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He Only Wanted Sex
so this guy i like who is 18 told me about a month ago that the only thing he really wanted was sex. he didnt want a relationship. he wanted sex and that's it. He said we should hang out and get to "know each other" because we dont know each other that well. He said that honestly he isn't sure he'll fall for me or not, but the number one thing is sex. He didnt specifically say it. but THATS all ive noticed he talks about. So i talked to him & told him that he i dont respect him since obviously he doesnt respect me. So now it's become a little bit of a fight and he understands what i mean. So now he doesnt want to have anything to do with me. I still like him though.
its difficult.
15/f
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well i think you should completely stop talking to him. plus are you sure he is not messing with other girls. you seem like a smarter girl then to get "used" by a guy. find a guy that cares about you and WANTS a relationship, not a guy that uses you for ALL the wrong reasons. i know that its hard to NOT like a guy that you are having intercourse with "also the kissing and stuff". its hard to not have an attraction toward someone you mess around with. but think about it this way.>.> "hes usein me, he dont like me like that, hes just saying that stuff to get with me <called spitin game>. hope it works out for you...
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Well...maybe he should had lied to you, act as if he cared, talked, act romantinc and give you a crappy present first.. Dont worry, next time he wont make that mistake.
Wanting just sex and nothing more is not a bad thing. You are both doing each other a favor. If its not what you are looking for then nobody is forcing you to do anything.
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wooow...well ill tell u what happened hear exactly...u made yourself cheaper then dust.He knew you liked him and he took advantage of that.You were all over him and so hes like hey,she likes me shell do anything i want so why not?And since you gave him that chance he used you for sex and now he might not even consider being with you,this is how some guys think they think that if she did it with me then she probably did it before and will do it again so i cant trust her.You shouldnt give it up to any guy like that!Damn!where are the modest girls at these days?!The only thing you can do now is totalllllly forget about him because if you go back to trying to get to him youll end up losing more dignity then you already did and he might even try to have sex with you AGAIN!Forget about this guy and never try this again.What you did was aim for his sexual side insteada his emotional side(which is the right side for making a guy like you)
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This guy is not even worth your time, honestly. I know, it's hard because a part of you still likes him. However, you said yourself that you don't respect him because he doesn't respect you. A relationship is nothing without respect, and it doesn't sound like he wants a good relationship, as you do.
If all he's out for is sex, then you should let him go. He obviously doesn't care about you, if he did, he would want more from you than only sex. Not to mention if someone found out the two of you were having sex (hypothetically, speaking), he would go to jail because you're a minor and he's considered an adult.
I'm sorry for being so honest, but I hope it's something you appreciate. I really don't want you to be in this mess, because this guy is being a jerk. I wish you the best of luck, and recommend staying away from him.
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This is just one guy, believe me there are a LOT of guys out there and although you may feel you can never find anyone as nice, or as kool or who is as good looking - you will do because there is always someone out there who is better.
If this guy is interested in nothing but sex (which is pretty much confirmed since he now wants nothing to do with you) I'd say it's his loss and you should count yourself lucky because you deserve to be treated better than just a sex object. I know it might be hard to get over him but trust me time will help and you eventually will get over him. The good thing is that you managed to see what it was he was after without finding out too late which is what sometimes happens and by that time it is usually too late to go back to change things.
In my opinion you are better off without this guy. You can very easily find someone nicer who will respect you and like you for who you are andnot just for what they can get from you. Guys like him are the type of guys you are better off without. :]
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