunday September 26 2004, 12:26 pm:
I know how you feel, hon. In my experience, his friend didn't say "You're dumped," as such, but stood there, with my boyfriend (now ex) and just insulted me until I finally said it was over.

Should this turn out to be a joke, it's almost obvious that you *shouldn't* accept him back. It wasn't a funny joke, and to have your boyfriend's friends throw it back in your face? That's out of order.

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Basketball3846 answered Saturday September 25 2004, 1:43 pm:
Well I think I just got a really bad Deja Vu. My ex broke up with me out of the clear blue after about 2-2 1/2 weeks. My best friend ended up telling me because he didn't want to for some reason. I wanted to think it was all a big truth or dare dare or something. But then I realized that he liked me too much for him to want to do soemthing that would hurt me like that. You may want it to all be a joke but maybe his friends are a bunch of losers and they enjoy your pain. Try to find a time when he isnt around his friends (i.e. in the hall, classes, at his house or w/e) and talk to him. See how he reacts and try to ask why. Good Luck!!

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grape answered Saturday September 25 2004, 3:54 am:
I really have a plan for u but u have to make it work ok. so heres the plan. U walk past your boyfriend and if they laugh (him and his friends)u roll your eyes like u r really serious and on that night u call him unexpectedly and u curse his a$$ out. If the ignoring doesn't work at all and his friends and him r laughing u grab a guy friend and pretend have somethin goin on just only to see if its jealousy that he has and/or u can grab some female friends and see if they have your back when u curse him out.

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freakerouter07 answered Friday September 24 2004, 11:59 pm:
something like that happened to me...all his friends would be like "he doesnt like you, stop calling!" on the phone. in my case it was true, they just thought it was funny. turns out, that guy really sucked anyway. so forget about him and just dont talk to him if thats the case. hopefully, they're just joking and you'll kill him instead...either way he doesnt sound like the perfect guy so just try to find someone else that doesnt treat you like this. i hop i helped!

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chatter231 answered Friday September 24 2004, 8:58 pm:
huny i have already answered ur question and thanks for the fab. rate........first of all it was just a suggestion....and if u didnt want all kinds of answers then u shoodnt ask 4 help....sry i was 2 brutall but mayb next time u shood ask ur mom if ya want sumtin different...........and if it aint like that at all....then wat is it like?

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blondie75 answered Friday September 24 2004, 7:56 pm:
awww srry! well even if it is just a joke like the person b4 said hes an asshole. they are so mean. dont take that crap from them! dont worry there are other guys put there. u will find someone else, and hopefully someone less of an asshole lol
Hope i helped! good luck!

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hEARTbREAKERxl3 answered Friday September 24 2004, 6:46 pm:
Okay..how old are you?! You've been going out with him for 3 weeks and you cryed, you probably don't even know what love is yett..and they are laughing because they think its funny that they are being mean to you darling its over between you and that guy..he is obousily an a*shole so just forget about him. Talk to me if you'd like and sorry if that seemed a little mean but I just had to be truthful..I am not actually that mean. :o)

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