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For some reason pretty girls make me jealous. I don't have a man that I think they will steal but just seeing them makes me hate myself even more then I already do. There are only 2 things I like about myself, my eyes and my voice. But there are all these pretty girls out there and I am just not one of them. I don't know how to make myself feel better about it. I have tried making myself look good...but I can't even do that. Any idea on how I can get over this?! PLZ ~N~ thank you!

*~Carrie~* (link)
It's not the pretty girls, its the ones who are pretty on the inside that go places in life. I am one of the pretty girls and I am going no where with my life. My dad told me that when I was like 10 years old. Just ignore them and be happy that you are you, hope you feel better sweetsz - xOo . jenny


my voice maked me uncomfterable because im a girl with an incridably low voice, like whenever i talk to a guy, they always ask if i have a cold and some people make fun of me because of my voice. i just wanna know a way that maybe my voice can sound a litlle higher.plz!!!! (link)
SCREAM!! Haha..I really don't know sweetie..I have never had that problem I am sorry..post me if anything happens with you and your voice..Ooh yeah, and if your young your voice might change so don't worry about it for now.


ok,my period was supposed to come on the 24th. i've only been getting it since april 2004. its been missing and it's always been dead on since i've gotten it. i never had sex and i'm 13/f. thanx (link)
Okay sweetie, thats fine the first year or two its gonna be irreguluar but it will get better and you will know exactly when you have it. Post me back if you need to hunny. Rate if you'd like, I am just here to give advice.. xOo - jenny


My good friend of about 3 years and I have totally been falling apart this year. We went to school together for 2 years, and then went to different schools for high school. She and her old best friend had a fight, and now I'm her best friend, but sadly, I consider her to only be one of my good friends. I've never told her where she stands with me, but she seems to know that she's not my very best friend. This year's been the worst, she thinks I've totally changed, and gotten to be this dark, depressed person, and as far as I know, I'm not. I'm different than the girl she went to school with, but can she expect me to not change in 3 years? Everyone changes. I'm afraid of losing her as a friend, but...I'm feeling like that's what will happen. She's always saying how it feels like I've "almost gone goth" on her (which I haven't) and junk, and it kind of hurts? What's wrong with accepting who I am now? It's like she can't let go of who I was, and I'm sick of it. I don't want to hurt her, but she criticizes me for little things, and follows me around, has accounts on sites after I do and stuff like that. Her writing is even starting to sound like my style. I'm sick of that, but I'm worried about her too, she's had a rough year of high school, and doesn't have many friends there. I just don't know what to do anymore. (link)
Okay! Woah..well 3 years isn't that much, but it's okay you guys must be pretty tight..but if she is all like 'You've gone goth' then she shouldn't be your friend if she cant accept the fact that you changed then she can't accept having you as a friend..If you wanna try to make it though with her then try to hang out more and show her your not goth..By the time you graduate high school you will go to seperate collages and you wont remeber each other, your already going to seperate high schools.. I know it's hard. Just talk to her ask her whats up and if anything has happened in her new school, if she is upset about anything, does she miss her old school? Hope everything goes well sweetie..post me back!! Rate if you'd like, I am just here to give advice - xOo Jenny


Im in student council and we have elections for officers (pres, vice pres, secretary, treasurer) tomorrow. I kinda wanna run for vp but my friend wants to do that too and i don't wanna run against her becuz i don't want to run against a friend. I could possibly win but i don't want to do that to her and if i don't get to do my job with the class officers (not student council officers) i'm gonna be mad. We decided that we were gonna nominate each other, but i'm not sure i want that responsibility that comes with the job. I don't want to run for any other positions because i don't quite think i can do those as well. On the other hand, if i don't run, i can still do my job as a regular student council memeber and hang out with my other friends. Should i run for vp or just not run at all? plz help soon. the elections are tomorrow. (link)
If you want to run for pres. vice. sec. and treas. i think if you don't want to run against your ex then run for pres. or sec. or treas. Hope i helped darling


What should I do I like alot of boys and one is my friend but should I tell him or keep it to my self?? (link)
Okay .. darling, you like a lot of boys? Then there is no use telling your friend, or it will ruin the relationship you guys have. You should date around and if you still like him in a few months? then tell him..Hope I helped xOo sweetsz - jenny


y r u so mean to ppl? cant u just b nice? (link)
I am nice? What did I do to you?


Hey, at lunch my friend always eats really junky foods, i mean tons, and i think shes gonna gain tons of wait quite soon. Should i tell her???
luv,
Rachel (link)
Okay..sweetie, you must be like 8 you spell 'wait' like weight..LOL don't take that seriously I am a bad speller but you do seem like your a little bit too young for this site. But yes, deffentely tell her. You don't wanna hang out with fat friends..haha just kidding. Just joke around with her. (like what the other girls said.)


Well, today my mom had asked me to make dinner and I did because I love to cook. When she got home she said "I hope your father doesn't show up late so he can eat some dinner." I said, Oh, he's going out to dinner with some of his coworkers remember? and she said that she had no clue what I was talking about. Basically, my dad didn't tell her anything about the dinner so she's pissed. She always gets really pissed off at him because she says that they don't communicate. Well, she says that he doesn't communicate with her. I'm really scared that my parents might get a divorce. I love both of my parents and I hate to see them argue and the thought of them getting a divorce scares me. There are so many kids in my school who's parents are divorced and they look at me like I'm crazy when they ask me "So, do you live with your mom or your dad?" and I respond with, "Both". This is hard for me, I don't want my family to be torn apart! What should I do? (link)
Okay..yes you can let go of something like that..but if the just dont communicate they aren't gonna get divorced. Trust me, I have friends who I had that problem. Don't stress over it sweetie..Your family wont be torn apart and if you are so conserned then you should talk to them both..I hope I helped darling.


k i did sumthin w/ my bf be4 my mom found out she doesnt trust me and im working on regaining my trust becuz then ill actually be able to hang out w. ppl and maybe me and my bf will go bak out. (we broke up becuz i was grounded for a really long time..so we just r kinda taken a break u cud say and i wanna prove to him i can hang out again cuz i really like him...) anyway, today in skool there is this lil place and we hooked up. just made out. of course with my luck a teacher came in and i went to the principals. shes like, "i hear about ur little inappropriate incident" etc and "if this happens again your parents will hear from me." i was relieved that she wouldnt call them that day..but this is the bad part: tommorow is a day at my school and my mom is coming to work at a certain part of it. its a homecoming/pep rally type thing. so the principal will be there and i AM DEAD becuz i bet she will tell my mom and dad if she sees them. that is NOT GOOD. cuz 1st of all my dad is coming to visit becuz he is working in a diff state from our house and i dont want to get in trouble again. i am so afraid she'll tel...help me. (link)
AWWW! Hunny, thats so cute! Your mom doesn't trust you and you and your boyfriend broke up 'cuz you were grounded for a while and hooked up today..Thats so adourable..(sorry if i spelt that wrong I AM HORRIBLE at spelling ... haha) I don't think she is going to tell your parents, didn't the princapal say NEXT TIME? so just don't do it at school go to like idk the park if you have one near you and go do it there..haha, Well just mkae sure you don't do it at school again and you wont get in trouble!! YAY everything solved...haha darling hope I helped - Jenny


Would a punk guy like me? im not prep n not ghetto sort of inbetween cuz im white i wear ecko n baby phat n i have a crush on this boy just hes punk n not my type at ALL but i like him anyway hes nice to me,sweet AND cute. I do NOT care how he dresses, do punk guys only like other punks or do they like other type of ppl too? (link)
Umm, sweetie..How old are you? 'Do punk guys only like punks' I mean seriously thats like saying do Black people only like Black people..No they like all sorts of people. You may or may not be his type though. Maybe he like goths or preps, or emos. You gotta just flirt with him and ask him out or something..You seem like your like 11 so get one of your friends to..I don't know, do whatever you 11 year olds do.


ok me and my boyfriend broke-up tuesday from a 2 month relationship and I was starting to kinda get over it but then today he asked me back out and i said yeah..and I really like him a lot its just its alil weird..like we always said love ya when we got off the phone or when we signed off aim..but not we dont..I know its only the first day but I always thought you just took it from where it left off? if he just thinking something different? and well I just wanna know if thats normal or if thats a sign that he dont like me that much as before..? and if either what should I do bout it..thanks soo much Ox (link)
Hello sweetheart..It's perfectly normal. Guys are normally like that, wait for him to make the first move..and If you were going out with him for only 2 months wont exactly 'love' each other yet..just some help..If he didn't like you as much as before he wouldn't have asked you out!! ;o) Just think of it like you never went out with this guy before and you only like him. Good luck with him darling! - Jenny


idk wat to do..my ex..im in LOVE with him..he just got a gf..and i tri to liike hide it..i tell ppl i liike all these ppl in my grade so they wont think i still like him..but we went out from march-july..i see him in the hallways and stuff.annd he always stares at me..wen i dont see him..well thats what my frd tells me..and idk why im not over him yet..i mean..i liked him since octoberish...and we used to be SUCH good friends..like he was my best friend in the world..now we dotn even talk..idk what to do..plz help mee :-/ (link)
Okay darling..FLIRRRRRRRT LIKE CRAZY! Okay..talk to him and even if he is going out with that girl just tell him how you feel...if he stares at you still then he likes you. Maybe he is trying to hide his feeling of liking you too..so you just gotta tell him and chill with him and if you kno he is going to the movies with his friends go there with your friends and 'see him there' even though you kno he was going to be there. Trust me..tell him if he doesn't like you, get over it. If he does you'll have him again and you'll be happy..Trust me you'll get over him if he doesn't like you. Hope I helped sweetie.


Well, my boyfriend and me have been going out for 3 weeks. And all the sudden today he breaks up with me!

Well, it was his friend since he was too chicken to do it on his own. I didn't believe his friend, so I called his house, and he said he was "God D*mn serious" but my boyfriend was laughing in the background and they were all laughing. And he just said the other day how much he liked me.

I cried for about an hour after that. If he's joking, though, I'm going to kill him. It scared me so bad. And I'm so confused. They won't tell me why, either. They just keep confusing me more everytime I talk to his friend.

They won't let me talk to my boyfriend either. They just keep saying "SHUT UP! GOD! HE HATES YOU AND HE BROKE UP WITH YOU. GET OVER IT!" but they keep laughing!

Do you think they're just joking or he really is breaking up with me they just think it's funny? Help!

Sorry this was so long. I rate!! (link)
Okay..how old are you?! You've been going out with him for 3 weeks and you cryed, you probably don't even know what love is yett..and they are laughing because they think its funny that they are being mean to you darling its over between you and that guy..he is obousily an a*shole so just forget about him. Talk to me if you'd like and sorry if that seemed a little mean but I just had to be truthful..I am not actually that mean. :o)




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