Question Posted Saturday September 18 2004, 9:03 pm
Hey..okay well my problem is that i really really like this guy...he is really hot,got a good personailty hes really fun to be around...but I heard that he only goes out with punk girls which im not..and im not just about to change who i am for a guy but i really like this one!!..i mean i talk to him and hang around with him...but i dont kno what to do!!!
So my question(s) is: 1.what is your idea of being punk?
2.if he just goes for punk girls....how do i try to get him to notice me without trying to be too punk?
3.do you think there will ever be a chance if i keep trying?
Thanxs girls...luvs you lots
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? chatter231 answered Saturday September 18 2004, 10:54 pm: i think it's a really good idea for u not 2 change urself 4 this guy.....first of all....this info about him only dating punk girls mite be false and u shood probably ask a reliable source.....maybe even him.......and second of all punk isnt nesicarily a style but a personality....if u really wanna change then u can change ur style but i dont think it will help.....if he really likes u then it wont matter if ur punk or not, he'll like u 4 u...and i think u shood try 2 confront him about ur feelings or if ur shy then drop as many hints as possible even if u seem VERY obvious....hope i helped! [ chatter231's advice column | Ask chatter231 A Question ]
JeSSiiHaLL answered Saturday September 18 2004, 10:08 pm: hey!!
1.My idea of being punk is.. well DONT DO IT im tellin ya its not a bad thing but dont change for him...
2. He probley dosent JUST go for punk gurls those are probley the only ones that like him also hehe but in sure if he likes you enough to go out with you he ask you out just be your self....
3. Try as hard as you want its probley not gonna hurt anything!!
2daredvils answered Saturday September 18 2004, 9:52 pm: first of all, you have only heard that he was a punk. am i right? tell me and i will give you a soulution no matter the answer
xXxpinky615xXx answered Saturday September 18 2004, 9:35 pm: first of all do not lable people and he shouldn't either it seriously pisses me off so fucking bad. anyways. do not change who you are because of another person that you like
2: my idea of being punk is not being punk... punk is not a style it's a type of music.
3: stop trying... move on. if that's all he goes for and you're not his type there is no use in trying. guys are gonna like who they like and they won't change nothing you can do about it. [ xXxpinky615xXx's advice column | Ask xXxpinky615xXx A Question ]
JesusFreak2006 answered Saturday September 18 2004, 9:31 pm: i think a punk is anyone who goes agasint the majority
most guys do have a certain kind of girl they wanna date but if there a girl they really like it wont matter who they are or what there classified as...
MissIiVannaH answered Saturday September 18 2004, 9:26 pm: 1. If i were you i wouldn't clasify him or clissify the gurls he is into.
2.well if he looks for certain type of gurls and yall 2 hang out and talk and hit it off then u shouldn't change have to worry about youself cause i bet there is nothing wrong with u and there is No such thing of being to punk.
3.yes there is a chance for you but u shouldn't try to much and don't listen to people here what he has to say for himself because maybe he likes u already. [ MissIiVannaH's advice column | Ask MissIiVannaH A Question ]
XxRockon answered Saturday September 18 2004, 9:24 pm: hmm.I think that you shoudl go with your first thought that you should not change for a guy no matter what, evne thouh u really like him he will probably like yoiu no matter what your style is. If he onestly only goes for punk girls he is very narrowminded and missing out on other great oppurunities. To get him to notice you, you don't have to dress in punk clothes, you could just go over and try and start a conversation. I definatly think you have a chance if you see that he likes u and you guys have a connection..just remember to stay true to yourself and best of luck with him :) [ XxRockon's advice column | Ask XxRockon A Question ]
MissEmmyBoo answered Saturday September 18 2004, 9:22 pm: WeLL maybe this guy wiLL notice you w/o u bein punk but maybe not since he only dates punks or w/e. maybe you should just wear those black bracelets or maybe black nail polish. :) [ MissEmmyBoo's advice column | Ask MissEmmyBoo A Question ]
Wariobidness answered Saturday September 18 2004, 9:19 pm: If he likes you enough to go out with you he'll broaden his horizens. If he doesn't wanna do that then you can be freinds with him but make sure you don't sacrafice yourself for him.
judith16 answered Saturday September 18 2004, 9:18 pm: ok for starters:
if you like him, then you probably need to talk to him...if you dont he probably will never consider going out with you because...
guys never EVER suggest a relationship first you have to give him a hint that you dig him..
ok now to answer your questions...
1. i dont really like the idea of ME ever being 1 because it seems like alot of peeps are going that way and im myself
2. YOU HAVE TO TALK TO HIM!!!!
3. I think you most definitly have a chance with him!
Sherry answered Saturday September 18 2004, 9:16 pm: You said you heard he only goes for punk girls..how do you know for sure unless you try? Talk to him, get to know him and if he likes you for you then great. Punk or no punk you can still go out with him if he likes u.. [ Sherry's advice column | Ask Sherry A Question ]
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