Member Since: March 7, 2007
Answers: 38
Last Update: August 3, 2007
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what are some good ways to get a shy guy to come out of his shell? (link)
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14/f
one good skill that i always use is> make him laugh. even if it means you got to act alittle crazy or stupid. most people i know like to laugh. Or if he dont laugh often, find a subject that he likes and get his opions on it. hope it works,
Abby
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help me. i'm starting to act like my mom. being hot tempered, nagging all the time, it really sucks. and i'm only thirteen. everybody else has been noticing this, even my mom. i dont wanna stay like this. what do i do? (link)
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14/f
well the same thing started happening to me. and me and my mother dont really mix> so when all that started to happen i spent time away from her and more with some one i wouldnt mind acting like if we hung out alot. "like my friends" so try to spend some time away from her. hope it wors out, snowbunny
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My bf is in a different town. 7 miles away. He wants me to take his car and come down and see him. I really need to. I haven't seen him for several weeks. And when he still lived here I saw him everyday. So it's very different. I just don't know how to ask my mom or do I just do it? I know I would be back the next day. So should I just go, or tell her the truth. (link)
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14/f
well 1st of all do you have your license? lol. and do you think that your mom would let you? think about it 1st.
and to tell the truth the RIGHT thing to say is> dont go. but something I would say is go 4 it. i would, if your mom does not like him,dont know about him, or would say no> knowing me i would do it... JUST DONT GET CAUGHT!
hope it works out! snowbunny
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Okay im 13/f and today i got suspended for kissing my boyfriend and we wernt even on school property and now we can barely talk the only thing we can do is talk and give hug's but can you give me advice on this please befor tomarro even thoug il lbe home (link)
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well for 1 thing> they had no bizz suspending you. that was stupid but anyways, all i can say is try to call him. let him no that getting suspendid is not going to stop you from talking to him. hope i helped. snowbunny
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Ok, I plan on going into the navy when I get out of High School, but being a female I am slightly worried about it. I want to know what guys take is on the situation and people who have had personal experience. Greatly Appreciated!
-Me (link)
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well i just wanted you to know that you should do it. we need more females to do things like that. im actually going to be a marine when i get out of high school also.so im behind you 100%. holla bac at the snowbunny
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My boyfriend and I recently decided to have sex. I was not a virgin my first time with him, but it was painful and I bled quite a bit during. The blood eventually stopped after 3 days or so. Today we decided to try again. And while not quite the ammount of last time I did bleed and there was a slight bit of pain. Does anyone have any idea what might be going on? (link)
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well this is okay. every girl goes through this. see what it is is when you have sex, his "you know what" tears your "you know what" and when it tears it bleeds. but its okay. i bleed for a few days to. now if you are like bleeding alot like a period THEN i would talk to a doctor. but if you are not bleeding that much then you should be okay. hope i helped. snowbunny
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I was taking my usual ballet class...and while doing a split...I felt pain in *that* area. I'm 15 btw. I went to the bathroom to see what was going on...And I started to bleed...and was sore and that *area* hurt. But it wasn't my period. Because the time didn't come yet. Could it be possible that my cherry has "popped" un-sexually? (I haven't ever engaged in sex). Does this mean I'm not a virgin anymore? ;_; (link)
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14/f
well i certainly dont think that your cherry has popped. ive never heard of what happened to you. i also have no clue why it started to hurt. your cherry cant just "pop" on its on. a cherry can be popped only 1 way> when a "u no what" goes inside and pops the cherry. i think that maybe you should talk to your doctor because something doesnt sound right, im not trying to scare you eather but it would just be better if you get it checked out. hope i helped> snowbunny
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when you have sex is it really necessary to be on the pill and have the guy wear a condom? or is it safe enough to just have a condom (link)
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well my point-of-view, i dont think you should be on the pill if the guy is wearing a condom. plus being on pills can pervent you from having children in the future,"my 2 sis cant have children bc they were on the pill" and i think that as long as you make sure the condom does not rip or come off then you should be okay. hope i helped> snowbunny
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My ex came over and we were planning on having sex, but I wanted to you know... be intimate before we did. He got aggravated and took me in my room slammed the door and pretty much ripped off my ckothes and commenced to having sex, I didn't say no because at first I thought it was funny then as we went on I was just like.. let him finish and that'll be it forever. So finally he was done... but I didn't say anything. I felt dirty and nasty, my friend said that it was rape but... I don't know. What do you think? (link)
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well it depends. if you were willing the whole time> then no it was note rape. but if you told him to stop then it was rape. maybe he was just mad because you were taking a long time and you know how guys are> they like to get straight to the point. well hope i helped. snowbunny
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15/f - 15/m
sorry in advance if this is a tad long...
Tonight my boyfriend and I has sex for the first time. I DO NOT regret it all, I really do love him no matter what anyone else.. you can't tell me how I feel about it. I understand alot of people are against intercourse at young ages, but please don't lecture me.. just help.
The Problem: We both had never has sex before this. We were comfortable with it, but still nervous at the same time. First time gitters I guess. Anyways, as he began to cum, he started to pull out. As he pulled out the comdon slipped off. Still half way in and half way out... as soon as we noticed, I pulled the condom out. We stopped and didnt continue at all. We are both scared. We are not sure, if anything accidently fell in or what. I think we are over thinking the negatives, and not focous on some of the positives. Anything that can help us. We CANT tell our parents, they would kill us.. and we are both the oldest so no older sibling to run to... If it helps anything, I just got off my peirod last week around Thursday. We need people who know what they are talking about. We're scared
I guess one the worst things that could have happened did.. Things go wrong, and I guess it just wanst our day.
Please anything..
Thanks so much !! (link)
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14/f
ok im only 14 n i lost mine at 13. so im def not gonna tell you that you are a bad person.i know alot for my age. so, my ? is did he cum inside f you. and also, if he did> you dont ALWAYS get pregnut. get back at me and tell me if he did inside you so i will know what to say and i might need a few details so i can see clearly on this if you dont mind. "snowbunny"
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so this guy i like who is 18 told me about a month ago that the only thing he really wanted was sex. he didnt want a relationship. he wanted sex and that's it. He said we should hang out and get to "know each other" because we dont know each other that well. He said that honestly he isn't sure he'll fall for me or not, but the number one thing is sex. He didnt specifically say it. but THATS all ive noticed he talks about. So i talked to him & told him that he i dont respect him since obviously he doesnt respect me. So now it's become a little bit of a fight and he understands what i mean. So now he doesnt want to have anything to do with me. I still like him though.
its difficult.
15/f (link)
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14/f
well i think you should completely stop talking to him. plus are you sure he is not messing with other girls. you seem like a smarter girl then to get "used" by a guy. find a guy that cares about you and WANTS a relationship, not a guy that uses you for ALL the wrong reasons. i know that its hard to NOT like a guy that you are having intercourse with "also the kissing and stuff". its hard to not have an attraction toward someone you mess around with. but think about it this way.>.> "hes usein me, he dont like me like that, hes just saying that stuff to get with me . hope it works out for you...
advice anytime, about anything.
holla back at the snowbunny "abby n antwan"
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13/f
alright. um..
i like this guy A LOT (we'll call him bob). he has a girlfriend & they've been going out for like more than a month. the thing is, they don't do anything. i never see them talk & they have only hugged like once. that's all the farther they've gone. my bff has been going out with this guy for 3 weeks & they hang out a lot, talk evweryday, are constantly holding hands, & have kissed like 4 or 5 times.
my problem is, is that i don't know if i could ever go out with someone like that. someone that doesn't act like a boyfriend should. so my question is, should i move on? should i wait for him? if i do & we end up going out, is he gonna act the same way? i just don't know what to think or do.
help? (link)
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14/f
well it depends. if you and this guy are like BEST FRIENDS or yal can talk about anything. then you should be like "so have you and her ever kissed?" when he answers be like "how come you and her never hold hands or anything?" try to find out more why they dont do anything. myabe he's not that type of guy. but if i were you id just ask him more questions and find out more. so then, if you still like him then all i can say is keep trying.,.,
holla back at the snowbunny "abby n antwan"
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14/m
Ok, the other day my friend(15/f)told me that she likes me. But she has a boyfried, and she doesn't know what to do...Do you have any ideas on what I should do, 'cause I like her to and I don't want to feel like I'm caught in some sort of love triangle...
But she really likes me and her boyfried and doesn't know what to do...thanks in advance (link)
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14/f
well, does her bf know that something is going on between you n her? i think that you should talk to her and just be like "hey, you knowi like you, but you have a bf and i dont wanna be in the middle, but you should think of who you like more and whatever your choice is we will alwayz be friends" holla back at da snowbnny n tell me if it worked... "abby luvz tyree"
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my boyfriend does weed.... it pisses me off... i wish he would quit... he tells me that he is going to do it less... weekends and one day on the weekdays.... he does it too much... he hasnt stuck with it... i dont know what to do... should i tell him its either me or that or should i tell him to cut down and if he doesnt im going to have to let him go ? i love him sooo much ... i wanna marry this kid... i just wish he was more addicted to me rather than that... its seems like that is his first priority... i hate it... what should i do? please help.. (link)
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14/f
i kno what its like 2 be addicted to weed. its not easy AT ALL to quit. so the only thing you can do is just tell him not 2 talk bout it, or smoke infront of you. bc if you tell him your gonna break up with him over that then he'll just smoke it behind your back>>>> so no point in that.
holla bac at ya snowbunny "Az 4 lyfe"
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Me and my girlfriend have been dating for 7 months now and going on our 8th, we was so great the first 5 months and then we started fighting over nothing, and i hate it when i fight with her because i love her and i dont want to lose her and i dont know what to do to stop the fighting. so what should i do? (link)
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14/f
well all relationships have there ups n downs. i like 2 argue with my bf bc we never do.when you n your girl argue DNT ARGUE BACK. just hugg her n b like "im not arguein bc i love ya" n say sweet things, kiss her n stuff. just dnt argue back>>>
holla bac at ya snowbunny "Az 4 lyfe"
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Ok, I liked this girl last year (in 8th grade) and I asked her out and she rejected me. But we became like brother and sister. But the thing is that after she rejected me, I couldn't get over her and I STILL like her. And I know she doesn't like me more that a friend, but I wish she did 'cause then bottling up my feelings for her, wouldn't be necessary...WHAT DO I DO!? Thanks in advance... (link)
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14/f
well maybe your just a friend figure to her. show her your romantic side and be sweet. also dont hang around her alot, let her MISS you. then she mite relize she does likes you and MISSES how you and her use to chill.
HOLLA BAC Az 4 lyfe>>
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My boyfriend told me he loved me the other day.
And I froze because I don't love him back.
What should I have said, and what should I say in the future when I still don't love him and he says it again? (link)
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14/f
well i waz in that situation 2. i didnt say i love you back. instead id just be like "um okay" id tell him "look i like you but i dnt wanna hurt you, i just dont love you." how long have you and him been datin? and do you think your going to be 2gether for a while??? holla bac
Az 4 yfe
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15/f (16 this year)
I recently got caught up on my appearance. As a young girl I used to look in the mirror and promise myself I was beautiful and not let anyone tell me otherwise. I grew older and began to give in to the pressure to look good. I made my best attempt to keep the matter in perspective, and I now have a look that I think is great.However, it did make me spend many nights worrying and obsessing.
Unfortunately, when I look around a room of people I still compare myself to other girls. (Immature) guys just care about looks right now, and when a guy is paying attention to some other girl I'm tempted to think I'm ugly and undeserving of their attention.
This insecurity rarely shows through and I try my best to be confident. I just wish people would see everything I've worked for (appearance, grades, personality) but no one really seems to appreciate it. I'm afraid to fall into worry over such unimportant things again.
Is there any way to encourage people to see my strengths and potential? Or does it just take the right person?
I realize there's no right answer to my question, so if you would like to add any general insight on the situation I would like that also. Thanks, help is greatly appreciated!
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14/f
well i think ALL girls do that. i know i do! but im not the finest girl out there, no 1 is really. even dime-pieces think they need 2 lose weight and stuff, i feel that way to. id be in a crowd, there are pretty girls and fine guys, but im like "how come a guy aint talkin to me?" i think "well prob bc that girl has a better body or prettier and bigger butt" haha. but i think that if there is something on yourself that you like> then girl flaunt it> thats what the other girls do. i flaunt my eyes,smile, and legs bc thats what i like most about myself. so you should try it. holla bac at ya snowbunny
Az 4 lyfe "kizzaz"
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15/f. ok, so there's this guy who's a senior and lives about 45 min away from me, but he's kinda scared to drive on highways and so doesn't really visit me. we're really close friends and we hooked up on saturday. problem? he and my sister hate each other and my friends don't really like him either. i know my friends wouldn't care if i hooked up with him again or did anything else, but my sister would. she hates him. she started the fight that got them to hate each other in the first place and it's just so ridiculous. after he and i hooked up, she asked me about it and she knew i was lying, so she eventually got the truth out of me: we did. she told my mom and we didn't speak for a full day, the longest we've ever been mad at each other. she really hates him. so what should i do? should i just completely defy her and be "friends with benefits" with him? or should i not let the relationship continue? (link)
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14/f
well what i do when my family member dnt like who im datin is not tell them. but thats me. maybe you should tell your sis how happy he makes you, etc. haha my bf had took me AND my family member to the movies. they talked a little. they dont hate eachotha anymore but she still dislikes him, but she never says to not date him anymore so thats a start. lol, all advice i can give you is to talk it out... holla bac at ya snowbunny
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OK well my ex started talking to me a while ago, and he says that he still likes me and wants to get back togather (he broke up with me by the way) But we talk every once in a while, but we really never see eachtoher in school, so its mainly just talking on aol. But he says he wants me back, and he asked me to the movies this weekend, but other then that he really dosn't do anything about it. Like he dosn't really flirt with me that much, and he really hasn't "made a move" or anything. idk if he says that he still likes me then why isn't he acting like it? (link)
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14/f
well if that was me "and ive already been there haha" i would ask him "hey if you like me so much y dont you act like it?", but when that happened to me, turns out he didnt want any1 to know bc HE HAD ANOTHER CHICK ON THE SIDE! so hey you never know, try to ask his friends "thats how i found out" haha holla bac at ya snowbunny... Az 4 lyfe
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