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controling boyfreind


Question Posted Tuesday April 24 2007, 1:17 am

i think my daughter has a controling boy friend what are the symtoms of this

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leah87 answered Tuesday April 24 2007, 2:39 am:
having had a controlling boyfriend before its not somewhere you want your daughter to be.
most controlling boyfriends tend to be abusive as well and if not abusive pushy or agressive.

*this includes him avoiding you as the parent

*your daughter might lash out at you bc of him

*she becomes distant

*not letting your daughter hang out with friends

*keeping her away from family as much as possible

*you will notice her saying "robert wants to go to the movies can i go"...instead of "i want to go to the movies can i go."

*they fight all the time over simplistic things

*he always makes her cry and her self esteem lowers

*she seems to feel overpowered

*he makes her think that he is always right no matter what

*she is pressured into sex or sexual actions

hope some of these helped...those are just a few that i experienced or have read about :)

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orphans answered Tuesday April 24 2007, 2:35 am:
Wow, mom if you think he is most likey, he doesnt allow your daughetr to do things that she used too, she may become more aggressive towards to, even sad, needs to call him or speak to him ALL the time, is scared he'll be jealous/mad/or disappointed in her if she makes a decision on her own. All i know is, if she does. She needs to drop him fast because guys like that become a threat.

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