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Help on love..
For me my love life sucks. I have the most amazing friends, but i still wish I had someone to actually love.
My problem is that i dont know how to really get a guys attention. I am always told to be myself, and thats what guyslove the most. But, I do just that, and I seem to not be getting any feedback. Do I need to take my 'flirting level' up a bit? pleeease help me!!
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I used to hate it when girls say "just be yourself" because it didn't work on me either. I mean yes, be yourself but raise your flirting level up a bit like you said! If they show signs of getting mad, move to another guy because some guys get mad....!! Hope i helped!! ~*Britt*~
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The way to get a guy is not to flirt and just hope that they flirt back. Yes i know that it sounds like the perfect way to fall in love, but its not that cool. Trust me, there really isnt such thing as love at first sight either. You really should become friends with a person at first, and start talking and just be friends for a long time. It does take a while and it does sound like a long process but it just could be good for you in the future.
hope this helps..
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gurl, listen "gurls personality is wut counts" dat b/s...all the guys says that as the first thing...but now we all kno that that is all b/s...wut u got to do is...get to work...and b spreading that game....dress up nice ;) take ur "flirting level up a bit" dat was rite! do dat :) and u'll see...and of course u got to b ur self :) i mean u wouldnt want a guy to like u for someone u aint ;)...xoxo effy
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Try flirting thats actually the way to get attention. And if you want me to be honest I will, a guy loves when a female is who she is but in todays society that only tend to work when your in a relationship. If your close with male friends and they are attracted to you because of who you are then thats the only time it really works. Naturally you need to make friends with the guy you want to go out with and ease him into your life after he gets to know who you are. So just flirt more.
Chris
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u shouldnt have 2 bring up ur flirtin level .......my friend has the same problem u have kinda....like of course she has the most aswomest friends ever cause 1 of them is me ...lol......she really thinks this guy a year older then her is way hot and so does like the hole group w/ hang w/....but really it's very doubtfull any of us will have a chance cause he's a year older plus there is this girl that looks like his best friend which kood me he likes her or ves virsa.....but bak 2 ur problem....u shoodnt flirt on a higher level 2 much cause then u'll be labeled a slut and that woodnt be good...a guy 4 u will like u 4 u , ALL of u.....is there any1 else who u like and flirts w/ u bak?.....cause if there is and u like him just the same u shood go 4 him deffently cause then u'll no he likes u 4 real and not cause u'd be acting slutish(sry 4 being rude)....hope i helped.....not real confident in my answer but there is 1 thing i can bak up......guys r idiots!.....it's a very well known fact....lol
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I think you should spice your attitude up a bit like leave letters in ur crusjes locker and play hard to get.oh try not to be clumsy I hope you get a boyfriend soon I know this always works tho ive tried!
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Same here.
But really, do you want a guy to like you for showing him your thighs or flashing your "shelf"? If you turn your "flirting level" up, he's going to think you're a total flirt/ditz and that's why he'll go out with you. However, if you just keep being yourself you'll find a guy that really likes you. He may not be the football team captain, but who cares?
~Laura~
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guys are stupid, but if you really feel the need to "have" one then yes you need to up your "flirting level." be yourself, with just a touch more assertiveness and be a tad more outgoing.
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no sweetheart you dont need flirting lessons, remember that there are reasons for everything. I agree you should always just be yourself, and one day a guy will see that beauty in you and wont be able to resist.
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