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I got suspended!!:(
Okay im 13/f and today i got suspended for kissing my boyfriend and we wernt even on school property and now we can barely talk the only thing we can do is talk and give hug's but can you give me advice on this please befor tomarro even thoug il lbe home
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well for 1 thing> they had no bizz suspending you. that was stupid but anyways, all i can say is try to call him. let him no that getting suspendid is not going to stop you from talking to him. hope i helped. snowbunny
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If you go to a private school, there's not much you can do. Just make sure you don't get seen kissing your boyfriend again by school officials.
If you go to a public school, I highly recommend you tell your parents and take this to court. Suspending you for kissing a boy outside of school grounds is illegal. If it was a public school that did this and you take this court, chances are you will win, the teacher who suspended you will get fired, and you'll get some money from the lawsuit.
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There is a lot you can do. Tell your parents what happened and that some "big shot" teacher etc. harassed you about it and got you suspended. They can approach the principal and have it out with them.
If this doesn't work call the editor of your local paper and tell them your story or write a letter to the editor. I've seen this done and have used this method before.
The school doesn't want the local paper focusing in on them because a teacher got a kid suspended for kissing. It's no big deal.
Think of like this when protesters get arrested for demonstrating for what they believe in they can get brought up on all kinds of charges but rally didn't do anything criminal. While a different situation it's the same kind of deal.
It's a dumb reason for a suspension and anyone who sees it on your student records will laugh at a teacher or principal that was loopy enough to give it to you.
Have you parents challenge the school on this along with your boyfriend and his parents and have them threaten to go to your local paper with this strange story about how you got suspended. That will change the tide believe me as I've had to do the same thing.
Defend yourself vigorously here as you are guilty of nothing and they over-reacted. Your fellow pupils and parents with kids in the same school need to see you fight over this because the PTA can put a ton of pressure on the school as can the schoolboard to reverse this if a ton of pressure is put on them.
There's a lot you can do. You did nothing wrong even if it was on school property unless you had guidlines or rules on paper informing you of some kind of bylaw there's no excuse except for a teacher who was seriously power tripping for a suspension.
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You got suspended for kissing your boyfriend? That's not school -- that's prison!
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Anyways, there's nothing you can really do. It's the school's rules & you've gotta follow them, no matter how dumb & unfair they may be.
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unfortunately when your caught doing something like that..parents really freak out..the best thing you can do is wait it out...eventually your parents will trust you again..and then you can go back to kissing...i dunno if your parents let you guys hang out or anything but just take it slow...earning the trust of the sschool and your parents back will take time...n plus if the relatinoship lasts that long you know you got a good thing going if you guys can go without the physical part of a relationship
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