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Head
(14/f)
When do you think is the right age to give head to a guy?
If you knew him for a long time?
My friend told me it would ruin my life if i do it
Suggestions PLEASE!
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If you feel comfortable with it, and you understand the risks and all that, and no one is making you do it.. then I don`t see the problem
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Its your choice not your friends. It will not be the end of your life, or anything like that.. so don't think that. Just be comfortable in your decision.
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It's up to you, you should do it whenever you're comfortable and ready to do it. I don't know how it would ruin your life if you do it, unless your friend means getting and STD (which is possible). So you should do whatever you're ready to do whenever you know that you're ready.
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There is no correct age to do any sort of sexual anything. It's all about when you're ready, and how far you want to go.
If you want to give a guy head, then go for it. If you don't, then don't. It doesn't get much simpler than that.
It's not going to ruin your life, but just to be on the safe side, if you don't know if this guy has an STD or not, use a condom. Flavored ones are nice for head.
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There is'nt any age to give head... It's just for fun and pleasure... If you've known him for a long time and you can trust him... Go ahead and try it... I'm sure you'll get the hang of it... And it's not like you're having full-on SEX.. It's just some nice, plesureable head... It wouldn't RUIN your life... But if your friend was talkin of STDs you might think of makin him wear a condom... But that would reduce the sensibility for the guy...
Best Of Luck for your first head...
xxxxx DaRkSiDe xxxxx
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It's really not about age unless you are a minor and he's an adult which isn't the case here. It's all about maturity. Both of you need to be mature here and understand the consequences involved with getting into sexual actitivity like this.
The first thing you have to establish is whether or not you and your partner are mature enough to handle this. He's known you for ages and you feel comfortable and connected to him. That's where you want to be.
However, having said that is he the type of guy who will enjoy the experience and then ditch you after he got what he wanted or tell all the guys at school about it?
A bigger problem for you both ( you didn't say you were in a relationship) is if you think this will destroy your friendship or relationship should anyone feel well, disappointed or embarassed or whatever. You both have to figure out if you can handle it and whether the friendship will change forever.
My advice is to talk to him. If you cannot talk to him one cannot expect to have sex of any kind with that person. Tell him you want to go to the next level and were thinking about oral sex for both of you or whatever else. Talk your concerns over and then decide together if you want to do this. Don't let him pressure you into it though.
I don't know where your friend gets her information on sex but this cannot ruin your life unless you aren't ready and have a negative experience with someone who made you feel embarassed or was a jerk that blabbed.
It sounds though that this guy is a good person. It's now up to you to talk to him about your ideas, go over your fears, plan things correctly and set up rules and boundaries especially about keeping things private between you both.
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there is no actual right age to give head. I know people who were as young as 10 who have given head and people in their 30's who still haven't. so really its whenever you feel its right. and no it doesn't ruin your life, that's her opinion. go with whatever you feel is right, its your choice and you have to live with it.
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I don't think there really is a 'right' age to it. Legally (in the US) I think you have to be 18+ otherwise it's called as statutory rape, I think.
But putting the law aside, you should ask yourself when the right time is. Is it someone you love? Is it someone who loves you and actually means it and isn't just someone out to get 'some'? Is it osmething you are being pushed into doing because of pressure from others around you?
There's no real age thing here. It's all about common sense and when you feel is the right moment. It's not a matter of you hitting 18 and having sex with the first person you come across because it's just the right/legal age to do that.
Many do regret things from their past, especially when it's things they can't change. If this is truly what YOU want to do though then no one cn really stop you. If it's something you are being forced into by peer pressure or because 'everyone else has already done it' then just wait. There's no hurry. That's the best suggestion I can give you, I hope it will help some. :]
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I know this isn't what you want to hear (i hate when people say it to me) but i think it really would depend on the person. I personally am 16 and i havent done it (and i dont plan on doing it). I'm just not ready, and the risks seem to big for me to handle. 14 seems a little young to me personally, and if you do it, it may become awkeward between you and your friend.
I hope this helped.
Good Luck!
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