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first time
15/f - 15/m
sorry in advance if this is a tad long...
Tonight my boyfriend and I has sex for the first time. I DO NOT regret it all, I really do love him no matter what anyone else.. you can't tell me how I feel about it. I understand alot of people are against intercourse at young ages, but please don't lecture me.. just help.
The Problem: We both had never has sex before this. We were comfortable with it, but still nervous at the same time. First time gitters I guess. Anyways, as he began to cum, he started to pull out. As he pulled out the comdon slipped off. Still half way in and half way out... as soon as we noticed, I pulled the condom out. We stopped and didnt continue at all. We are both scared. We are not sure, if anything accidently fell in or what. I think we are over thinking the negatives, and not focous on some of the positives. Anything that can help us. We CANT tell our parents, they would kill us.. and we are both the oldest so no older sibling to run to... If it helps anything, I just got off my peirod last week around Thursday. We need people who know what they are talking about. We're scared
I guess one the worst things that could have happened did.. Things go wrong, and I guess it just wanst our day.
Please anything..
Thanks so much !!
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14/f
ok im only 14 n i lost mine at 13. so im def not gonna tell you that you are a bad person.i know alot for my age. so, my ? is did he cum inside f you. and also, if he did> you dont ALWAYS get pregnut. get back at me and tell me if he did inside you so i will know what to say and i might need a few details so i can see clearly on this if you dont mind. "snowbunny"
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First of all:
Kudos to you for using your heads and using a condom.
Sometimes these things happen, and it's par for the course if you are sexually active. If you get your next period on time, chalk it up as a learning experience; you're probably not pregnant.
However, if you brought yourself into the world of the sexually active, it's time to deal with the big issue of birth control. If your main worry is pregnancy, you might want to consider getting on the pill, that way if this occurs again your chances of getting pregnant will be dramatically reduced. You should also have a yearly gyno exam and be tested for stds. If you can get to the health department on your own, most states have a birth control program, and they are NOT required to tell your parents nor will they contact you by mail. If you're going to get serious with your love interest, get serious about precautions!
Good going on the condom though, E for effort! ;)
<3 foxy
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Well if u get ur period next month no worries
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What you need to do is take a pill called night before I'm 15 and pregnant so I know but go get a pill and know I know I you feel
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same exact thing happened to my friend about two weeks ago. They went to plan parenthood together and got a morning after pill (it works for about 72 hours after you guys had sex.) Plan parenthood gave them it for free as well as a 6 month supply of birth control and about 20 condoms :]
they have a lot of locations in almost every city. go to their website [Link](Mouse over link to see full location) and look up their location. They also have information on the pill and everything. It'll say that you have to pay, but my friend didn't so i'm assuming you don't have to if you're under 18.
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first get a pregnancy test
and then go from there
youre probably fine because if
the condom was still in you i
doubt anything got in you because
all of the cum was like in the little
pocket of the condom
next time, your boyfriend probably
needs to wear a smaller condom
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THERE IS ALWAYS A CHANCE OF PREGNANCY WITH OR WITHOUT A CONDOM, WITH OR WITHOUT BIRTH CONTROL.
People don't realize that NOTHING is 100% effective.
My suggestion?
If you're really worried - get a pregnancy test.
If you're scared about buying the pregnancy test - have an older friend do it for you.
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:EDIT: If you wait about a week before taking the test it will be a little more accurate. You don't want to take it too early otherwise it will just give a false result. Wait a week and then give a test a try. Read all the instructions you get in the test as they can vary and for the test you buy it may require you to wait a bit longer.
From what you have said I think you should be safe from any risk of being pregnant. If you are still worried then the best thing to do is to get a home pregnency test done but wait about a week before you do so. Personally I think you're okay though. :]
Also, for your bf, I can understand this happening and just know it can happen. Best thing to do is to pull out a little before and not leave it to the very last second and you should be okay.
I don't have any opinion on 15 year olds having sex since the age of consent here (UK) is 16 anyway and personally I don't think anyone where I live even make it to 15 as virgins. :/ I will say though that it is nice to see that you both were responsible and careful to the point that you both thought about using protection. Most young people can get careless when it comes to protection. I commend you both on being careful and thinking ahead, well done. :]
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