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do i go or not
My bf is in a different town. 7 miles away. He wants me to take his car and come down and see him. I really need to. I haven't seen him for several weeks. And when he still lived here I saw him everyday. So it's very different. I just don't know how to ask my mom or do I just do it? I know I would be back the next day. So should I just go, or tell her the truth.
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well 1st of all do you have your license? lol. and do you think that your mom would let you? think about it 1st.
and to tell the truth the RIGHT thing to say is> dont go. but something I would say is go 4 it. i would, if your mom does not like him,dont know about him, or would say no> knowing me i would do it... JUST DONT GET CAUGHT!
hope it works out! snowbunny
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Well it is only seven miles! So driving shouldn't be a problem at all. Me and my bf live 15 miles away from eachother and I drive and see him everyday. It only takes me 10 to 15 minutes to drive to his house. So 7 miles would only take you 5 minutes or so. Now I think you need to weigh your options. Does your mom have a problem your bf? Does she have a problem with you spending the night? Does she have a problem with you driving? If alot of these answers are yes, then maybe you should try and sneak behind her back. BUT remember the consequences... If you get caught lying your mom might permantly never let you see him or talk to him again. Not worth it for one night of seeing him. So consider your options and the consequences and decide if it is worth it. Well I hope I helped hun. Remember: "Honesty is the best Policy"
~Sherah
PS:) Another thing... Why do you have his car? And why can't he drive and pick you up? (Just wondering)
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i agree with hollister_bitch: truth is usually the best option. and i also wonder why seven miles (why, i could walk that far for true love!!!) needs a sleepover? hey, we know what you (and he) have on your mind - it's best to tell mom and rely on her judgement in these cases!
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The truth is always best. I know this from experience. If you feel the need to explain yourself to your mom just tell her everything will be fine. You'll call or you'll have his parents call as soon as you get there. Try to make it easy for her to reach you. Seven miles away is not that far and i wouldnt understand why you would be back the next day when you'd be able to come home that night?
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