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I am a freshmen female in a college in New York, and I have been in almost a year long relationship now. I found out tonight that over spring break, right after we had our biggest fight, he'd told some of his friends from home that he'd had sex with me. I thought he was a decent guy, and he agrees it's wrong to discuss that because it's personal.
I found out today and am furious, because these are people I know. He INTRODUCED me to these people after he told them. The only way I found out was catching him in a lie.
I feel completely demeaned and violated. I don't know what steps to take next. (link)
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first: dump him, fast.
second: change your social network. however, just because they know you have a healthy sex life doesn't mean they would lose respect for you, so don't hit the panic button or treat them (or yourself) like a contagious epidemic!
third: remind yourself that you're an intelligent & attractive woman. tell yourself you deserve better than that jerk - and that the next time, you'll be more careful in vetting the guy you hook up with.
fourth: stop thinking like a victim. you've got/done NOTHING to be ashamed of. it's your (ex) bf who is the creepo.
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How do you get a guy to like you....im 15/f. i think this guy might be intrested but i want him to notice me and like me. (link)
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it's not easy, specially if he's checked you out and not thought you worth chasing after. so, just make sure you walk past him or even say something to attract his attention to you ever so briefly (you could just say something to someone he's chatting with - just make sure you make eye contact with him in every case), and then wait to see his reaction. if he's never noticed you before, he sure will now. and if he finds you interesting, he'll surely make the next move.
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My bf is in a different town. 7 miles away. He wants me to take his car and come down and see him. I really need to. I haven't seen him for several weeks. And when he still lived here I saw him everyday. So it's very different. I just don't know how to ask my mom or do I just do it? I know I would be back the next day. So should I just go, or tell her the truth. (link)
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i agree with hollister_bitch: truth is usually the best option. and i also wonder why seven miles (why, i could walk that far for true love!!!) needs a sleepover? hey, we know what you (and he) have on your mind - it's best to tell mom and rely on her judgement in these cases!
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ok so me and my boyfriend want to have sex. i of coarse want to use a condom and hes fine with that. I just wanted to know as much information i can on what to do before hand to prevent anything bad. Like where can i find information on the pill and what types of tests do they do on you to check for stds. i also wanted to know where i can go to get on the pill with out my mom knowing. Im 19 f if that helps (link)
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i'm not in the US so i can't give you specific places to go to, but you do need to find a doctor or health service that you can trust - for a long, long time. so my advice is hold on for a bit, look around (ask your mates - you'll be surprised how many of them know stuff!), make contact, and then give yourself to lust! :-)
looks like your bf is understanding too, it would do him good to get a checkup as well.
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15/f.
how do i become more confident? (link)
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it's not easy. to be confident, you need to work on yourself from the inside and outside. on the inside, you need to discover and cherish those qualities within you that make you special. on the outside, you must discover and develop your real potential until you become fluent or competent in something. it's easier if you have friends who care, and a mentor or advisor who also cares. but it's possible for each one of us to become confident in our own skin, so don't give up!
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